When you have been recently diagnosed with ocular melanoma, I believe there is nothing more inspirational to help one deal with it than Steve Job's (Apple's new deceased CEO) 2005 Stanford commencement speech, just after he was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer.
The video is heer http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UF8uR6Z6KLc
And if you want more inspiring details on Steve Jobs, I recommend the approved biography by Walter Isaacson.
Peter L in NH
diagnosed jan 2012, biopsied class 1b cells feb 2012, proton beamed feb 2012, currently no mets, central vision on tumor eye virtually gone, vision in other (lazy) eye also part compromised