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SuzannefromCA's picture
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Last reply 5/6/2012 - 10:05pm

Hi all,

I am attending the symposium and am wondering who else is attending. I am looking forward to meeting other Ocular Mel warriors! I am hoping to go to Friday's Meet and Greet, but my plane is arriving at 5. Hoping to go and maybe we can have some dinner together!



Every day I wake up is a gift!

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Nan in Nebraska's picture
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Last reply 4/6/2012 - 3:15am
Replies by: Sara - CURE OM

Hello All,

Well, I had my first re-induction infusion of Yervoy yesterday. I will have 4 cyberknife treatments to the lesion between my stomach and spleen. My oncologist did speak with a colleague of Dr. Wolchok's and his recommendation was to do cyberknife between the first and second infusion. So praying and keeping my fingers crossed for the "abscopal effect".

I'm looking forward to the symposium in June. If everything goes as scheduled, my last infusion will be June 6th. :)


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Last reply 4/15/2012 - 4:27pm
Replies by: abrown, Sara - CURE OM, Anonymous, edamaser


I wondered if anyone as experinced multiple family members with OM?  My son was born with and Iris nevus in 2007 and was seen by and Ophthamologist a couple of weeks later.  The doctor told us at the time they were common and we would keep a close watch on it because they have the potential to turn malignant. 

At that time my sister had a spot in her eye that I thought she should get checked out because it had started to get visibly larger, and because of what my sons doctor had told me she should be watched also.  She has been monitored every year since then and more often recently when it appeared to have grown last year.  She has been seen by a couple of oc. oncologists.

Last July I started seeing a flashing light in my right eye and went to see a local Oph.  He believed that it was a hemangioma and sent me on to a retina specialist.  The retina specialist believed it to be choroidal melanoma and sent me on to a ocular oncologist.  The oc. oncologist has been monitoring my lesion since then, and it wasn't until my appointment last week that it showed growth with sub-retinal fluid also.  I will be getting my lesion treated with plaque therapy.

I wondered if there were any other families with similar situations.  My oc. oncologist recommended that my son be watched closely also, so he had his first documented pictures yesterday by a local oph.  If anyone has been in a similar situation I would really appreciate any information you can give about this seemingly familial link.

Thanks so much,


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edamaser's picture
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Last reply 5/22/2012 - 11:10pm

Hi Everyone,

About two weeks ago I felt like a switch had been turned on--I felt so very good.  I still feel good.  I haven't felt this good in years, mostly, I thought because of side effects of the many, many treatments I have had.  But now I suddenly have more energy, do without naps, my brain seems to be functioning better, my appetite has returned and is even more ferocious than before, etc.  .

If you remember, my calcium several weeks ago went way up, and I ended up in the hospital.  I was feeling pretty bad.  Even after I got out of the hospital they could not seem to get the calcium down, and I was feeling worse and worse.  I had Zometa, but two weeks after that calcium was still up.  Then the "switch" went off, and I felt great.  A couple of days ago I had labs again, and the calcium is now normal.  Maybe it was a delayed reaction to Zometa.

One doc said that he thought my feeling good has everything to do with the calcium coming down.  I don't know the cause for sure, but I'm thrilled about the "new" me.

They have no idea what caused the rise in calcium in the first place, but a special blood test was done to see if it was caused by the cancer metastases.  I found out that it is not coming from the cancer!  Hooray, but no one knows what caused the rise in calcium, or if it will return.

Just thought I'd share about this calcium business--I don't think I've heard about anyone else who had calcium problems.


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RuthG's picture
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Last reply 4/6/2012 - 12:44pm

Hello -

My partner has just been diagnosed with uveal melanoma. He's scheduled to have an eye removed day after tomorrow. He might join this forum after he's had the surgery, but right now he's got other things on his mind.

I'm very glad to find this group. He's been able to talk with a couple of people who have lost an eye, or lost vision in an eye, as adults. But we've never heard of OM before, and we don't know anyone who is experiencing the same thing.

We're very lucky that we live not far from Philadelphia, and he was tested and diagnosed at Wills Eye Institute. The surgery will be done there as well. That's one of the things thats helping both of us right now -- knowing that Wills is an excellent place to be if you have this particular problem.

We've already signed up for the symposium in Philadelphia in June. I hope we'll get to meet some of you there.

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Nan in Nebraska's picture
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Last reply 4/27/2012 - 4:41pm

Dear Esther,

I've been thinking about you and wondered how your brain MRI went? Hope your news was good.



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Nan in Nebraska's picture
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Last reply 5/24/2012 - 11:14pm

Sara and Lesley, both of you being physicians, I'd like your opinions.

The results of my scans are not what I wanted to hear, but not surprising. The nodular mass between stomach and spleen is 5.2 x 3.6, up from 4.3 x 2.9 in Jan. and 3.4 x 2.3 in Oct., 2011. Several mesenteric/lymph nodes have also increased. Slight enlarged nodule in right lung base. (these have not really scared me as I've had numerous areas and they do seem to remain approx. the same) Ironically, radiologist feels some improvement in the liver as he only identified two locations, but MRI of abdomen in Jan. stated 5 lesions from Nebraska radiologist and 6 lesions from Dr. Sato?? I have sent my info. to Dr. Nutting for review. As I stated before, my main focus is the large lesion by the stomach. I asked the doctor that called yesterday (my doctor on vacation) about the possibility of doing Ipi re-induction, as that had been approved when I was on the compassionate trial, then doing cyberknife to the lesion after the Ipi (hopefully to get the same effect as the patient of Dr. Wolchoks) and his response was "how do you feel" -  "you know you could die from doing the Ipi". I told him I'd had very little if any side effects the first time and he said that it could be different the next time. I felt he was a bit negative! Do you have to wait to feel bad before you do something? I'm frustrated/confused.... I do feel fine. Do I just sit and let things GROW??

I did ask them to re-read my PET scan that was done in Jan. as the only mention was mild uptake in my one shoulder and I've been having some rotator cuff issues. Stated- PET images were "clear of any metabolically significant activity".

Something else I wanted to mention was that my LDH on my last labs was 95, which is below normal. Any thoughts on that?

I'm abit down, not knowing what the next step should be. I see my doctor on Monday, the 19th. She is very good and does listen, but is not a melanoma specialist.

Anxiously awaiting your thoughts.


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Please join us for a free teleconference on April 12, 2012 from 8-9pm EST. The topic is "When Mom or Dad has Melanoma" and will be hosted by Dr. Fran Lewis from the University of Washington. Don't forget to register! 

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Last reply 3/21/2012 - 12:14pm

I went to an Ocularist in New Orleans who I wont name on 3/8/12, I'm not thrilled with the eye. At 8 weeks from enucleation I was ready for my prosthesis, he put me off a month because of Mardi Gras. During that month, I still had my conformer in from the enucleation, I could literally feel my socket area shrinking and sinking in. The prosthetic eye is in, upper lid hangs a bit, the prostheses looks quite a bit smaller than the other eye, it also looks like the whole eye area is lower than the other. The eye has been full of crud or whatever u call it each morning. Im so unhappy, no one told me that putting off the fitting for a month would cause the socket to shrink and sink. Friends and family just say it looks like a lazy eye, and not bad at all. I go back in 2 weeks for adjustment. I looked at pictures of people with prosthetic eyes, most perfectly match the other eye, I believe I got the bottom of the barrel as far as Ocularists go

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Dear All,

I want to let you know about a every exciting upcoming event...

Join us on May 6 in Los Angeles for Miles for Melanoma on the Universal Studios backlot-- a 5k run/walk.  This will convene at Universal Studios Hollywood to help raise critical awareness and funding needed for new treatment breakthroughs.  Along the route, participants will see iconic movie sights, including the Bates Motel, sets from Jaws and Back to The Future, and the village of Whoville!

We want to form a specific CURE OM team to participate in this event to raise awareness about OM and also to raise much needed funding specific to ocular melanoma.... if you are interested in being a part of the CURE OM team, please post here or email

We look forward to seeing you in LA and working together to raise awareness and funds to find a cure for ocular melanoma.

Warm Regards,

Sara - CURE OM

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edamaser's picture
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Last reply 11/28/2012 - 5:33pm

I would like to share with you something that has come up for me as a consequence of metastatic cancer that I never heard of before, and since I've been at this for 9 years, it is a bit surprising. I would like to inform you all with metastatic cancer that this might happen to you as well.

 The condition is hypercalcemia--too much calcium in the blood. In my case, I ended up in the hospital for 3 days while they figured out the situation and what to do about it. They think it is caused by the melanoma itself, which releases some substance that encourages calcium to be leached out of my bones. For anybody this is pretty serious, but for an old lady like me, it's scary. I will end up getting zometa, which only will slow down the leaching. Nothing can replace the calcium already leached out. Be sure to note that I do not have any bone mets, if my hypercalcemia is caused by cancer, it is all soft tissue cancer.

 The possible symptoms are wide-ranging: for e.g., confusion, memory loss, constipation, abdominal pain, kidney stones, etc. etc. The condition of hypercalcemia is discovered by a simple blood test.

Has anyone encountered hypercalcemia before?



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lak's picture
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Last reply 7/3/2012 - 11:28am


I am in the UK, I was diagnosed with OM 5 years ago and became stage IV with liver metastasis in May 2009. I am 53 now and never thought I would see 2012. I have had a hard time  in the National Health Service getting a proactive approach to my disease. In the beginning it was very lonely. Things are changing and now most clinicians admit to patients that the disease can spread outside the eye.  I am now looked after by excellent doctors who are prepared to answer my questions and inform me about my disease. I have been extremely lucky , my small choroidal melanoma was close to the fovea but Proton beam has enabled me to have better than 6/6(20/20) vision. I have had avastin vitrectomy and cataract ops too. My liver was looked after by a top MRI specialist who found my metastases very early. These were treated first with liver resections x2 then ipilimumab recurrences 6 months later SIRT sorted all but 2 of 18 metastasis throughout the liver. Microwave ablation sorted the last 2. The latter treatment was the hardest and completed in Dec I am only just getting fit again. My 5k time is embarrassingly slow but then many UK 53 year old females can not do 5k at all! I have added swimming and cycling too to my fitness regime to try and rest my joints a bit. My latest scans are all clear of disease. I have plans to run a 10k and maybe a half marathon- but also a SCUBA trip to the Maldives. I have only had  surgery.ipilimumab and radiation for treatments no actual chemotherapy .I am writing this post because I think it is so important that we all unite and share information both between patients and doctors but also across the table.

I accessed treatments because I was informed. In 2007 if you had a poor diagnosis it generally was not thought wise for a patient like me to be informed. I was empowered to get myself informed by an American Charity (Lance Armstrong Foundation) and I owe them the time I have gained. I then met other patients through the internet and Sara and learned through others experiences and "Google" . Many US doctors have seen my scans at various times and advised me. Several times I have been on the verge of traveling to the US for treatment only to be able to access treatment in the UK. For some reason it is easier to find out "who does what" in the US than it is in the UK. I profusely thank all the US doctors who have responded to my emails over the last 5 years it gave me so much support and ideas.  I hope by supporting CureOm and sharing across the pond that situation will change.

Reading Tom's post brought back so many memories of that first year post diagnosis- I really don't think I slept more than 15 minutes at a time for a whole year. For people with a new diagnosis I really want to tell them that even if the worst happens its not all bad. For those of you who have developed metastatic disease like me - yes its not always easy. For those carers who have lost their loved one - I am so sorry- but I thank you so much for continuing to be here and fighting for a cure for us. To the doctors who treat us I m sorry we are sometimes angry and you guys get in the firing line, I m sorry we don't often do well - it must be a hard disease to watch as a clinician over a career.

To all of those involved patents, carers and doctors sharing information and experiences from around the world has contributed to my disease free status- I am sure if team working across specialties and doctor patient relationships can be built on across the globe then a cure will be found for this disease.

Carpe diem


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Nan in Nebraska's picture
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Last reply 4/26/2012 - 10:01pm

Hi All,

Has anyone heard of Cixutumumab (IMC-A12)? Is anyone on this trial? I have just heard of it and am wanting more info.



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Last reply 12/29/2011 - 1:03pm

Hey everybody!  I was in on the teleconference, but didn't get a chance to ask my question, mostly because I was trying to figure out the best way to ask it.  I really enjoyed listening to Dr. Harbour and Dr. Flarety. 

Here's my question.  My mother in law passed away from metastatic OM in March of this year.  There is a strong family history of cancer in her family.  Her father died of bone cancer, her brother died from either brain or lung cancer, but was also in Viet Nam.  Now that gene mutations have been identified, would it make sense for her siblings and her children to be tested for the same mutations?  Is there even a test out there that is known in the general physican community for them to request? 

I was also so irritaited during the phone conference because there was talk of doing biopsy's of the OM tumors upon diagnosing.  I asked my mother in laws doctor about doing a biopsy and was told "oh no, we don't do that for fear of the cancer breaking out and spreading to other places."  Just goes to prove even more about the lack of education on this disease. 

Thank you,

Molly Stoffa

The battle was lost, but the war must go on until a cure is found.

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