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Hi there,

First of all, English is not my native language, so please don't be distracted by my use of the language.

In 2013 I had a mole removed that had changed color on my right upper leg (<5 millimeters). My family doctor told me it was melanoma in situ, and told me that I needed to have a re-excision in hospital, because the cancerous tissue was too close to the border of the biopt. In the operating room however, I saw that someone had written 'stage I' on my chart. The surgeon told me she presumed it was stage I.

After a few excruciating weeks of waiting I got a good result back: there was no longer any evidence of malignancy found in the skin they removed during the surgery.  

Now, I'm at a point where I am trying to move on with my life. I'm finding this very hard, being worried a lot and always checking my skin and wondering if I am being alert or hypochondric about is. I also asked for the pathology report of the first mole removal, because I wish to understand what stage my melanoma was in.

The conclusion said that the pattern of melanocytic cells they saw in my skin was mostly something that would fit a melanoma in situ, however there was a focal laesion of 0,3 mm that was 'strongly suspect for beginning invasive growth'.

I keep wondering if the 0,3 mm is the Breslow thickness and if suspect means inconclusive or if it is just a eufemism for 'it is melanoma stage I'?

Can anyone help me?

It may seem arbitrary, but I can't seem to let this go, it is important to me.

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Last reply 4/24/2014 - 5:35am
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I woke up this morning and my entire right leg was throbbing, its the same leg that has the lump in the crease of my leg, as I mentioned before. So I went to work since today was an important day for me to be there, I ended up leaving around 4 cause the pain became to intense. This morning I checked the lump again with mirror and it is no longer the complexion I am which is fair skinned, it has actually turning to a darker shade grey, so with the pain in my leg, I left work and went to the ER. I explained why I brought myself there, when I was brought back and the nurse practitioner came in and looked at the lump and the black spot on my labia, this was her explanation 1. The lump is an from an in growing hair due to shaving, I looked at her and said, how is that possible when I found this lump before I shaved and I hadn't shaven all winter. No response from her 2. The black spot on the labia is a vein. I said that it wasn't there when I first noticed the lump. Still no response from her. She handed me a script for an antibiotic and said its an abscess. I said the lump doesn't not hurt, its not inflamed. Why does my leg throbb, all she said its an abscess and if the antibiotic doesn't work go see your physician, I would waited if my leg wasn't hurting. So now I am home, Should a second opinion be smart?

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Last reply 4/23/2014 - 7:52pm
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I am 33 years old, & I was recently diagnosed with stage 3a melanoma. I underwent a wide local excision with sentinel lobe biopsy, followed by a whole lobe dissection. My initial PET scan following the dissection showed "hot spots" across my neck &shoulders, but they think it was tension from me guarding the JP drain (I struggled with dealing with it quite a bit). I am scheduled to have my PICC line inserted in the morning, and I start Interferon-a infusions on Monday. The side effects sound pretty rough, & I was hoping for advice on making the best of it. Also, is the PICC line uncomfortable or difficult to deal with? Thanks for any advice you can offer!

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Last reply 4/23/2014 - 7:36pm
Replies by: Kim K

hi everybody, thank you very much for reading me. I need your help.

My husband is stage IIIa from june 2012 . He is  with  treatment of interferon pegylado (intron) from October 2012. My husband is now 40 years old, he  has its scan every 6 months and blood checks , the last scan showed enlarged lymph then made ​​a PET_CT.

The PET showed some hot spots in the enlarged nodes SUV 2.5 do not know if it's the inflammatory effect of interferon or recurrence of melanoma. At the end of this month to repeat the PET.  Next week  he will  PET-CT. This PET is very important because the pet will determine if are melanoma  recurrence or not.

I am very nervous and not deal with the PET result. We also tried several years ago to have a child, and right now I'm just waiting for the result of my second FIV-ICSI, and I should be quiet but I can not. We  have many misfortunes at this time I no longer feel I have more forces ...

appreciate any advice to confront the report of the PET.


Gaby (from argentina)

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Last reply 4/23/2014 - 4:04pm
Replies by: Anonymous, kpcollins31, Julie in SoCal

I keep reading lots of articles that say now is the best time to get melanoma. However I don't understand that cos there is no cure. Could someone please explain?

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Last reply 4/24/2014 - 3:30am
Replies by: Dick_K, paul, ad2424

I have tried Zelboraf at full dose two times and both times I have hit the wall with regard to joint pain around 6 or 7 days in.  Doctor's solution is to suspend the drug for 3 or 4 days and then restart.  Is there a better alternative to dealing with this pain?

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Last reply 4/23/2014 - 9:30pm
Replies by: Julie in SoCal, Anonymous, Mat

Hi friends!

Just wanted to give you a quick update in what's going on with me.  I'm stage 3c with intransit mets near my SNB scar.  I've now had all 4 Ipi infusions and tollerated them reasonably  well (though toward the end they were starting to kick my butt and so I was on a short steroid course).  

Three weeks ago I had my first post-ipi scan, and it showed that I have no new mets.  So I  have stable disease.  However, in the last 3 weeks I think I've had more intransit mets popup.  It's tough to say because these new ones are still small, but they itch like crazy.  

So here's my question:  How long does it take for ipi to kick in?  I'm 5 weeks out from my last infusion.  Shouldn't I be seeing my intransits melt away by now if it was working?  

Thanks for sharing your insight and experiences!



2009 Stage 3a, primary on hand, WLE & SNB (twice), LND, HD-INF, GM-CSF

2014 Stage 3c imultiple ntransit mets near SNB and WLE scar. 

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Replies by: casagrayson, gaby

I haven't been on here in a while, but I wanted to stop by and let you all know how I'm doing. You have all been so great and uplifting to me, and really helped me through so far. I was induced on March 13th, and gave birth to a beautiful, healthy baby girl. I was very happy to meet her, although melanoma loomed in the back of my mind the whole time. On March 21st, I had PET/CT scans done, and got the call on March 24th that they were all clear! Right in time for my Fiance's birthday on the 25th, so we went out to eat and celebrated both the good news, and his 26th birthday. It was a very good night. But I knew I had to have the lymph node dissection done still, since one node had micromets found after SNLB. I had this surgery on April 2nd. WOW...I did NOT expect that much pain. The groin area is NOT a place you wanna have surgery...and I guess the fact that I had the surgery about 2 weeks after delivering my baby made it even harder to recover. I spent one night in the hospital and am still recovering at home. I did develop a very nasty staff infection 2 weeks after surgery, which landed me back in the hospital, and then at my oncologist's office every day for a week for IV antibiotics. It's all cleared up now. So far, very little swelling/lymphedema. I actually ONLY get it when I wear my compression stocking. Weird...also, the rest of the lymph nodes taken were ALL CLEAR!!! This was the first time I could really breathe in months. It was a wonderful moment. I do know that I always have to look out for melanoma now though, for the rest of my life. But I am hopeful that I will beat the beast. This has by far been the hardest journey of my life, and I want to bring love and support to anyone else out there who is also battling this. ESPECIALLY if you are diagnosed while pregnant. I never, ever want anyone to deal with that awful awful stress. The stress from a melanoma diagnosis ALONE is enough to just drive you insane, add a melanoma diagnosis during pregnancy...I cannot even describe the despair I felt. I am doing so much better now, and I start Interferon on Monday, April 28th. I know it will be a VERY tough road, but I'm ready.

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I don't know about you but when I read articles like this I feel I could read the same within 5 years from now for advanecd Melanoma:

It seems that all of a sudden they were able to cure 90% of all patients suffering from this desease. I am happy for those patients and hope the same for people suffering from advanced melanoma (knowing that of course on the level of molecular biology this in not comparable at all).

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Last reply 4/23/2014 - 5:30pm
Replies by: Ginger8888, Kelly Smith

Hi everyone, i'm Ginger and i'm newly diagnosed with stage 3 C melanoma ..Here is a  little bit of my story..I'm hoping to learn some things from you guys and what you've been through..

I had a mole removed in Jan of 2014 by Michelle Palazzo and was diagnosed with stage 3 C melanoma 10 mm with lymph nodes involved..I underwent a neck dissection by Dr. William Wooden from Indiana University Hospital in Feb 2014 and the melanoma had wrapped around nerves and muscles in my neck..Surgeon said each node involved had 33 fingers of cancer coming off each one..He was shocked.He referred me to Leslie Fecher a melanoma specialist also from Indiana University Hospital.I am currently on my 3 rd week of the high dose interferon IV under the care of Dr Mian Mushtaq in Jeffersonville Indiana Norton Cancer Center(transfered treatment closer to home )and am not having hardly any side effects, i'm a little tired but that's about it..I will be doing the shots 3 times a wk for 11 months and possible radiation...I had a CT scan ran two wks ago and it came out fine..I'm hoping the shots are as easy as the 30 day treatment.,

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Last reply 4/23/2014 - 6:58am
Replies by: Anonymous, POW

I was diagnosed Stage IV in January and BRAF+ soon thereafter. Significant tumor load affecting all major organ systems, though I hadn't felt that anything was wrong until December. By the time I finally started treatment, I could barely walk across a room without help.  No brain mets. Getting treatment at Providence Portland.

After two months of Zelboraf, my tumor load had decreased by half and I was feeling much, much better. Soon after, I noticed what I thought was a new tumor under my scalp and then more in my neck, two new nodules near the primary, and another bump I could feel on my shoulder had started growing again. I was hoping for longer on the Zelboraf, but you get what

you get.

I've been given four options:

(1) IL-2

(2) Ipi (with intent to join an Ipi/Nivo trial as soon as the new arms open, but that could be weeks)

(3) IPI and GR-MD-02, a galectin inhibitor (Phase 1 trial, 85 days. I'd almost certainly be in on the lowest dose as it is just starting and there's no dose escalation for individuals.)

(4) Randomized trial, IL-2 with SBRT or IL-2 alone. 

All this keeping in mind that the approval of Nivomulab is imminent.

I'm scared of the IL-2, not so much of the side effects, but because I am reluctant to miss out six weeks of what could be my last summer with my kids. OTOH, I'm relatively strong right now and might not be able to tolerate it later if another treatment or treatments fail. Though the chance is small, there is still "home run" potential.

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Last reply 4/23/2014 - 9:01am
Replies by: BrianP, Anonymous, Marianne quinn

Hello to ALL, I am new to this site. I have questions. I am a 36 year old women. I have found a lump in my groin area about the size of 2 peas put side by side. I do not feel pain, just sum discomfort only due to its near the crease of my leg. I have also found a dark spot, a small spot on the labia. My questions are, has anyone had anything smiliar to this?
I do have a scheduled appointment with my doctor in June. I would be very grateful for any information, I would not like to assume that it could be melanoma, I have browsed the web for photo's, I didn't find that helpful, thank you for replying if you do.

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Last reply 4/23/2014 - 7:15pm

I have a question about what Les and I are seeing in her JP drain...  The nurses told us not to be concerned about seeing blood clots in the drain, and not to mess with them.  What they didn't tell us is what, exactly, a blood clot in the drain tube looks like.  We are seeing a long, thin, pink thing that is almost the length of the tube.  It looks like what I would imagine a vein would look like.  Fluid is still draining, but that thing looks strange.  Les is going to call the Dr's office this morning to ask about it, but I wanted to ask here, too.  Should we be concerned?

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Last reply 4/22/2014 - 4:25am
Replies by: Anonymous, Janner

Hi All -


I had a mole on my stomach , of about six years, removed last month (I am 28). After more than 3 weeks of not hearing back on the path report, I assumed no news was good news. I finally heard from my dermatologist that it came back positive for melanoma. 

I am waiting for my scheduleed appointment with an oncologist, but did see my pathology report. It took so long because the lab actually consulted with another doctor on the pathology slides for help interpreting. The second consultation saw no vascular invasion, but noted that it was an "unusual" melanoma and noted to the lab "thank you for forwarding this problematic and interesting" case. 

Of course I can't help but get nervous with that wording! Has anyone had a similar experience? I am assuming that it is great there is no vascular invasion, but it's hard not to get anxious hearing a doctor call you "problematic..." 

I am meeting with a few oncologists - surgery, dermatology, and medical oncologist - at the request of the specialosr. We'll discuss treatment, get my (third) consultation, and schedule additonal surgery, but I would love to hear any similar stories.






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Last reply 4/23/2014 - 6:14am

I am newly diagnosed stage 4 patient with mets in spleen liver and brain. I am currently on vem as have tested Braf positive. However I am sick with worry about my prognosis. I am only 33 but I am not going to make it to my retirement am I? X

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