i am here for my best friend.. who is at this moment clear of melanoma.. had one lesion removed.. was told he was good to go.. and then it turns out
that he found a lump in his groin 2 yrs later.. had the nodes removed.. they found a bit of mel in the one node.. and is now NED for the moment..
what is bothering me.. is my co-worker's wife recently had a melanoma taken off her arm.. once again.. they say she is good to go.. she has made no
changes to her lifestyle.. of which i have no idea... but.. i worry that it will show up having spread just like my best friend...
does anyone know... how often it returns... or is it just random??? seems pretty ramdom.. but.. very scary...
i worry about everyone now..
thanks so much..