MPIP: Melanoma Patients Information Page

The MPIP is the oldest and largest community of people affected by melanoma hosted through the Melanoma Research Foundation. It is designed to provide support and information to caregivers, patients, family and friends. Once you have been touched by melanoma—either as a patient or as a family member or friend of a patient—you become part of a community. It is not a community anyone joins willingly. But if you must be part of this group, you will find no better place to find the tools you need in your journey with this cancer, and the friends who can make that journey more bearable.

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arthurjedi007's picture
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Last reply 11/18/2014 - 6:00am

I think I eat a lot but for the past couple months I lose about a pound every 4 or 5 days. It's starting to add up. I'm on Keytruda, Xgeva and just started taking oxycodone for my leg and hip pain. Before the disease I was 172. Just a couple months ago I was 167. But now I'm 159.

This is what I typically eat in a day:

breakfast - scrambled egg with green, red, yellow and orange bell peppers. onions, mushrooms, ham, tomato, garlic, tumeric in it.  glass of almond milk. glass of orange juice.

morning snack - bananna and juice like kale blazer

dinner - 2 chicken breasts in cream of mushroom sauce, slice of 12 grain bread, sweet potatoes, green beans, juice like daily greens

afternoon snack - bananna, walnuts and brazil nuts, juice like green machine

supper - large pork chop, baked potato, salad, decaf green tea

evening snack - apple, bowl of post shredded wheat and bran with almond milk

2 to 3 bottles of water throughout the day


That's just what I had yesterday and it changes to sometimes steak and other stuff but pretty much similar.

I'm not very active especially since my knee and hip hurting prevents me from walking much.


I just can't figure out why I'm still losing weight. Any ideas?




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jennifer83's picture
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Last reply 11/14/2014 - 9:14am
Replies by: Tim--MRF, Emcjones1

I just found out two days ago that a mole on my back came back as melanoma.  My derm had done a shave biopsy and said it came back .7 mm with a Clark's Level III or IV.  I'm confused on whether I should be very concerned, or if this seems to be a superficial case.  My general practioner told me that she saw the pathology report and that it said it was superficial and has not spread to the lymph nodes or vascular system.  I asked my derm if it's possible to determine that with only a shave biopsy?  He said no.  I'm so confused!  

I go in on Monday to consult with a general surgeon who will be removing more tissue.  I'd love to hear what anyone has to say about this initial diagnosis.  I've been following this site since I heard the news and you all are so well versed and supportive.  




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csellers23's picture
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Last reply 11/14/2014 - 9:52am

My husband 39 has cancer in his bones 3 one spine one on hip one on ribs. Also 7 in his lungs and 2 the size of grapes and 7 the size if bbs in his brain. We have done full brain radiation and the tafinlar/mek pills. The pills shrank some others stayed the same and 3 got bigger. After 4 weeks they took him off them and onto yervoy. He was put in ER for high fever 103 that wouldnt break. After being put on steroids we got his fever down. That was after his first treatment. Is there anyone out there who has been through this for along time or even became ned? We have 3 kids and one will be here next month. Anyone plz. Thank you.

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kalisama's picture
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Last reply 11/14/2014 - 7:02am

I am so frustrated at this point. I feel as though my onc is fighting me on my treatment plan and that we are working against each other instead of in tandum, with each other.

I live in a rural area, 8 hours round trip to see my oncologist, plus hotel stays, etc etc.

I feel that I am being forced in to a 3rd Yervoy treatment despite display of primarily skin related side effects. As some of you know, I've been trying to get to Keytruda since its approval. I'm aware some of this is FDA and some of this is my onc's near religious belief in Yervoy.

I've also been trying to get a referral to a neurologist from him as disease leans towards brain and CNS, LMD, with an occasional rogue muscle or breast met . I have very little confidence in his ability to treat CNS diseases, while this is a huge part of my treatment, I just don't think he's up on this. One month ago he said he would put this referral in motion. Now he's telling me it will be at least 3 months.

I see him this Tuesday. I'm at a loss, and am scheduled for Yervoy infusion that I don't want. I will finally be getting images on Monday, so I will be going in to Tuesday's appointment with more information than I've had in quite a while.

Is there a question in here? yes, any advice on how to approach your primary onc when you don't feel like they are on your side? have you ever fired a primary physician? he works very intimately with my radiation oncologist who i adore, and am nervous about jeopardizing that relationship. If I didn't live so far from this level of medical support, it would probably be a lot easier for me to move on. This onc has been treating me since April 2013 when I was admitted to ICU with golfball size tumors in my brain.

Any insights or personal experiences, appreciated as always.


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jualonso's picture
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Last reply 11/14/2014 - 1:21am
Replies by: Ginger8888

Hi folks,

Im now on Ipi treatment and i would like to start with Cbd oil but first i want to know if someone has do it with no bad reaction.


Thanks all

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democat's picture
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Last reply 11/15/2014 - 11:28pm

Does anyone have experience with Kaiser So. Cal.? Specifically Drs. Sherry Hsu and Helen Moon?  Also, has anyone been able to get Kaiser to pay for a second opinion outside of Kaiser>




Stage IIIa/IIIb

since 1/2013

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arthurjedi007's picture
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Last reply 11/17/2014 - 12:40am

Just got a call from my nurse a little while ago. The bad report I got last week was comparing the 11/3 scan to the 4/23 scan which I knew that's what they did. But they got my 8/13 scan from Mayo now and compared it.

Basically no new stuff and "only mild growth". Awesome :)

The main growth they are concerned about is the left scapula shoulder tumor which is already huge just not as much growth as they thought. Might do radiation or surgery in the future but not right now.

I was too dumbfounded to ask but I assume with a pretty good report like that I'll save TIL until some future date. I guess I'll still try to make the Chicago trip just to see what they say but not sure with my knee acting like it is.

What a relief. Not as good a report as some but it means Keytruda is kicking this stupid disease a lot better than they thought.

Thanks everyone.


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jualonso's picture
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Last reply 11/13/2014 - 8:39am
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adriana cooper's picture
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Last reply 11/17/2014 - 12:29pm
Replies by: RJoeyB, adriana cooper, Tim--MRF, Anonymous, Bubbles

Post Ipi scan last month demonstrated some growth in existing areas of lungs and arm as well as some new ones not previously noted. Over the last 4-5 weeks Adriana has felt things are still advancing, Dr. agrees and has scheduled new scans in the next week or so with the plan to start Zelboraf for a few weeks then on to Keytruda ASAP although he is asking the insurance to go straight to Keytruda and skip the Zel. He wants to hold back Taf/Mek to be used later if tumors get out of hand. Some comments on this plan are welcome. My question (if some one could address) is can Taf/Mek be used after Zel? The info here in the MRF website suggests no on the targeted therapy section of the melanoma treatment page. Or should she start with Taf/Mek and then can she go back to it at a later time if needed again. I know there was some previous discussion of going back on but I can't seem to find it.

Not trying to second guess Dr. But he seems to think it's possible to skip the BRAF at this time but our research has only indicated that is not possible at this time.


Rob- Adriana's boyfriend


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Happy_girl's picture
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Last reply 11/13/2014 - 7:58am

Hello my melanoma warrior friends!  I just needed to post my feelings.  I don't know if my anxiety levels are so high because of melanoma and work and just life in general, but recently when I feel my clnd scar ( umm... I try not to feel my armpit all the time in public- work in progress), I get paranoid and afraid.  This might seem dumb but how do u tell the difference betweem scar tissue and swollen lumph nodes?  I'm sure I just need to relax, but I feel like right now seems like constant fear.  Thanks for your help and thoughts.  I value what you all have to say! :)

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arthurjedi007's picture
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Last reply 11/13/2014 - 7:55pm

I'm having a lot of 2nd thoughts about TIL. It looks like if I do that treatment it excludes me from the Nivo/AntiLag3 trial. That trial seems to have the purpose of helping folks that have progressed while on pd1. I'm not sure how successful they are having but I'm traveling to Chicago to see the doc next Tuesday about it. It's the typical no slot available now but will be opening thing. I'm also not sure if I'm strong enough to make it through the TIL treatment if I go that route. I've been hearing a lot about TIL and you have to be physically strong which I'm not sure if I am. If I'm not strong enough I could end up depleted or worse. So I dunno. Just rambling to folks I know get it because you've been through so much too.


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StephyD83's picture
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Last reply 11/14/2014 - 1:26am
Replies by: JustMeInCA, StephyD83


I was wondering if anyone here has gone to UCSF Melanoma Center in SF? I am going there for a second opinion and was looking for some feedback.



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Jewel's picture
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Last reply 11/16/2014 - 1:50am

My husband will be starting Yervoy in the next couple weeks. Of course my main concerns are to be on the outlook for any and all side effects. Can you please share with me your experiences and the things you may have had in the house to help combat them. Trying to be as best prepared as I can. Most importantly did it stable your disease? Thank you all so much for your help.


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Replies by: Emcjones1, Bubbles, Anonymous, Janner

Hello patrons,

I am 66 yrs old, male, ethnically East Indian, have been diagnosed with Metastatic Malignant Melanoma. I was also test B-RAF positive with mutation in codon 600 exon 15 of BRAF gene and was prescribed Zelboraf (Vemurafenib) by the doctor, dosage advised 960mg twice a day.  Secondly, the tumor growth behind the head in the scalp region was surgically removed by a Onco Surgeon.

I also checked out the Clinical Trials India Registry and an ongoing Trial of Zelboraf (Vemurafenib) by Roche was active but not recruting any patients. Alternatively I checked Clinical Trials in USA and found many ongoing trials under sponsorship of Roche. I also contacted Dr. James Goydos, Director, Melanoma and Soft Tissue Oncology Program Surgical Oncologist and had he had suggested that Zelboraf (Vemurafenib) might not work since the tumor was surgically removed and hence the Inhibitor has no work to do !, I am very confused and lost at this stage with following questions :

1) Since this is an extreme rare occurence in India, which nearby countries have [color=#FF0000]Melanoma Specialist[/color] than mere Oncologist / Dermatologist - Singapore, Indonesia, Thailand, Hong Kong, China, UK, Germany, South Africa? since USA is too far from India

2) Will the clinical trials recruit indian / international patients as a part of the program for patients who have no insurance ?

3) If any international patients in the forum here have gone through having an online appointment with webcam setup with any doctor in USA?

Your replies will be a life saver for me !, God Bless !!

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CHD's picture
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Last reply 11/14/2014 - 11:09pm
Replies by: RJoeyB, CHD, Anonymous

One of you awesome folks posted a link to some informative You Tube videos in one of these posts in the last few weeks, which I forgot to write down, and I have been searching for that post to no avail.  Does anyone remember where that was, or could you re-link to those videos here, or in fact if you know of other informative videos, I'd love to hear about them.  I am interested in videos ranging all the way from the basics through the more complicated treatment options.  

Thanks so much!

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