MPIP: Melanoma Patients Information Page

The MPIP is the oldest and largest community of people affected by melanoma hosted through the Melanoma Research Foundation. It is designed to provide support and information to caregivers, patients, family and friends. Once you have been touched by melanoma—either as a patient or as a family member or friend of a patient—you become part of a community. It is not a community anyone joins willingly. But if you must be part of this group, you will find no better place to find the tools you need in your journey with this cancer, and the friends who can make that journey more bearable.

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Anonymous's picture
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Last reply 10/18/2015 - 3:46pm

Hi, I'm new to this. My husband has just recently been diagnosed with melanoma stage four. He has 4 lesions on his brain. I am looking for survivors of this. He is only 50. We have 3 small children, 1-8. Please good or bad I want to know if anyone had mets on their brain.

Greg and Elisabeth 

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Last reply 10/21/2015 - 12:50am

Hi everyone,

This summer I had a mole removed on my ankle at my annual skin check and it came back as a thin melanoma. 0.58mm (later measured as just 0.45mm by a dermatopathologist at U of Utah), Clark level 3, with no other risk factors (no mitosis, ulceration, regression, etc). I wasn't entirely surprised as my mother had a melanoma removed from her ankle years ago (and never looked back, no other issues, no node biopsy, etc)

I travelled to Huntsman cancer center in UT (I live in Idaho) to have my WLE and opted for a SLNB to rule out the "3%" chance that it had spread to my lymph nodes. Well I am in the 3%. I have a new perspective on "low risk". 

Result of my surgery was clear margins, and 1 lymph node (out of 4 removed) with 3 "Melan-A" cells present. 3 cells!! I have been upgraded to stage IIIA. I'm having my body scans this Friday. And my next decision is whether to have the CLND. My surgeon, Dr. Andtbacka (anyone have any experience with him?) explained the controversy over the CLND. I am currently leaning heavily toward doing it. I'm 41 years old and have a 4 year old daughter. (I could be 65 years old and have no children...I don't mean to imply I need to live more than anyone just pains me to think of her growing up without a mother...I hope this makes sense) 

My head is swimming with all I'm trying to learn about this disease and my options (or lack thereof), and what my particular case means. (Is it good that there were so few cells?...or does it mean something else?...What exactly is melan-A compared to melanoma?...Does it mean something that my "low risk" thin lesion that they thought would result in a clean biopsy came back as positive for mets?...Am I going to be alive in 10 years? How do I fall asleep at night without worrying about all of this?...Do I trust my surgeon and his team when they tell me that the risk for lymphadema is only about 20% (and occurs more in patients with other co-morbidities such as obesity?) 

On top of researching and trying to make decisions, I'm also very scared, and sad. I can't even believe this course of events. I am hoping to be in touch with an old friend who's sister also had stage III melanoma, to hear her story, which I think will help. Gosh, even hearing that she exists, and is still alive, helps. And so here I am, reaching out to all of you in hopes some of you might shed some light, give some words of encouragement, have a story of your own to tell that sounds a bit like mine. I have already read so many of the posts on this forum, and have been helped (and occasionally confused) with what I've read. Now I'm just needing a litte more personally directed feedback. 

Thanks to all of you in advance for reading and for anything you have to share. 


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Last reply 10/17/2015 - 9:42pm

Got my first dose of Yeryoy and opidivo today . My hdl rose 2000 points since Keytruda and my ast is in the 600 but my bili took a big drop, my doc said my labs looked better so I guess he's not concerned about the other numbers he's encouraged by my appetite and lack of n/v. So I'm hanging in there and hoping for the best. 

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Last reply 10/15/2015 - 4:18pm
Replies by: DZnDef

Hi all,

For those curious about what the alternative medicine crowd has on offer for cancer patients, a new docuseries is starting tonight on that topic.  MPIP's spam filter will not allow me to post the link so google "The Truth About Cancer" and you'll find their website with access instructions.

I know most people on this list are not interested in alternative treatments and some are vehemently opposed to having them mentioned.  I believe we are all grown-ups and are entitled to as much information as we can gather to make up our own minds.  If you're interested, google "The Truth About Cancer" to find their new series starting tonight (each episode is available for 23 hours before being taken down).  The new series is called "The Truth About Cancer:  A Global Quest".  The final episode features cancer survivors telling their stories.

Maggie - Stage IV (lung mets unknown primary) since July 2012

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Last reply 10/15/2015 - 11:57pm
Replies by: AnitaLoree, kylez, Becky

Hello everyone,

As some of you may have seen on the MRF website and social media channels, this year we invited the young artists of our pediatric melanoma community to submit designs in a Holiday Card contest. After receiving many wonderful entries, 5 winning designs were selected and are currently being offered for sale. Available for $20, each box of 20 cards will contain four cards of each design and all proceeds will benefit the MRF's pediatric melanoma programs in research, education and advocacy. You can order as many box sets as you would like, but act fast as the deadline is this Thursday, October 15. You can view the winning designs and place an order at the link below:

Thanks everyone, we hope you have a great day!

Adam - MRF

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Jacqueh27's picture
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Last reply 10/16/2015 - 2:51pm

I posted, but it dissappeared? Anyway, going to try to post again. My daughter has had Four infusions of Yervoy and now 7 infusions of Keytruda. Since the Keytruda, there has been no change in tumor size but there is less activity and all of her levels are normal. They now want to introduce combining a Braf Inhibitor because they say the tumor (size of mango) is still too large to remove. Has anybody had success with this? What is the newest Braf Inhibitor out there? Does it cause hair loss, bad side effects? Thanks for any advice! She just hit her one year mark at State IV.

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Last reply 10/15/2015 - 5:28pm
Replies by: Scooby123

Hi, I haven't posted in a while. My daughter has just had her 7th infusion of Keytruda and while the tumor is still contained in liver with no spreading, there has not been any change in tumor size. It is still between 9 and 10cm. They are now discussing the combo of Braf Inhibitors. Has anybody had any success with this? They are still saying that surgery is NOT an option. Thanks!

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Last reply 10/16/2015 - 1:59pm
Replies by: eturner82

For years, my mom was hypervigilant about putting sunscreen on us kids. She always wore hats and sunscreen. And she got biannual skin checks at her dermatologist and insisted we do the same. Why? Well, she had Stage 1 melanoma on her arm at the age of 28. Thankfully, her dad was a doctor. He caught the melanoma and it was removed promptly. At the time there was no thought to sentinel node biopsy. I don't think she even knows how thick the primary lesion was. But she went on to protect herself as she knew how, to get married, to have a long productive career, and to have two kids.

Now, 40 years later, she has been sick for about three weeks with nausea, severe fatigue, and a mild cough. She had a scan last week which revealed several lesions on her liver, including one about 5 cm, and a small one on her lung. She has not yet had a brain scan and I am concerned she may also have brain lesions; she has had periodic episodes of dizziness in the last 1-2 years. 

We are awaiting the liver biopsy results, though her Primary Care Provider is confident the melanoma has returned. It seems likely given the nature of her symptoms and the lesions. (It seems most benign liver lesions are asymptomatic.)

So we are prepared for the worst and digesting as much information as we can about all the new treatments that have come along since 1970. Thankful there are so many options now that were previously unavailable.

In the meanwhile I know that healing is possible.   Do you have a story of healing from metastatic melanoma? Or know of a good place to read them? If so, I would be so grateful to hear from you. :)


PS: And, I should note that I am also looking for stories of emotional healing from melanoma, I know many people do not heal physically but still heal along their journey.

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Last reply 10/14/2015 - 6:06pm
Replies by: arthurjedi007, Jubes

Hello everyone,

Having a good pity party for week out from modified radical neck dissection on Oct 5th and feeling very low. Several things i didn't expect, severe hoarseness, numbness in tip of tongue and scalp, (temporary 2-6 month) lower lip paralysis, burning/stinging pain along and around the incision line -- and a crushing drop in mood -- feeling hopeless and very scared. Now, the worst part is awaiting the pathology report, 3abc? Then, depending on my final staging, my fears about what (possible wrong) decisions I will have to make to try and stave off recurrence.

I am no doctor. How am I supposed to be my own best patient advocate and know what to do and where to go when I am clueless to what this all means, specifically for me and my melanoma? I know I need to trust my oncologist, Dr. Schuchter, at Penn, but I am terrified. Terrified I will make the wrong decision which will impact the course of this cancer and what will happen to me. No to mention, of course, costs. I am self employed and if I don't work, i don't make any money.

The fear about the future and what is to come is terrifying. How do you stay in the day and deal with the "what ifs?" Am I or will I be strong enough to get through what is ahead. I will have all answers on Thursday after appt with the oncologist. It is all still so surreal and I still wish I could go back -- go back to feeling safe and happy. Sorry for dumping. I just am feeling so badly and sorry for myself -- hate to admit that, but that is the truth of it.

Any input, direction, encouragement would be most gratefully and graciously appreciated.

Peace, wholeness, health, and happiness wished for all of you.


Michele C Yerger

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Last reply 10/14/2015 - 7:44am

My hubby is having pain in his left lung which did not have any spots before. He had just had a CT scan beginning of August and has been on combo since mid June. It seems to be the same type of pain he had from his first tumor (inoperable) in his right lung back in June. 

Do new tumors pop up while on the combo that the drugs can't affect? My dad seems to think the pain is all in my husbands head because a new tumor can't pop up while the meds are working on other tumors. 

He was doing so good until the past week. 

Renee~loving wife fighting for her hubby! 

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Last reply 10/12/2015 - 9:38am

Hello everyone,

i have posted about my father a few days ago ( and wrote about that his 2nd dose of opdivo was delayed because of low lekocytes. Turned out i wasn't low leukocytes but his blood test showed he is low on albumin and is now getting an infusion with human albumin tomorrow instead of his opdivo dose.

Has anyone experienced this? Is it something to be worried about?

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Anonymous's picture
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Last reply 10/13/2015 - 1:27pm

Has anyone had issues with an overactive thyroid after taking keytruda.

I have seem to have some issues swallowing and i am sort of restless and irritable.

I was wondering if this could be thyroid related and what is my doctor likely to do about it.





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Last reply 10/11/2015 - 10:39pm
Replies by: Patina

We have a lot of spam. Can it be fixed?

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Last reply 10/12/2015 - 10:04am
Replies by: Anonymous, Tracyd715, Patina, kylez, Jubes

Well, my husband went in Friday for his gamma knife treatment. On the new MRI on the more advanced machine they found 13 pea sized lesions along with the original one he was there for. They treated all of them with no problems. Then early Sunday morning I was women up by him having a seizure in bed. Got him to the ER by ambulance and shortly after getting here he had another shorter one. They found swelling from the procedure and the main lesion had bled. I guess the bleeding isn't uncommon with melanoma mets on the brain. So hopefully with the medication he's getting this should straighten out. Ugh! Was hoping the gamma knife was going to be easy.

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Last reply 10/12/2015 - 12:18pm


As you are aware, there is an unusual amount of spam on MPIP right now. We believe there is an issue with one of our spam filter's and we're working to fix this as swiftly as possible. We are also working to implement measures to the website to help prevent this from happening again. 


Lauren - MRF

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