MPIP: Melanoma Patients Information Page

The MPIP is the oldest and largest community of people affected by melanoma hosted through the Melanoma Research Foundation. It is designed to provide support and information to caregivers, patients, family and friends. Once you have been touched by melanoma—either as a patient or as a family member or friend of a patient—you become part of a community. It is not a community anyone joins willingly. But if you must be part of this group, you will find no better place to find the tools you need in your journey with this cancer, and the friends who can make that journey more bearable.

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Ginger8888's picture
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Last reply 9/26/2014 - 11:19am

Ok finally home from my visit and it's great news!! The spots in my lungs are GONE and the one in my neck went from 1.5 centimeters to 8 millimeters..All i can say is God is good and thank you to everyone for the prayers and positive thoughts..Scans again in 3 months to check to makes sure it's still working...Thank you Yervoy!! Stage 3 C and hopefully NED soon..

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kalisama's picture
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Last reply 9/26/2014 - 10:32am

Am I understanding correctly that this med is only available to patients who have previously been on Yurvoy?

Thank you for clarifying. I see my onc this Monday and I want to understand as much as I can before I see him.


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Anonymous's picture
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Last reply 9/26/2014 - 10:21am

My father in law is currently very sick and homebound. He has melonoma in his liver, lungs, spine, spleen, and brain. He is physically weak and his mobility is limited. About all he is up for most days is going from his bed to the couch in the living room. Even when on the couch he has to lay down, he cannot sit up for more than a few minutes at a time. Mostly he watches tv and shows little interest in anything else, also he can't really do much else. He started taking the Taf/Mek combo in May, at first it worked really well but then he found out on Monday that it has stopped working and he will be starting Ipi next Monday. This news has been hard on him and it feels like he is withdrawing even more, he has been sleeping around 16hrs a day up from 12 hrs a day before getting this news. He lives with me, my husband, and my brohter in law, the three of us are tyring to think of ways to lift his spirits and stimulate his mind. He has fought really hard over these last 7 months since the mets were found in his liver and we don't want him to give up now especially since there are people who have been on ipi for years and are now no evidence of disease. Any suggestions? Sorry it is such a long post. 

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Last reply 9/26/2014 - 2:39am
Replies by: JerryfromFauq, tbmorgan, Patina, Marianne quinn, Anonymous

My son TJ was born on August 28, 2013 and diagnosed with congenital malignant melanoma in his first four weeks of life.  He was born with a large mass on the back of his brain that was resected and biopsied at 10 days old by a pediatric nuerosurgeon who saved his life.  At two months the tumor returned and grew to slight larger size and was removed again.  At same time multiple small lesions started appearing on his arms, legs, hands, feet, back.  These were biopsied and confirmed as melanoma.

My son has been on Temozolomide orally 100 mg a day for 5 days a month for 9 months and Everolimus 2 mg a day every day for 3 months now.

The tumor in his brain did not show up again on scans but came back at 6 months and is now stable at about the size of a penny.  The skin bumps seem to be just slowly growing but scare me.

His current treatment is a wait and see approach and it scares me very badly.  I asked my doctor about what we should be doing and he really did not have a long term plan.  I told him that I try to research and look at google once every few weeks and he told me good, because he has a lot of patients and that he was not a melanoma expert and was not able to do that level of research.

I know the doctor team here is good and saved his life, but I cannot accept that answer, I started searching and found this site so easily, I was surprised they had not recommended this site to me.  Then I saw they had a family conference just two weeks ago and I missed it.  I was so sad.

TJ is an amazing child, he is strong, loving, and smart.  He has no developmental issues from the surgery, and is walking, dancing, and smiling all the time.

What do I do?

I need help.  I need to find the Doctors that can confirm my sons treatment is the best available or recommend something else.  I want a plan that I can live with.........


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Rocco's picture
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Last reply 9/26/2014 - 12:50am

OK, likely nothing but..went to see my PCP today as I've felt a small lump under my jaw, close to neck for about 3-4 weeks.  No pain, no real growth/increase in size, just there.  PCP says next step is a CT so attempting to arrange this thru Onc's office rather than PCP.  Leaving PCP he notes that it could be return of kidding.  Of course it could be anything but Mel and I need to focus on that until cold, hard facts are in.  Just a bit frazzled to think of having a CT..

Trying to hang in there....


Stage IV since 2005


Luke 1:37

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Anonymous's picture
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Last reply 9/25/2014 - 10:06pm

I'm struggling here as my family thinks I need to totally change my diet to avoid a recurrence if melanoma. This was discussed with my oncologist who told my father that I didn't progress to Stage 4 because of diet. It was acknowledged that diet is key to general health and well being. Diet doesn't destroy body's ability or immune system to recognize melanoma cells and destroy them. Though it was highly suggested as much as possible to avoid processed foods.So bascially message was diet is helpful but not necessarily going to help avoid a recurrence. Also, my diet isn't great and it isn't bad. It probably needs to be a little more balanced. Not a ton of processed foods but I do like a cookie or ice cream here or there....

I've researched this some and you find arguements that go either way.....adamant that diet is crucial while I saw MDA says "sugar isn;t cause of cancers" or lead to cancer. So which is it? This is very confusing....

Let's work for better treatments....for a cure!!!!

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Last reply 9/25/2014 - 10:01pm

I am a 34 year old mom of a 4 month old and 3 year old.  I was diagnosed in March with Stage 2 that was found on my back by my dermatologist.  Surgery was done (while pregnant) and margins were removed as well as a node under my arm that seemed to light up with die.  Path report came back clear for all tissue and node.  The only cancer was the biopsy done at first appointment.  Unfortunately it came back over 4th of July weekend in two lymph nodes on my neck/shoulder.  PET scan and Brain MRI both showed that the only cancer was the two nodes.  Had surgery and removed 27 nodes including the two cancerous ones.  Path results showed no other cancer.  Just had a PET scan 2 fridays ago and nothing showed up!!!   Now we are deciding between Interferon and a trial with Vemurafenib.  Various doctors are saying different things.  Not sure which route to go.  Anyone hav experiences with either of these?  Side effects? Recurrence?  The trial is Placebo or drug...not sure how I feel about it, but feel I need to do something other than sit and wait.  Thanks!

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Last reply 9/25/2014 - 12:04am

Just wanted to say how nice it's been to see so many good news and happy stories the last day or so. I had my local follow-up this afternoon and also recieved a bit of good news: the tumor I had removed last week was completely necrotic- no active tumor at all. Probably explains (at least in part) why I never had any symptoms. 

Still don't have the final biopsy and there's still a few questions, but given that bit of info, I'm a bit hopeful that I may not have to return for radiation to the surgical site or, perhaps even the other lesions that were seen on the MRI prior to surgery in other locations. A few more questions still to be answered and hopefully I'll get more answers (and maybe a plan) tomorrow as my local (but very diligent) oncologist tracks down imaging, path reports, etc. 

Thrilled that tomorrow morning is my last dose of my steroid taper, and looking forward to resuming PD-1 as soon as they'll let me, and pretty happy that the tumor was actually dead- perhaps there's hope for PD-1 in patients with brain mets after all! We'll see what other info I get and what kind of plan gets proposed, but in the mean time, it really is good to see that others are doing well and getting some good results with their therapies. I think it's good for everyone's morale, at least it is for mine!

Keep fighting everyone- it's worth it and congratulations on all the good news! You all deserve it (and a little bit of a break)!



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Last reply 9/24/2014 - 10:55am
Replies by: arthurjedi007, BrianP, Anonymous, G-Samsa

Former 49ers galvanized by death of Dave Rahn

Posted on September 19, 2014


The passing of former 49ers’ public relations executive Dave Rahn has completely rocked former players and even a former owner. Rahn, who was 50, died Thursday in San Diego after a 27-month battle with melanoma. He is survived by his wife, Holly, and countless friends.


Several former players and coaches visited Rahn in his final days, and former 49ers linebacker Gary Plummer hosted a well-attended barbecue for him in celebration of his life in July.

Plummer also took Rahn to treatments, appointments and was by his side when he passed on Thursday morning.

“I gave back 100th over the last 27 months of what that dude gave to me,” Plummer said. “It was such an honor.”

While driving from San Diego to Santa Monica for treatments, Plummer said that Rahn was constantly on phone talking to former players, coaches, trainers, and other friends associated with the 49ers during Rahn’s tenure from 1986 to 2002.

“He was like a wheel, and all these spokes from those years came from him,” Plummer said. “He kept the 49ers family from those times together. It’s going to take dozens of people to do what he did.”

After leaving the 49ers, Rahn spent 12 years as a concert manager for Fleetwood Mac, Lionel Richie and Cheryl Crow.
“He would treat the fifth-rung lighting guy the same way he would treat Stevie Nicks.” Plummer said. “What made Dave so special was his ability to connect.”

Former 49ers owner Eddie DeBartolo Jr., flew out to be with Rahn during his final moments. However, with Rahn slipping fast, Plummer and Holly were worried Rahn would pass before DeBartolo’s arrival.

“The last thing he said was that he would hang on until Eddie got there,” Plummer related.

Delayed in Tampa because of a traffic snarl caused by a Barack Obama appearance, DeBartolo, who Rahn simply called, “boss,” did finally arrive to see Rahn through his final moments.

“Eddie was phenomenal,” Plummer said. “I wish I could have recorded it, but out of respect and the humanity of those two, I couldn’t.”

What Rahn worried about most in his final months was that he had not left much financially for Holly, who married him only nine months before he was diagnosed with melanoma. But those who loved Rahn stepped up, including singer Chris Isaak, who made two custom guitars and auctioned them off for $48,000.

“It was amazing, (former players) who give whatever they could, $100, $500,” Plummer said. DeBartolo and other prominent former 49ers have assured Holly that finances will not be a concern.

“You hear so many bad sports stories these days,” Plummer said. “But this one is truly magical.”

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Last reply 9/24/2014 - 9:49am
Replies by: Anonymous, Patina, Janner

I noticed a couple weeks ago a small weird shaped mark on a toe of mine. I recently got a promotion also at work and have been working many more hours ( at least 10-12 a day ) in a very phsyical job. At first i thought it could be a bruise but after it did not go away i decided to get it looked at. I saw my primary and they took pictures and sent them to a dermatolgist who recommended a biosopy and possible full removal. But they only said "suspicous" lesion. They never said Melonoma but from what i have read that is not diagnoised untill after testing after removal thou. I had a consolt recently with a podiatrist and she said she was going to remove the whole thing and that it would be minor surgery. I would be put off work for up to two months because it's on the bottom of my feet it is harder to heal and i would be wearing a boot and useing crutches. If you have read all of this thank you, My problem is the timeing is horrible. I was suppose to be getting married by the end of the year and was just approved for a home loan. I had to jump through many hoops to get the loan and my fiance and I wanted to get a home before we get married. They do not let you get loans when you are on temperary disability. I am feeling pressure to post pone getting the removal surgey everyone is telling me it's no big deal. That i should wait a few months. I am not afraid to wait but am i making a horrible descion in waiting? I just think most people have no idea what the dangers or signs of skin cancer are includeing myself. Sorry if i'm ranting now. If i wait for a few more months am i putting myself in increased danger? Although i did tell my fiance if we can't find "the one" by the end of october i am schdueling and will not wait longer because of the wait of escrow and all that i would not even be able to schedule hte surgery untill months after we find "the one". Thanks for reading. 

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Last reply 9/23/2014 - 5:30pm
Replies by: Anonymous, Janner, hbecker, Teochasse

Hi...just found this wonderful site. My brother-in-law recently had a lesion removed from his arm, and when path report came back, derm said it was metastatic melanoma that didn't orginate in the skin. He indicated that the situation is very serious.

My BIL had eye exam today, negative for ocular melanoma. Blood test two days ago, with no results back yet for possible liver compromise. PET scan scheduled for Monday.

Question: If you're told you have a non-skin melanoma that also isn't ocular, do you have mucosal melanoma? And is it automatically stage four if it orginated inside the body, then spread to the skin?

BIL's general practioner, unbelievably, said he "didn't expect the tests to show anything." Huh? Is it possible to have metastatic melanoma and not have a PET detect it?

Wow, is this frightening. Thanks for any insight, and glad to have found you.


Sis-in-law of person just diagnosed with metastatic non-cutaneous melanoma

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Last reply 9/23/2014 - 11:44am
Replies by: Mat, RJoeyB, JerryfromFauq, Anonymous

Hi folks,

I would like to know if some of you have heard about this treatment and if is the same as TIL or something little different.

Thanks for your response


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holy moly melanomy's picture
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Last reply 9/23/2014 - 1:24am

Hello lovelys!

I've been able to hold most of myself together during these last 19 months A.D. (After Diagnosis).  It took me a bit to get back to stable ground and I've been doing just fine for about the last year or so.  However a recent "bump" in the road....or I should say "lump" on my back...threw me back into darkness of Mela-Land.  My husband found a mass on back about an inch or so between my spine and my WE scar the first of this month.  I'm fairly certain it's just a lipoma, but of course there is that evil voice in my head that is telling me the beast is back.


Curious if anyone in Southern CA has a support group that they go to?  I went to one about a year ago after I had an enlarged lymph node pop up on my neck/base of skull.   Although the ladies were super nice - I just didn't fit.  They had all been together for like 10-15+ years and about 95% of them were Breast Cancer survivors as well as they were all 65+ years old.  I'm not discriminating on age or cancer, I'd just personnally rather attend a meeting for Melanoma, or at least a group with a few Melahomies.

I'm open to all suggestions :)  Thank you!



"Everything happens for a reason"


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Anonymous's picture
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Last reply 9/22/2014 - 9:09pm
Replies by: Anonymous, Squash, Annalive, Tim--MRF

I have been looking at some links and a documentary about the use of a drug he developed privately. My search started as i was looking for research and studies on the use of cannabis for melanoma. Does anyone heard about Dr Burzinsky's Clinic in Texas? There is so much debate about his approach and some conspiracy theories attached to it that it is hard to come to a sane conclusion. My son is receiving IPI and is in stage 3C, so I keep looking for alternative treatment should we find ourselves in that place. Dr Burzinsky seems to have had some success (25%) success with cancer patients with brain tumors who do not want to take the path of radiation for many good reasons. Thank you for your help and time.

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Ying's picture
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Last reply 9/22/2014 - 6:13pm
Replies by: ecc26, Ying, Anonymous, Linny

Hi everyone! My mom was diagnosed as having melanoma in 2011, recently developed to Stage 4 with metastasis to lung. She has NRAS mutation which is very very rare here in China, and when we went to the best melanoma treating hospital, we learnt that currently there's no specific drug for this mutation type. We are very disappointed. 

I did quite a lot research on website and seeking any possibility to get medical treatment aboard. I've been to this forum for several months already but never posted anything. This is my first post. Could anyone suggest some good melanoma treating centres in any countries especially in U.S. and Australia? We desperately need this information.
Thank you!

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