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The MPIP is the oldest and largest community of people affected by melanoma hosted through the Melanoma Research Foundation. It is designed to provide support and information to caregivers, patients, family and friends. Once you have been touched by melanoma—either as a patient or as a family member or friend of a patient—you become part of a community. It is not a community anyone joins willingly. But if you must be part of this group, you will find no better place to find the tools you need in your journey with this cancer, and the friends who can make that journey more bearable.

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LisaName's picture
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Last reply 7/12/2015 - 5:32am
Replies by: LisaName, Janner

Hey, I have mentioned that you guys here have many God answers, so I hope to hear your opinion on my dx)

i am a girl who leaves in Czech Republic, Europe, but originally I am from Ukraine, so when I decided to remove my mole, I did it in Ukraine. 

My childhood friend there is having the whole family of professors, so her brother(surgeon) removed my mole with radio wave method(surgitron) and they sent it to the pathologist who is my friend's grandfather) 

So the diagnosis from pathologist is following:compound dysplastic nevi, with proliferation of tha pagetoid cells. 1 cm in diameter, removed with healthy tissues.

but also it was sent to immunegistochemical examination which said: tyrosinasa,HMB 45 - bright positive cytoplasmic reaction in the epithel with cells up to basic layer. Negative reaction in the dermal layer.

Ki67 - positive reaction up to basal area in the epithelial layer.

conclusion: morphology and immunefenotype are similar to melanoma evolving from nevi.


interesting fact, when path report was read by General oncologists in Ukraine they all said it was melanoma in situ.

but as I live in other country in Europe, I took my report to the DERMATOONCOLOGISTS here in the main hospital, where they also deal with melanoma and my dialog with doctor there was following

- darling, where did u see melanoma in situ dx here?

-in the end.

-as I can see here, it is just dysplastic nevi that tried to evolve, but didn't as it was removed.


so for my safety, she went to consultate with doctor who specializes in melanoma, as far as I understood she didn't see anything critical there too.

but of course they did a regular check up for me and sent for WLE(as it is the same thing they do for dysplastic nevi).

my WLE histology was : no atypical,malignant etc cells were found in the sample.


Still I was not sure and went to other dermatologist who has experience in dermatooncolgy and now works for private clinic and he said absolutely the same thing

- It is not in situ yet, he sees it as evolving nevi and it was just a call for me to check my skin from time to time.


Still it was not enough reassurance for me, so I called professor who did my hystology who said following:

"I didn't mention any formed tumor, what I saw is the spreading of atypical cells. Melanoma is atypical cells, but not all atypical cells are melanoma. If you were not like a grand daughter for me, I would just write dysplastic nevi, but I decided to send for check. Yes, this type of cells could have formed tumor if not removed, or they just would have continue move, without forming a tumor. But instead of guessing we just removed the mole"


so so he doesn't seem very worried too.

and I spoke to many doctors here and they say that immune tests are not informative in differing melanoma from severely dysplastic nevi. Melanoma from regular nevi - maybe yes, but not dysplastic.


and what is your opinion on that? Many doctors here seem to be sure, that it is not even in situ yet.

i understand that in Central Europe in melanoma center doctors are more experienced that regular oncologists in my small city(who did resection of both breasts to my 17yo friend, when she just had bening fibroma as the biopsy showed), but still I am worried and now checking all my body((.

now I cannot sleep because I think that my lymph node in the neck are enlargdd(the doctor said that they are normal for a person who was often sick in childhood and who had very bad otitis just this winter) and I think this is due to mole(even though it was in my right armpit and I am worried for my lymph nodes next to the left ear).


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Anonymous's picture
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Last reply 7/11/2015 - 9:57pm
Replies by: DonnaK, Mat


I hope that this is not inappropriate for this site, but recently there was a story on CBC news about Camp Erin, a camp for children who have had a loss.

In the story, were two children who shared their experience of losing their father to melanoma.  Here is the link for the story.

I am sharing this, as I recently lost my husband, and my children lost their father to this stupid horrible cancer. It was 8 months from the time of diagnosis to the time he died.  We did not have the opportunity to speak to him about dying.  My kids did not have a chance to share their feelings with their father, as the children in this story did, as at no time, despite multiple requests, did the oncologist share his prognosis. My husband was attending appointments and Ipi treatments.  The day after his second ipi treatment he had a brain hemorrhage and died a few weeks later.

Not sure if this is usual for a doctor to not share the prognosis.  All the doctor kept saying when we asked was "as long as it doesn't spread we are good".  We trusted the doctor and thought we were like many others with melanoma that live for years.  I was not prepared for the dark side of melanoma.

I am having a tough time grieving and have many regrets of not researching alternatives and guidance as many of you do here. I just wanted to share this, as if anyone ever unfortunately finds themselves in this horrible spot in their lives, that they advocate for themselves.  We had no idea where our path was leading.  I am thankful for this site and would like to find a way to spread the seriousnes of this cancer so others are aware.  

Does anyone have any suggestions of good organizatons to support in creating a greater awareness of melanoma?  I am a bit synical in my thoughts of  some organizations, with either the mismangement of funds or involvement with pharmaceutical companies at this time.

Again, I am sorry if this was inappropriate to bring here.  The love, support, and hope on this forum is truly incredible.


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Replies by: kylez, Patina

My husband Charles' brain mri came back with NO mets!  Yahooo!  After meeting with a melanoma specialist and our oncologist, Charles has opted to start with a BRAF targeted therapy rather than immunology. 

A little background, 15 years ago he was in a horrendous accident - broke most everything, collapsed lungs, spleen out, hip, leg, ribs, shoulder blade - so lucky to be alive.  Broken back pain has haunted him through the years, plus his hip........he lives with pain.  To look at him you wouldn't know - but everything seems to hurt.  

For the past year he has hurt more than ever. now I wonder if that was any warning signs. He also developed these "mystery spots" that no doctor was able to figure out - rash, itchy over his legs, chest, arms - really bad at times and truly his legs - wow!  He had his derm biopsy the spots, we went to a one could figure it out. ANA titer through the roof........what finally helped the spots was prednisone and he has been on and off it for the last 5 months or so.

The past two months have been overwhelming - he is not the normally positive guy, I am that part of the relationsip. He battles with depresson as well as pain. 

So............we start with BRAF + MEK for lung tumor and subcarinal lymph nodes........we opted not to surgically remove all the lymph nodes and the mid lobe.  He wanted to keep off the table as long as he could.  

Strength wise, and because of the spots, we are not doing Nivo first..............

So here we are.  I am terrified that we are making the wrong choice - but who knows?  I read about Keytruda and wonder if that is better than the BRAF + MEK.............but knowing him, the targeted therapy to show some quick results , get his spirits up, make him feel better. 

Its a crap shoot I guess?

If anyone has any good results going with BRAF + MEK - please share. As well as any side effects he might how you took the pills. 

Thank you!



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khubes's picture
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Last reply 7/16/2015 - 8:39am

Hi there and happy Friday! 

My fiance, Dave, was recently diagnosed with stage IV melanoma.  Unfortunately, this is not my first rodeo with this disease, as my stepfather was diagnosed in 2012 with metastatic melanoma as well (he's doing great!  Treated with high dose IL-2 and has been NED for a full year now. Yay!).  Anyways, I am on here almost daily reading posts and sharing your stories with Dave.  He is encouraged by the success stories and finds comfort that he isn't the only one fighting this awful disease (melanoma [and cancer, in general I think!] can make you feel so isolated and alone!).  Thank you all for that - it is so helpful.

Dave wanted me to reach out to see what other people have experienced on Keytruda/Pembro or Opdivo.  He received his first dose of Keytruda on July 1 and has been absolutely exhausted since the infusion.  Prior to his diagnosis, Dave was an extremely active guy - he played baseball, softball, golfed, and went to the gym regularly (he is only 35!).  He of course doesn't have nearly the energy he had before, but he wanted to know if anyone else's oncologists recommended exercising as much as possible while going through treatment or to let his body rest.  I would think that exercise and movement would be helpful for added healing, but wanted to hear what others had to say. :) 

Regarding his other side effects, he's had some migraines (he has multiple small brain lesions and had a craniotomy on June 9) which we have been told are normal and to be expected by his neurologist and oncologists. 

Thanks again to all of you wonderful people for your stories and support!  You make recently diagnosed individuals not feel so lost and alone, and, most importantly, give us hope.  

Best wishes,


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Rawlins Mom's picture
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Last reply 7/10/2015 - 9:55pm

Several week lurker, first time poster

My mother was diagnosed with mucosal melanoma (lady parts...not fun!) at the end of May.  She had surgery to remove the main lesion, and the PET scan showed several mets to the liver, lymph nodes, and one to the brain.  She had specific radiation on the brain tumor (not sure the exact procedure), finishes her daily targeted radiation today (4 weeks total I believe), and started on Keytruda 2 weeks ago.  Side effects so far are actually OK.  Some fatigue, and an imodium here and there, but overall OK.  

I really appreciate all the posts here, both the uplifting ones and not so much also.  Puts things into perspective, and now I know that there are many options down the line.  


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Thandster's picture
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Last reply 7/14/2015 - 11:37am

I have been on BRAF/MEK with mixed success. It has helped many things, but my liver has gotten worse. My Onc. Is VERY concerned that I dont have much time left and so she decided today to take me off the MEK and use a combo of Dabrafenib and Nivolumab. I go first thing tomorrow morning for my first infusion of Nivolumab. Has anyone else used these two together? Any info or thoughts appreciated.

Thank you,


(1 Peter 5:7 NLT). Give all your worries and cares to God, for he cares about you

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Anonymous's picture
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Last reply 7/12/2015 - 6:50pm
Replies by: _Paul_, Jenncat0402, Janner, Anonymous

I have Melanoma on my anterior deltoid ( front of my shoulder) and will be having an excision about 6 " in length. Is there any advantage of having a plastic surgeon perform this surgery over my dermotologist? 

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democat's picture
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Last reply 7/10/2015 - 10:34pm
Replies by: Anonymous, BrianP, jbronicki, Colleen66, SABKLYN, Mom2Addy

I've been waiting days. Kaiser SoCal usually takes a day or two or three, but are now making me wait over a week. Do they not understand that this is torture? Does anyone else have these issues?






Stage IIIa/IIIb

since 1/2013

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Anonymous's picture
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Last reply 7/9/2015 - 10:33pm
Replies by: arthurjedi007

Has anyone heard of a condition where Yervoy (ipilimumab) causes the bone marrow to stop making white blood cells?  I need some quick help ... 


Thanks in advance



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sassega's picture
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Last reply 7/9/2015 - 12:51pm
Replies by: Janner

Hello, I'm a 65 year old female and in the past year noticed that several of my toenails developed black lines of various thickness and darkness of color.   They cover most of the whole toe...the right second toe, and fourth toe on left side, with a new single line on the second toe, left side.   I thought these were the result of getting ugly, old lady toes.  But a friend got melanoma on her foot and I decided to look up toenail melanoma and saw some familiar pictures.  It seems to me, though, that there would be a spot on the skin, under the toe and I don't see that.   I clipped the nail and the toenail clipping had the black line througth it.  The nail just keeps growing with the same discoloration all through it.   So would it just be a discolored, ugly old lady toenail since I don't see a spot on the skin?


BTW, I am Native American and have a Nevus of Ota on my face, and doesn't involve the eye.   I also have sundanced about eight years and have been a little paranoid about sunburned feet all those years.


Should I be concerned?


Thank you,


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Anonymous's picture
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Last reply 7/10/2015 - 3:22pm

My father recently was diagnosed with metastatic melanoma stage 4.  It was discovered during a routine biopsy on his head.  He has had a pet scan and it shows no attachment of any kind to his body.  How is it possible to be at stage 4 but not have anything showing in the lymph nodes, organs, etc.?  He is now recieving 6 weeks of radiation on his head.  He was told this was to hopefuly kill anymore spots.  Again I am confused.  To my understanding Metastatic melanoma cannot be cured.  What am I missing? 

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Rita and Charles's picture
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Last reply 7/8/2015 - 10:00pm

Wish us luck - I have a good feeling that he will be good. 



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pookerpb's picture
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Last reply 7/9/2015 - 7:25pm
Replies by: Anonymous, pookerpb, jamieth29

I am new to this forum and am the wife of a stage IV melanoma cancer patient. Husband was first in 2008 when husband was 37. He had a nodule (>4mm) removed from calf. lymph nodes tested negative. Was on interpheron for one year.

in 2014 it came back in small intestine. Had resectioni done and on IPI/Interpheron trial for 8 mos until some of the lymph node markers progressed.

Jan 2015 started the Keytruda/Peg Interpheron trial. Showed shrinkage with first 12 week scan, and then last week scans showed some stability with very minimal growth in others.

Had to come off treatment due to Pneumonitis. On very hight dose prednisone for a few weeks and hopefully back into study in 6 weeks (will have missed 2 doses).

We live in Northwestern PA and see Dr. Kirkwood in Pittsburgh who is a melanoma specialist. we have 2 daughters age 13 and 15.

The unfortunate thing is that my husband has a concerete business which is very labor intensive. I dont know how he goes to work each day and I hate seeing him suffering from his job (very physical).

Just wanted to say hello....


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tangerine1953's picture
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Last reply 7/8/2015 - 7:48am
Replies by: jamieth29, Anonymous

Hi all.

The reason i post is because of a mole i have on my arm. A couple of weeks ago i noticed a mole on my arm had raised slightly, the thing that scared me the most is that i have just had a holiday in the sun. The mole hasnt grown in size apart from raising slightly, it isnt itchty, painful or bleeding either. The mole is about 2 mm in diameter, i have been to the doctors and he quickly dismissed it as being nothing. I noticed like a black spot inside the mole, this has now risen to the surface and formed a scab on top of the mole and the colour of the mole seems to have changed to like a flesh colour. Do i need to go back to the doctors or could it just be irritated or something??


Thanks in advance for any advice

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Last reply 7/9/2015 - 6:41pm

How do you be, my friend?!!!  Wishing you well.  Hope you are at least a bit better.  c

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