MPIP: Melanoma Patients Information Page

The MPIP is the oldest and largest community of people affected by melanoma hosted through the Melanoma Research Foundation. It is designed to provide support and information to caregivers, patients, family and friends. Once you have been touched by melanoma—either as a patient or as a family member or friend of a patient—you become part of a community. It is not a community anyone joins willingly. But if you must be part of this group, you will find no better place to find the tools you need in your journey with this cancer, and the friends who can make that journey more bearable.

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Debbieamccoy's picture
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Last reply 11/20/2015 - 4:35pm

Talked to my  onc to day if my liver numbers don't get better and my liver doesn't decrease in size there's not much hope. I've only had 2 doses of the combo. My belly is still swollen. Buy no ascites . I'm exhausted from nine days in the hospital and exhausted and duds disappointed 

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mkirkland's picture
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Last reply 11/21/2015 - 12:56am

I would love to hear everyone's experience with Yervoy 3mg. I am a stage IIIA and I'm just debating all of the options. The possible side effects are pretty scary! 

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takkat's picture
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Last reply 11/19/2015 - 11:20pm


  I am concerned with starting ipi because of the side effects.

I am 51yrs old and in good overall health.

In 2011 i found a melanoma on my right foot. The skin was removed and the margins were clear.

At that time I had a chest and brain scan that came back clean. I also had sentinel node taken and clean as well.

This January I had a ct scan, unrelated. It showed a spot. After six months I had a pet/ct and biopsy that confimed meanoma.

The melonoma was removed with surgery Oct 1st, and the recent pet/ct scan is clean.

The oncologist is recommending ipi even though I have  no signs of the disease.

I realize the the melonoma will most likely be back, but the side effects seem high to me.

I am thankfull for the treatment but I think it would be better to do the treatment with an actual tumor to treat. Am I wrong in thinking this way?

 Also the oncologist discussed some other drugs that had less side effects when taken in combination but did not want to use them because I did not have any tumors, and he would not know how long to treat.

I am braf positive, if I said that correctly.

I know that this treatment, for people in my shoes, is newly approved, so I would imagain that there is not alot of expeience with this. 

Any help or advice is appreciated.

    Thank You

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Hi all-

In an effort to remain hopeful i know many of  rely on this site for good news and long term survivor stories....

I was readiing about LibbyinVa, who appeared to be one of these, with 7 years NED at Stage IIIB....I sent her a message and have not received any repsonse....and the last post from her was in Sept. 2014.

I am hoping she is out living her life, but wondered if anyone had heard from her.....

LIBBYINVA, if you are out there, let us know you are OK.  Would love to communicate with you.


Thanks and best,


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Anonymous's picture
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Last reply 11/21/2015 - 8:38pm
Replies by: Anonymous, Beehappy, MattF, arthurjedi007, Julie in SoCal

I have had four infusions of keytruda without really any side effects.

However in the last couple of days i have been having the urge to go to the toilet badly and only a bit comes out and my bottom or sphincer is really sore. I mean it is really sore after defecating.

In fact it is dangerous for me to pass wind as i might soil myself a bit..

I know i could use immodium but the thting is I am not really constipated in fact it seems i only get a bit out but i still have the urge to go to the toilet. I dont see my doctor for another week.

Has anyone else had similar symptoms and what have you done? 


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Toby0987's picture
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Last reply 11/25/2015 - 7:22pm

Hi-I was diagnosed feb of 2013 with stage 3b melanoma at mayo-primary site was under side of right arm that spread into my right axilla-1 node macro. I turned down interferon and radiation. They did a wide excision and also took out 48 armpit lymph nodes/just one fat one was positive. Well since then I've had unrelated pap thyroid cancer (ablated and dead) and now I have a pea sized hard lump a couple of inches from my forearm site. It has been there for a month and doesn't seem to change. Forgot my mitotic rate was 4 from melanoma. So should I get the hard pea cut out just under my skin (no color and it formed under the skin) or should I leave it for my pet scan/ultrasound in March? What do you think?

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Debbieamccoy's picture
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Last reply 11/16/2015 - 7:10pm
Replies by: DZnDef

Spent three days in hospital for edema fluid retention and constipation . IV gained 40 lbs in water . Severely constipation and have +4 edema .on a bm regime new diuretic . My doc said this is normal with liver involvement  I'm so discouraged 

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Ninniditti's picture
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Last reply 11/16/2015 - 6:15pm

Hi, I have been having increasing pain in my  maxillary sinus, my upper plate, my scullbase, side of my eye and the ear, in fact where my tumors are. I have my seventh dose of Keytruda next week. Can T-cells invading the tumor have anything to do with the pain? Pain would be much more bearable if it was. I am taking LYRICA, but it does not help.



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scottr's picture
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Last reply 11/16/2015 - 3:34am

Hi All,


I posted back a month ago regarding a new diagnosis of Stage 1 tumour. It was .32 breslow, non brisk TIL, and said the lesion had regression present - over 75% of lesion involved. The tumour was on my mid-back.

About 20 years ago I had a similiar looking mole to the melanoma. It was there for quite a while. Rather dramatically it split in two and then disappeared completely. I took note but did not seek medical attention.

That was kind of stupid because my grandfather died of this illness 10 years earlier. I did not htink mine was melanoma especially after it disappeared..

Anyway yesterday I met with surgical oncologist for what I thought was a consultation. (according to my doctor who said she would be performing WLE and SLNB.) Apperently she decided to do the WLE on this meeting instead. SHe also informed me that she did not think that the SLNB was neccesary.

During our conversation I asked about the extensive regression and she said that this was a good thing. That is the first time I have heard this as every article I have read suggests that over 75% regression was not a good thing.

I have a small lump in my neck, she felt it and said that it does not concern her.

I told her about the mole that disappeared 20 years ago and now there is a smaller but similiar mole in the same place. She biposied this with the WLE.

I can not shake the feeling that somehow stuff is getting missed. I am trying to be ok with everthing but was surprised she was not going to perform a SLNB, particularly with the small lump that was dismissed.

She is the expert but I am left wondering if this disease is being left to potentially progress. I hope not.


By the way... Lots of love to all of you.

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gregor913's picture
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Last reply 11/14/2015 - 2:58am


I just got back my results from the SLNB. My surgeon told me the node came back positive for traces of microscopic cancer cells. He does not know if I should have anymore nodes removed because the disease is only microscopic but did state that I would need further treatment. They only found one sentinol node and he ended up removing another 2 nodes because they were really close to each other. Im only 34 years old and I dont think Im comfortable with that approach and I really would like the rest of the lymph nodes taken from that region under my armpit just in case any other cells are in other lymph nodes. Since my tumor was ulcerated im a stage 3b right now.

Any thoughts would be appreciated since I feel like a boulder was dropped on me.

Thanks Greg

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Anonymous's picture
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Last reply 11/16/2015 - 7:01pm
Replies by: geriakt, DZnDef, Anonymous, AnitaLoree

My husband is using it.  I dont know much about it and wonder if anyone has any experiences with it. 


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AshleyS's picture
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Last reply 11/17/2015 - 12:11pm

After beginning (then trial) Ipi/Nivo combo therapy in March 2015, I was kicked off after 3/4 treatments. However, scans in May indicated the combo worked well - all subcutaneous tumors were gone and my liver mets shrunk by 95%. Scans in August were stable. After a day full of scans yesterday, I met with my doctor this morning and I'm now a COMPLETE RESPONDER! We are doing a happy dance. 

Thank you to everyone who has answered my questions on this board. Your help and support has been tremendous, perhaps even lifesaving - I switched my care to MDA after everyone here urged me to see a specialist.

Also, thank you to everyone who participated in Yervoy, Opdivo, and the combo trial before me. Again, you may have helped save my life. 

I can't wait to get home, hug my babies, and to start planning my little guy's first birthday!



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Anonymous's picture
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Last reply 11/17/2015 - 2:29am

Hi all, I have posted under different subject lines up to now but I do need to know if anybody can specifically comment on stomach mets. My Oncologist says this is the first case in her 30 years that she has come accross stomach mets. The tumor is quite large at +- 6 cm x 2 cm in the upper region of the stomach.

I have yet to see her to discuss treatment going forward. In the meantime I am having continious black stools and a fair amount of discomforting pain in the stomach region.

There is talk of total resection and reconstruction surgery - has anybody had this and is it effective?

What other treatment is available?

Any advice / input will really be appreciated.


Wally from South Africa


One day at a time.

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RobGoldsmith's picture
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Last reply 11/16/2015 - 1:10pm
Replies by: Janner, swissie

I have a mole which has regressed.. well this is what my GPs think.

I went to see a GP who has a specialist field in Dermotology, he used a dermoscope on all of my moles (I have a lot). He then found this mole which is half pink, probably almost 3/4ths pink. 

The GP thinks it is a benign atypical mole which has regressed. He is having me sent to a derm on Monday to have it cut out however. I have looked online fort days and I can hardly find any cases of a benign mole regressing on someone in their early 30s. 


Literally everything I read says melanoma. Why are there no reports of images of an atypical mole regressing right back? It must have been doing it for 6 months plus. 



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Boo79's picture
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Last reply 11/11/2015 - 1:24am

I posted on here over the summer regarding a couple of moles I had to have removed. They didn't look weird to me at the time. They weren't symmetrical, but they hadn't changed either. One came back severely atypical and the other moderate to severe. I had a third one removed later which came back moderately atypical. The first two didn't have clear margins so I went back and got clear margins. Janner was wonderful with her response of watching from now on. In the meantime, I was getting really sick...ended up not being mole related. I had tick illnesses. But while trying to determine what was wrong, they did ct scan and MRI of abdomen. They came back with multiple lesions on liver. The radiologist said the large ones were hemangiomas but small ones were probably cysts. I am just concerned that maybe they missed something and it could be more than that. 

Now back to the mole removal. One of the incisions was near another mile and when I was stitched up, the other mole was stitched into it. This mole seems to be slowly making its way across my scar now. Just a tiny bit. It has been three months since stitches were removed, and in the last couple of weeks, the scar is itching like crazy. 

Should I be concerned or am I over thinking all of this???

one more long does a full body mole check normally take? The derm looked over my body in less than one minute. Never had me stand up. I have one abnormal looking mole on the palm of my hand and she didn't remove because she said it would be uncomfortable for me???

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