MPIP: Melanoma Patients Information Page

The MPIP is the oldest and largest community of people affected by melanoma hosted through the Melanoma Research Foundation. It is designed to provide support and information to caregivers, patients, family and friends. Once you have been touched by melanoma—either as a patient or as a family member or friend of a patient—you become part of a community. It is not a community anyone joins willingly. But if you must be part of this group, you will find no better place to find the tools you need in your journey with this cancer, and the friends who can make that journey more bearable.

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Angela C's picture
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Last reply 8/21/2011 - 8:57pm
Replies by: Jackie W, Goddard71


I am scheduled for SRS to a brain met and I'm having it two days before my 30th birthday. We have plans for my birthday and I'm worried that my face will be all swollen, and I've also heard that it can cause brusing. I just wondered how many of you experienced this and if there is anything I can do to try and lessen the swelling and bruising?



Be kind, for everyone is fighting a great battle. -Plato

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Jamietk's picture
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Last reply 8/21/2011 - 7:49pm

Just posting to give a little hope to stage I and stage II (and any stage really). This week or next, can't remember which, is my 6 year anniversary. Isn't that great that its been so long I can't remember the exact date in August? I was dx borderline stage IB/IIA (2.0 on one path, 2.1 on the other), SNB neg. I'm pretty sure I'm NED, as I had a CT scan in June due to abdominal pain (turned out to be an abcess on my ovary and a major pelvic infection, which was all removed by a Gyn Onc and no cancer found). I go to MDA in October to gain my official NED status.

Here's hoping for many more years of NED for all of us.

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dutchchic's picture
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Last reply 8/21/2011 - 7:35pm
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Just wondering if anyone knows the best Melanoma Oncologist in the Dallas area?  



It's all about the TUDE! Is Jesus driving your journey?

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Life is NOT a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving in an attractive & well-preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, champagne in one hand, strawberries in the other, body totally used up & worn out, & screaming WOOHOOO, WHAT A RIDE!!

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Gene_S's picture
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Last reply 8/21/2011 - 6:21pm

Update on Gene:  The inoperable tumor on the head pushing on the spine is gone and has new cell growth on the spine, the big one in the liver is 75% shrunk,  the one in the lung is gone and all the others in the liver have greatly shrunk or totally are gone. 

Hopefully by week36 he can be NED.

Now that is some great news. 

Thank you all for your prayers we both really appreciate them.

Judy wife of Gene_S stage IV since Oct. 2010.

Live 4 today. Thank God for all he has done for us. Looking forward to enjoying tomorrow.

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I am excited for the first Music City Miles For Melanoma event which will be held Saturday October 8th at Richland Creek Greenway.

If anyone is interested in volunteering for the event, whether on the planning committee or as a day of volunteer, please e-mail me at

If y'all are interested in participating, please check out this event's First Giving page at




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If anyone is interested in participating as a day of volunteer for the Morristown Miles For Melanoma event, please e-mail me at!

The event will be held in Morristown, New Jersey on Sunday September 25th.

If you are interested in particpating in the 5K, please visit to register!




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Jewel's picture
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Last reply 8/21/2011 - 2:50pm
Replies by: Vermont_Donna, Phil S, Jewel

I have been coming to this board since Nov 2010 when my husband was first diagnosed with melanoma. Lower left calf Nodular, 3.6mm, Clark Level IV, >10 per high power field, Vertical growth present, Vascular invasion present, Microsatellites present. He had a WLE with clear margins. Oncologist chose NOT to do a LND due to the fact that he feels it does not improve OS. We chose to watch and wait because my husband likes the idea of keeping his immune system strong. Did normal protocal when in June of 2011 when he was having Hip Resurfacing performed I noticed in the hospital that he had some new spots on his original site. Fast forward to July and they discovered that he had 3 local recurrances in the original site, after a PET scan and 2 MRI one on the brain and one on his leg it is showing only in the same original spot. He also has one node that showed up on his left groin. We are now scheduled to have another WLE performed with a skin graft and a LND. Our Dr said that they prefer not to just needle the node due to fear of spill. Now I asked our ocologist about treatment, and he said he was pretty sure that my husband could be "cured" again. We all know deep down what that means. My husband and I are from the Adirondacks and my husband is comfortable with our regular oncologist and doesn't want to change. My husband is incredibly optomistic and always has been....he knows he has cancer....but refuses to let it run his life.

What should we be doing different?

Thanks to all of you, you are all so incredibly brave and strong!!!

Best wishes

Cammy& (Ken)

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Jan in OC's picture
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Last reply 8/21/2011 - 1:25pm

I have been at MD Anderson since 5 am...just got back to the hotel (after 8:30pm).  The surgery went good, the doc removed one tumor 10mm x 10mm from his left frontal lobe and he was pretty sleepy and in some pain (big headache). 

The Neurosurgeon also delivered some bad news that I have not been able to speak to Dirk about yet.  Last week's MRI showed just one large and 3 small mets in his brain.  Last night's pre-surgery MRI showed 8 small mets now.  I had a few tears and lots of cursing in my mind.  CRAP!   I will get the results of the post op MRI in the morning.  We will talk to Dr. Papa on Monday and decide where to go from here.

Our UCLA Oncologist (Dr. Chmielowski) called today to check on him and said that he was glad that we were at MD.  He said it was the best place for Dirk right now, so I just need to stay positive and believe that we can beat this latest set back.

To Desiree, I sent you an email with my phone number...look for a message from!

Thanks everyone for your prayers and support.  I am very grateful that to the wonderful people on this board.  You have kept me sane!!

Jan, wife to Dirk, stage IV

laughter is the best medicine

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AZ_Gal's picture
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Last reply 8/21/2011 - 2:17am
Replies by: AZ_Gal, mombase, lhaley

RecOvery is going pretty well no major complaints but the healing process kinda sucks. At 8 days post op I had to unexpectedly have my sutures removed from my WLE bc according to my local pcp (not my surgeon) I was having some sort of allergic reaction to the stitches. Since then I have been paranoid of doing something and having them reopen... Probably a long shot but I definitely don't want to go through more stitches. My SNB site is healing nicely except the steri-strips they used came off way early because how the heck do you keep your armpit hair from growing and pushing them off. Lol. I do have a ping pong ball size hard lump at the SNB site and will have my surgeon take a look on the 18th when I go in for a post op visit.

Oh did I mention that everything came back free and clear of cancer cells? Yay!!!!! I know that it could rear it's ugly head anywhere at anytime but for now it is a comfort knoing it is gone from my body and I get to be here and not be sick for a little bit longer.

Just thought I'd give y'all an update. Thank you guys for all the love and support; I REALLY APPRECIATE IT!!!!


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My wife's scans last week came back with pretty bad news - she has about a dozen tumors in the epidural space along her spinal column. She was going to have the one causing pain in her tailbone area treated with Cyberknife radiation, but now the radiologists are recommending Tomo Therapy radiation. Apparently this is the latest, greatest radiation treatment there is - precision and real time targeting of multiple tumor sites (can get all 12). Supposed to be painless (of course) and minimal side effects (all I can find are references to anemia and hair loss). There is only one machine in Seattle. The alternatives are not good at all - total body radiation which has awful side effects or watch and wait for 2-3  months (until her brain calms down from the Gamma Knife brain radiation treatment she had las week) and try direct injection chemo into spinal column via a brain port (sounds lovely doesn't it). That assumes she doesn't present symptoms which force some action (likely).

Anyone done this type of radiation treatment and can speak to side effects?

thanks, Nick

Her motto: "Don't wait for the storm to pass, love dancing in the rain".

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Last reply 8/20/2011 - 1:37am


I was diagnosed with melanoma just over a year ago.  In spite of everything I read here and from people in this wonderful place who responded, I never did get a stage for my melanoma.  The derm did what I assume was a wide excision (which caused a non-cancer related autoimmune reponse) and that was that.  She told me the cancer was only 0.9 mm so I didn't need the sentinel node biopsy even though I asked for it.  She also told me that the tissue removed during surgery came back 100% cancer-free.  The original margins from the scoop were clear as well.  I finally returned to mostly normal life at the beginning of this year.

Well, just over a month ago I noticed a large lump in my groin area on the same leg where my melanoma had appeared on my thigh.  It showed up almost overnight.  I saw my doctor (derm) who told me not to worry and that I had injured the tendon doing some heavy hiking.  After a month, I had another doctor examine me who referred me for an ultrasound and bloodwork.  The bloodwork came back fine (whatever that means) but the ultrasound report confirmed a 5 cm lymph node with the conclusion "highly suggestive of metastatic lymphodenopathy".  I collapsed at the news.  How could this have happened?  I'm going in for an ultrasound guided biopsy tomorrow...praying it is all just a mistake.  But, I'm not really thinking the odds are good for it being something other than cancer.

Assuming the test confirms cancer...what do I do next?  The second doctor who referred me for the ultrasound and now biopsy basically shook my hand, said he was sorry, and wished me the best. Okay, but what do I do after the biopsy?  Do I go to an oncologist?  Am I likely to have to start chemotherapy?  If my blood work was clear, is that a good sign that the cancer is limited to just this lymph node?  Or maybe it isn't cancer after all?

I'm only 39...just a couple of weeks from my 40th actually.  I recently starting seeing a man who I think could finally be "the one" and now this.  Scared, angry, confused and devastated.  Any feedback, advice, or any helpful words are so greatly appreciated.  I'm not feeling a lot of support from or faith in the doctors I've seen so far, so this site may really be a God-send for me.

Thank you,


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Replies by: teach, gossteach, Donna M.

I am trying to help a co-worker find an oncologist for her mother in the Indianapolis area. Her mother was orig dx a year ago with a mole on her upper back. If I remember correctly, she did have mets in the lymph nodes then but based on her age (60's) the choice was made to just monitor her. Unfortunately, she now has two small spots on her liver and potentially a lymph node in her chest. 

If anyone has a recommendation for someone around Indianapolis, I would appreciate the info. Should you want to reach me directly, my email is



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CAdesiree's picture
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Last reply 8/19/2011 - 9:31pm

just came from meeting the new surgeon... i told him i was hoping he was going to tell me it wasn't necessary to cut it back open.  he said he couldnt do that.  the notes from the original MOHS procedure were very poor.  and Mohs isnt designed for melanoma because it does NOT achieve the margins needed.  he and his assistant even mentioned seeing "satellite" on my back (i'll be looking that up in a minute).  but he wants to also perform a sentinel lymph node biopsy.  i didnt think that could be done after the MOHS.  he says it not the most desirable timing, but it will be best at time of resection.  thanks to everyone that commented on the last post... you have all gotten me really thinking.  this new surgeon also said that my new dr wouldn't have referred me to him if she thought it was just a consult.  that i should speak with her directly, but if she sent me to him its because she has concerns as well.  so, im back at square on... trying to my head around all of this.  but i wanted to post what he said.

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Jan in OC's picture
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Last reply 8/19/2011 - 5:41pm

Dirk decided to go ahead with the brain surgery for the biggest tumor.  It is scheduled for Friday at MD Anderson.  The doc will harvest the tumor for t-cell trial along with tissue from his side.  We hope that it will be successful and grow new t-cells. We need to do a bunch of pre-surgery stuff tomorrow.  After recovery, in a couple weeks, they will zap the smaller three (hopefully) and then start him on temodar or Bio-chemo (not sure what Dr. Papa will go with).

On a good note, we are signing a lease on a house in Katy tonight. The owner has stripped the flooring and is installing new tile and carpeting, paint and cleaning.  Hopefully it will be ready to move into Saturday or Sunday.  Then I can bring Dirk to a more comfortable place on Monday when he is released form the hospital. I was worried about bringing him back to the hotel for recovery!!

He is a little upset that I will be doing the unloading & moving on my own.  He is worried about how I will get his motorcycle off the U-haul without damage.  I'm worried about driving a big 26 foot truck!!   Just need 3 or 4 BIG guys to unload the truck!!

Gonna be a crazy weekend for me!!!   

Jan (wife to Dirk, stage 4)

laughter is the best medicine

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