MPIP: Melanoma Patients Information Page

The MPIP is the oldest and largest community of people affected by melanoma hosted through the Melanoma Research Foundation. It is designed to provide support and information to caregivers, patients, family and friends. Once you have been touched by melanoma—either as a patient or as a family member or friend of a patient—you become part of a community. It is not a community anyone joins willingly. But if you must be part of this group, you will find no better place to find the tools you need in your journey with this cancer, and the friends who can make that journey more bearable.

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EricNJill's picture
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Last reply 11/13/2010 - 12:59pm
Replies by: Carmon in NM, jolainajo

Eric had the emergency Craniotomy on Saturday, November 6th.  He still has balance issues and just wants to sleep all day.  About 4 days before he had the surgery he started with hiccups around the clock and immediately after the surgery the stopped but now they have started again and I'm worried that maybe he has some swelling in the brain.

Is it normal for him to be very fatigued?  What should I expect?  Also he is scheduled to see someone on Monday for Gamma Knife, what should I expect from that as well.

Thank you guys.  I don't know what I would do without all of you.

JillNEric In OH

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greendragonfly101's picture
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Last reply 11/13/2010 - 10:26am

need for suggestens for recovery from surgery

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EricNJill's picture
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Last reply 11/13/2010 - 9:58am

Tuesday, Nov 2nd we found out that Eric had a 3 CM tumor in the brain.  It was new since his last brain scan on September 8th.  We were looking into Neurosurgeons when Friday Eric wasn't making any sense and wasn't finishing sentences.  I called Kirkwood's nurse and she told me to take him to the ER.  In the ER they determined that he should be careflighted from Dayton, OH to Pittsburgh, PA for emergency surgery.  Saturday, Eric had a emergency craniotomy by Dr. Mintz in Pittsburgh.  He is now home and doing well.

They said that he should have Gamma Knife Radiation to the tumor bed so we are seeing someone about that next Monday.  I don't think Eric is going to be able to work anymore.  He definitely can't drive due to loss of his peripheral vision.  He sometimes gets confused about things.  He was trying to turn up the radio in the car and was turning the 4x4 knob while I was driving down the highway.  He also asked me when I put all the buttons on my steering wheel (they've always been there).  I'm hoping that maybe this is normal 3 days after surgery and that as time goes on he will get better.

After Gamma Knife they said he should start Temodar.  This is all very new to me.  Eric's cancer has always been confined to his leg.  I'm so scared.  As many of you already know, it's so hard to watch someone you love go through so much. 

If anyone has any advice on anything, I could use it.  If we file for Social Security, he has a 5 month waiting period correct?  and after that 5 months you do not get back pay for it, right?

Thanks for any help.  JillNEric in OH

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Jim in Denver's picture
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Last reply 11/12/2010 - 10:26pm

BMY is changing the name in anticpation of FDA approval.  There will be a meeting on Dec 2.  Here is an excerpt about the meeting  and a link to the FDA site for more information:

Public Participation Information

Interested persons may present data, information, or views, orally or in writing, on issues pending before the committee.

  • Written submissions may be made to the contact person on or before November 16, 2010.

http://www.fda.gov/AdvisoryCommittees/Calendar/ucm230348.htm

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naty's picture
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Last reply 11/12/2010 - 10:22pm

I've posted a few questions a wk or so ago.  We finally got the insurance to ok a consult, what do I need to ask/demand for treatment at MD Andersson?  My ftr has brain, lung, spleen, and liver mets.  He finished his WBRT on Monday.  I did ask his current oncologist to test for BRAF and he is positive, but I do not believe any other testing has occurred.   Thanks-I want to make the most of this visit!!!  Get him on a trial and get some quality of life.

Anyone here have surgery for brain mets?  No option given here currently (just in case no response to radiation).  

Thinking for him (IF he qualifies) the PLX4032 study vs IPI.   Or will they be big advocates and informative?  here his dr knows nothing other then WBRT and temedor.  

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emilypen's picture
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Last reply 11/12/2010 - 8:21pm

Normally when my cell phone rings at 8:15am in the morning, I expect to hear not so good news as my family and friends know we're not morning people.

But today it was my husbands oncologist, calling to tell us that they got all the final measurements from the latest CT scan and his tumours have shrunk by 12%, after only 7 weeks on the study drugs.

(http://clinicaltrials.gov/ct2/show/NCT01155453)

Earlier this week we were told there had been no change.... which was great as well as his disease had been really aggressive. So this was just icing on the cake.

Don't usually like to start my day crying but today they were happy tears.

Have a great weekend all.

 

Emily

Husband Stage IV, bone & soft tissue mets

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Last night, pathology confirmed that the lymph node removed from my neck Monday tested positive for melanoma (unknown primary).  All other pathology and my PET-CT scan are clean.

I will contact an oncologist today, but from everything I read and what my doctor says, my next step is a left posterior neck lymphadenectomy.  My doctor suggested that I would be "knocked on my back" for about a week with one more week recovery before I could return to work and activities of daily living.  I do better when I know what to anticipate.  Please help me.

I'm sure some of you have had this procedure.  How did it go for you?  What was recovery like? How long did it take to get back to a "normal" daily routine, and what was different when you did so?   What surprised you about the process?  What helped you get through it?

Thanks for your help.  I've been reading this board since Monday, and it's a wonderful community.

Stay strong, everyone.

Never give up. Never give up. Never, never, never, never, never give up. WInston Churchill It ain't over 'til it's over. Yogi Berra My 20th anniversary is only 9+ years away. Personally, I'm thinking champagne & oysters. Now I just have to get there

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Suzan AB's picture
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Last reply 11/12/2010 - 1:48am
Replies by: Suzan AB, Jenjen, Jim in Denver, Cynthia C, Charlie S, Anonymous

I have been away for some time, livin life and working to pay previous medical testing and the like.  Received some sobering news that I have some nodes/lesions/mets (? I don't know the proper terms) in my right lung.  I am  BRAF: exon 15 V600K mutation.   Please share treatments that have kept the Stage IV Warriors on the War Path.

My best to all with biggest of hugs and loads of blessings from above!  Most importantly...Many Thanks to You All Who Brave the Waters of Fear and Keep Us Informed!!!

Suzan AB  Stage IVa...well maybe Stage IVb now...Purple Painted Warrior Against Melanoma!  With a splash of bright Yellow!

Life is great, PTL!!!

Presently...One Day At A Time.

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Vermont_Donna's picture
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Last reply 11/12/2010 - 1:33am

Hi everyone,

After a teary week and looking at all my options and feeling so exhausted and with the unhealed leg wound, and now starting IPI next week, I have decided to resign from my job as a school based clinician. I see 30 kids a week in three kids and it was just too much. I am not taking care of myself nd now my melanoma is back, two months after I completed radiation. Because I havent been working a year (only went back 6 months ago) I am not eligible for FMLA. I will however just resign and will get short term disability from work and then long term disability and I will get my SSDI back too. I will pay to COBRA my health insurance for me and my two kids in college.

Ok questions...... #1.what are peoples main side effects to the IPI? I am getting four infusions to start, three weeks apart. Is this what others have done?

Question 2, My tumor was analyzed and I am BRAF negative. What does this mean for me (or not mean)?? Does it rule out certain treatments or trials??

Thanks so much everyone,

 Vermont _Donna, stage 3a, post SNB, WLE, 11 months of low dose interferon, 7 months of Leukine, ILP at Mass General in Boston, two rounds or radiation, and numerous surgeries and hospitalizations for cellulitis infections, and now left with fairly severe right leg and foot neuropathy. Oh and on lots of drugs.

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kellie1979's picture
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Last reply 11/11/2010 - 11:00pm

I went to a dermatologist for a spot on my leg that was hurting....luckily it was only a cyst.  However, she noticed that one of my moles was concerning so she removed it and took a quick look at my back and removed two more.  I am only 31 and never even thought that I needed to worry about my moles yet.  They came back abnormal, I went in for what I thought was a full body check.  The PA did NOT check my whole body (I wish I had known at that time what a full body check was supposed to be) she removed 5 more, 3 from my back, one from my stomach and another one from my leg.  Four of those came back abnormal, the other one the doctor sent back to confirm that to him it appears to be Melanoma.  I have since met with a cancer genetists who thinks I need to be tested for Dysplastic Nevi Syndrome due to my family history of cancer and the amount of moles that I have.

Well anyways, it has been over three weeks since I found out that it may be Melanoma.  Does it always take this long to find out?  I am trying not to worry too much but I seriously have not been sleeping well at all and am about at my breaking point.  Many people in my life do not understand why I am concerned as most of them do not understand there is a difference between Melanoma and the other types of skin cancer that are not as threatening.

I already know that once my pathology comes back (hopefully tomorrow) I am going to go to a different dermatologist as I keep finding moles that look similar to the ones that were removed.  And I don't know if I am just paranoid now but I swear everytime I look in the mirror I find a new mole that I didn't know I had.  I am also worried about my daughter, she is 7 and has had several moles appear lately.  Is this normal or should I be worried about what this means for her?

I am sorry for the rambling, I just don't know what to expect and am not finding much support in my personal life.

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Last reply 11/11/2010 - 6:42pm
Replies by: Janner, Brandi, Jim M.

I am 39 yo female with stage 1 diagnosed 6 years ago. Whithin a past 3-4 days I started to feel pressuse in my chest (around sternum) and I have now burning sensation which starts in the lower part of sternum, then moves up almost to the neck and then goes down again. I don't feel the pressure any more and probably burp more that ususally and have the hot feeling in the throat. I have never had such feeling before. Does it sound like a heartburn? I am not sure because I can not distinguish whether it is behind the sternum, in the sternum or this is skin feeling??? I am so worried. Any idea what it could be???? Thanks!

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I am 39 yo female with stage 1 diagnosed 6 years ago. Whithin a past 3-4 days I started to feel pressuse in my chest (around sternum) and I have now burning sensation which starts in the lower part of sternum, then moves up almost to the neck and then goes down again. I don't feel the pressure any more and probably burp more that ususally and have the hot feeling in the throat. I have never had such feeling before. Does it sound like a heartburn? I am not sure because I can not distinguish whether it is behind the sternum, in the sternum or this is skin feeling??? I am so worried. Any idea what it could be???? Thanks!

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washoegal's picture
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Last reply 11/11/2010 - 8:27am

I was just browsing some publications my Onc had done and come across an older one that might be of interest to some of you.  The abstract is scientific but from what I can gather, it says you've got something extra going for you and it should be studied!  A little good news anyway.

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/18235114

Life is too short to be anything but happy. Falling down is a part of life, getting back up is living.

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Hello All,

I've attended the past few symposiums presented by the MFNE and found them excellent resources. 

Jerry from Cape Cod.

An Evening with the Experts

A presentation of the latest in melanoma treatment and research

An opportunity for education, discussion & connection for patients,
survivors, families & friends

Tuesday, November 16, 6:30 – 9:00 pm

Dana Farber Cancer Institute
Jimmy Fund Auditorium
35 Binney Street, Boston, MA

Speakers:
F. Stephen Hodi, MD, Clinical Director, Melanoma Program, Dana Farber Cancer Institute
Donald P. Lawrence, MD, Clinical Director, Center for Melanoma, Mass General Hospital
Anand Mohadevan, MD, Radiation Oncology, Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center
 

    Dana Farber Cancer Institute
    Jimmy Fund Auditorium
    35 Binney Street, Boston, MA

RSVP:
Melanoma Foundation of New England at (978) 371-5613 or tsignet@mfne.org

Services:
Free Admission, Refreshments, Free Parking (in the Smith Building at 1 Jimmy Fund Way)

It's about kickin' Melanoma's butt! "Meh. Get on with it. Do not feed rabid monkeys. To fear is one thing. To let fear grab you by the tail and swing you around is another." in memory of NicOz

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Nancy's picture
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Last reply 11/10/2010 - 9:57pm

Buddy, my dear husbacd of 43 years, passed  away today.

He really fought the melanoma battle.  The journey has been a long one, some ups, some downs, but we always thought we would win.

Winning wasn't in the cards this time,  Anyone so desiring can man

 

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