MPIP: Melanoma Patients Information Page

The MPIP is the oldest and largest community of people affected by melanoma hosted through the Melanoma Research Foundation. It is designed to provide support and information to caregivers, patients, family and friends. Once you have been touched by melanoma—either as a patient or as a family member or friend of a patient—you become part of a community. It is not a community anyone joins willingly. But if you must be part of this group, you will find no better place to find the tools you need in your journey with this cancer, and the friends who can make that journey more bearable.

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MariaBailey's picture
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Last reply 3/25/2015 - 1:14pm
Replies by: arthurjedi007, MariaBailey, mary1233, Anonymous

My Mom was diagnosed in October 2014 with Mucosal Melanoma of the Nasal Cavity. She had surgery to remove the small tumor, half her pallate, part of her cheek bone, half her jaw and her lymph nodes from her neck. Then had radiation 35 treatments. The doctor told her that he believes he got all of it but this is a very sneaky cancer. Well in December her side hurt and she had a x-ray. They found a mass on her bone. With a byopsy they found the mucosal melanoma spread. She does not have any of the protein variations so they have her on Yervoy. Has anyone had this and if so what other treatments are there? I have been doing research but it seems all the treatments that are working very well deal with the variation of the proteins (BRAF, NRAS, and Kit). This is making me nervous and I am trying to find out other treatments to help my mom live a long full life. Thank you

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cheryl913's picture
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Last reply 4/15/2015 - 11:23pm
Replies by: amelanomajourney, Anonymous, cheryl913, Linny, SABKLYN

I had a radical axillay lymph node dissection done after my wide incision that disfigured a tattooed portrait I have of my daughter on my right arm. I have been NED for over a year and no lymphedema. Now I'm wanting to have the tattoo fixed, but I am very nervous that it will cause lymphedema. At the same time I don't want to stay disfigured. Can anyone offer real life experience with this other than" it's not a good idea".

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Cathy.Welch46's picture
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Last reply 3/30/2015 - 3:07pm

has anyone else had to experience this and what treatments have you tried.  Do you know someone who had and did not  make it? 

Stage IV for five years now.  Enjoying life to the fullest


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AZ_Gal's picture
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Last reply 3/24/2015 - 1:55pm
Replies by: Anonymous, ldub

I had my first primary removed august 5th 2013, and have been cancer free ever since. Supposed to have skin checks every 6 months, but I slack on them terribly. They kinda suck and are embarrasing, for me anyway...maybe it was just my dr.
Anyway, even though I slack on seeing the derm, my hubby checks my body for moles regularly.
Two nights ago he said the words I never wanted to have two new moles (near my original primary less than 6in away) and one looks asymmetrical and is two different colors. My kids are home on spring break for another week, but I'm going to try and get into the dr when they go back to school, but please tell me I'm panicking for no reason and that everything is fine. i know it may not be but I need reassuring words...this time is really bothering me, and has my stomach in knots.

Thanks guys.

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Anonymous's picture
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Last reply 3/24/2015 - 1:15pm
Replies by: Kathy himes, dvd

Hi. My wife has started treatment and after one cycle her liver enzymes have shot up. Has anyone gone through this?. Thanks, Doug

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BrianP's picture
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Last reply 3/26/2015 - 9:19pm
Replies by: jahendry12

Thought this was kinda interesting and gives some more thoughts on why combo therapies will probably be the future for treatments.

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ashlee12's picture
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Last reply 3/24/2015 - 1:45am
Replies by: Janner

So I have this mole o have been watching since about December... It is small but kinda a weird shape... Well I have started taking pictures of it back in January so I have about three pictures of it ... Tonight I showed my friend who is going to be a nurse and I also showed her the pictures ....she told me that it is weird and I should have it looked at because it has changed slightly .... Well now I'm kinda freaked out I mean I am gonna call tomorrow but like now I'm having racing thoughts about cancer again and like even tho it's small what if it is a staged cancer this timw like a stage 2 or something idk I'm just scared 

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mizmena's picture
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Last reply 3/25/2015 - 9:38am

I am newly diagnosed and all this terminology is another language for me...please can anyone help me understand. I had a shave biopsy done of a growing mole on my chest thats what this path report is. Today i did another biopsy of my lymph node under my arm waiting on those results. My lymph node is indeed abnormal via ultrasound w/ a 5.8 cm mass.



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Leslie'sHusband's picture
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Last reply 3/23/2015 - 9:28pm
Replies by: JoshF, Jubes, yazziemac

It's been a while since I've even been on this forum, let alone post, so I thought I'd post an update.  For those who may not remember, my wife Leslie was diagnosed with melanoma (ended up being 3b) on her left thigh, with the sentinal lymph node testing positive in Feb of '14.  After three surgeries, the last being a complete lymph node dissection of the left groin area done at Duke Cancer Center in April '14, she's doing well.  None of the additional nodes removed tested positive.  She had CT scans done in September '14, and last week, at Duke.  Both were clear, with no evidence of melanoma.  There is a lesion on her liver that caused a little concern back in September, but it was determined to be benign after a closer MRI of the area.  The docs said it is likely caused by hormones in birth control pills and is very common, nothing to be concerned about.  That lesion was unchanged in last weeks scan.  We will be heading to Duke every 6 months for further scans for at least the next four years.  I'm guessing that this means 1 year NED.


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Last reply 3/26/2015 - 9:13pm
Replies by: Squash, barbudo2005, arthurjedi007, Anonymous

Is there a healthy way I can gain weight?

Squash - (2/28/2015 - 7:08pm)

You can eat all the food you like but if you have faulty protein metabolism which is common in cancer patients then you wont put on weight.

You need to start taking digestive enzymes e.g. porcine pancreatic enzymes and you need to take high doses of them.

I couldnt put on any weight after losing 10kgs and going from 84kgs to 73kgs. In the last three months without changing diet i have put back on 6kgs taking high doses of pancreatic enzymes. I take 60 a day. 10 caps 1 hour before meals and 10 caps in between meals.


Hi, Squash

I am on zelboraf for 12 months and I've lost 12 kilos. I went from 73 to 61, thats 1 kilo for month!!!!

I read your post and it make a lot of sense. If you read what is Zelboraf is B-Raf enzyme inhibitor  so I think it may inhibits all kinds of enzymes.

You say you take 10 caps. What does that mean in terms of units of lipase? For example, Creon 10000 has 10000 units of lipase.

Thank you!

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yazziemac's picture
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Last reply 3/23/2015 - 10:48am

Hi all

I've posted several times previously--my husband is Stage 4, multiple mets, currently on Yervoy.  I am struggling severely with not knowing the future.  I don't expect anyone here to tell me what the future holds, because no one knows!  But, if I could have any help in how to  manage this "land of limbo", I would really appreciate it.  I try to live one day at a time, but I'm finding it very hard.  Does Pete (my husband) have only months to live? 2 years?  5 years?  No one knows...But I have to make decisions about my career (I recently decided to take a leave from my job), and I feel the need to wrap my head around what my life is going to be like going forward.  But, it seems that I can't do that because it's a big grey area (that's how Canadians spell grey, haha).  Are these treatments "buying time" and that's the best we can hope for?  Is there a chance this cancer could be cured?  What are we really and honestly dealing with??  These are the questions that I go to sleep with and wake up with--no answers to be found.  Thanks for any insight on this!


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Andiuta's picture
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Last reply 3/23/2015 - 7:43am
Replies by: Andiuta, ldub, _Paul_, SABKLYN

Hello! I have a mole that has become raised (it was flat before) and has two shades of brown and also 2 black spots. I noticed these changes one year ago but I didn't get to go to a doctor. I am really worried but at the same time I am afraid to go and get diagnosed. Is there anyone here that had the same symptoms and was diagnosed with melanoma?


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ecc26's picture
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Last reply 3/23/2015 - 8:32am

Hello everyone. 

I have not been around for a while as work has really occupied every waking second (when I'm not in the doctor's office). Mat contacted me to see how I was doing and suggested I post an update though. 

For those who don't know me, I was diagnosed in 2011 as a stage IIIb, who progressed to stage IV in 2012. I've been through the full year of interferon, a full course of IL-2, a full course of Ipi (combined with Leukine), whole brain radiation, 2 rounds of SRS, and the BRAF/MEK combo- all of which failed miserably. Last June I was accepted into the Merk PD-1 (now Keytruda) expanded access program. Things went well until September when they found a mass that had "grown" rapidly in just a couple of months. One craniotomy later the results were that it was all dead tumor, and Keytruda had gotten FDA approval so we picked up where we left off with the infusions but happily at our home office instead of 6 hrs away. I have been getting the regular 3 week injections and scans every 4th dose since then. 

For the most part, everything was showing relatively steady improvement (inside the brain and out) until the last 2 scans where things just appeared stable. I had another round of scans this past week and things are shrinking again. In the brain I'm down from multiple masses to just one that's almost invisible, in my body I'm down from over 30 mets to just 4 that are still visible and those have shrunk by nearly 2/3 since starting the infusions last June. Everyone seems amazed by what this drug has been able to do for me. One of the best parts is that I have few to now side effects and am able to live my life however I want to.

One day, I hope I can come off therapy and possibly consider having children, something my husband and I have not even dared think about until now. I don't know if it's the infusion getting into my brain or not, but something is, and I'll take it either way!

Best of luck to everyone out there fighting this battle! Keep fighting- find your way to win!


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csellers23's picture
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Last reply 3/23/2015 - 8:35am

So 6 weeks ago my husband's scans came in. And after taf/Mel combo. Yearvoy whole brain radiation and srs the results where horrible!!!! To many brain Mets to count, cancer growing everywhere! The put him on keytruda. When we went back 3 weeks later his LDH levels went from 800 to 300. They had planned on sending us home on hospices. But the gave us the 2nd round of keytruda. Today we went back and the doc said keytruda is working in his brain. I ask him how he knows and he said because he's alive. If it wasn't working in his brain he would have died 2 weeks ago! He also said keytruda does not work one or two months like some drugs can but that now we are looking at YEARS! We went in the matter of 6 weeks from you have 3 weeks to live to years. This keytruda was our last hope. And thank God it's working!!!! People ask a lot if keytruda can cross the blood brain barrier, yes it can!!!! The doc ended out appointment saying you are no longer dying!!!! Best words ever. NEVER GIVE UP HOPE!!!!! The doc is even amazed Thank God!!!


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LindaPBa's picture
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Last reply 3/21/2015 - 11:04pm
Replies by: Anonymous

New to this board and am hoping someone can give me some reassurance. It has been a roller coaster ride since January! While I am very very thankful that this was found at Stage 0, I am very scared regarding these "atypical" cells still present in a small area.

Was diagnosed late Dec 2014 with melanoma Stage 0 left foreram and told by my dermatologist of many years not to worry, caught very early,very thin etc. I am 60 years old and otherwise in very good health.

On Jan 12 he did an excision and I thought all was resolved. Pathology rept came back showing a small amt of melanoma remaining in part of margin. On Jan 24, had a second excision...again told all s/b complete. Pathology came back showing some "atypical cells" in part of margin. He said we could :

1.use Aldara cream in the area for several weeks, 2. watch carefuilly and do nothing unless change was seen or 3 have another excision by dermatologic surgeon in his office. After much condsideration I decided the only way to be fully over this awfulness was to go for a 3rd excision. That was on March 4. Procedure went fine, healing very well, stitches out on Wed...and path report shows

"Multiple deeper sections were examined and the case was discussed with the referring physician..In blocks 6,7, and 8 only, at the black inked lateral margin only, there are increased numbers of single juntional melanocytes immediately adjacent to, and focally overlying the scar. Melan-A stain, performed w appropriate controls reveals increased junctional melanocytes w scattered pagetoid spread and follicular extension at the black inked lateral margin of these three blocks only. After discussion w the clinician, Melan A stain was performed on most of the other blocks and fails to reveal increased junctional melanocytes either overlying, adjacent to, or away from the scar. Therefor it is very unlikely that the melanocytic proliferation in blocks 6,7, and 8 represents a background change, a reaction to chronic sun exposure or a reaction to wound healing. It is likely this proliferation is residual atypical melanocytic lesion"

The surgeon has now referred me to Yale for their opinion on next step needed, if any.  Having lost a brother to cancer at 51 (multiple myeloma), I am petrified at the thought of any type of cancer. My Dad had a Stage 0 abt 20 years ago..he will soon be 85 so that calms me a bit :) 

Just don't know how worried I should be abt this. I tend to be a worrier and am trying to keep this in perspective. Want to be sure to take correct steps now so that I can move on. Thank you for any experience you can share

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