MPIP: Melanoma Patients Information Page

The MPIP is the oldest and largest community of people affected by melanoma hosted through the Melanoma Research Foundation. It is designed to provide support and information to caregivers, patients, family and friends. Once you have been touched by melanoma—either as a patient or as a family member or friend of a patient—you become part of a community. It is not a community anyone joins willingly. But if you must be part of this group, you will find no better place to find the tools you need in your journey with this cancer, and the friends who can make that journey more bearable.

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katieherwig's picture
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Last reply 10/7/2014 - 12:02pm

I was diagnosed six years ago with Stage 3a while 22 weeks pregnant. I went through one year of interferon and had been cancer free. On July 28, 2014 I was diagosed with Stage 4. I have melanoma in my liver, lungs, bone, and had in my ovaries. I had a intense surgery on August 8, 2014 that removed my ovaries. 

On August 20, 2014 I started my tafinlar treatment. On November 14, I go back to MD Anderson to have scans and possibly start my Yervoy treatment. 

i have a great husband and sweet 6 year old daughter. I am still able to work full time and really feel pretty good. Sometimes I wonder if I am in denial or just handleing this well. To be honest I'm not sure which one it is. I do have a strong faith in God. But I'm still scared and sad. 

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Last reply 10/6/2014 - 7:58pm
Replies by: Bubbles, BrianP, RJoeyB, TinaB

Hi

A year ago I returned home from a 10 day business trip to find the "depression" symptoms my husband (we were only married for 8 months) was displaying had worsened. I started a concerted fight to get someone look at it seriously. He was very apathetic, so I had to cajole, connive and lie to get him to a doctor 3 times in 8 days. Finally I had him admitted to a psychiatric clinic and the psychiatrist decided on an MRI - Thank God!. She told me not to worry, there is a 1% chance of it showing anything, but that was the moment I knew - he has a brain tumor. I was right...(sometimes it is awful to be right!). He had a 5.3X5.2 tumor in his right frontal lobe with severe swelling of the brain. During the two days we had to wait to see a neurosurgeon he deteriorated rapidly - paralysis, confusion and just total incomprehension. He became a little boy.

On the 23rd of October the surgeon removed the tumor. Then two weeks of silence. I kept on asking about the histology and just got silence back. Finally the doctor saw us to remove the staples from the craniotomy. But his first words to my husband was: "Take off your shirt." I knew. Melanoma.

He had already set up an appointment with a radiation oncologist for us for the next day. This is why he waited so long to give us the histology results. There was no time to look for a second opinion or to do more research. I was panicky and hubby still apathetic. The radiation oncologist (telephonically) informed my husband (who couldn't care) that he is changing the radiation treatment from SRS to 3D conformal radiation therapy. I couldn't get answers since I am not the patient. He had 5 sessions of radiation - how much I don't know - because I am not the patient.

I started hunting for a medical oncologist and finally found one through my husband's nefrologist. He is one of only 10 in our country! It seems patients are by default sent to radiation oncologists since there are so few physician-oncologists. Never mind a melanoma specialist. (Our country has the second highest incidence of melanoma after Australia). This doctor is great! Yet he only offered watch and wait - it would have been our preference too. In the mean time he has had MRIs every three months and is due for a PET scan in November. So far No Evidence of Disease! Thank you, thank you, thank you.

How is my husband doing? He sleeps most of the time, he is sometimes confused, he has developed epilepsy and is on two different medications, he has stage B chronic kidney disease, he has short term memory problems, there is something wrong with the way he walks, he has very little interest in anything outside the home. The way things look now, he will never work again. He even forgets to water the plants.

The man I married only 21 months ago is gone. Gone is the highly intelligent, very musical Maths genius with an acute social awareness. In his place I have a little boy eager to see me, who pines for me when I'm at work. I get nervous when we are in social situations, since he is bound to say or do something completely inappropriate. Some days are better than others. I still love him with all my heart and will always take care of him!

Currently I just feel overwhelmed and alone. I stopped talking about all of this to friends and family - thinking they must feel I'm always complaining. Financially it is a struggle, we both have college aged kids from previous marriages and just my income. Luckily I have very good medical aid (medical insurance), but I still have to contend with ever increasing cost of living and the realities of living in this country.

I am reliving every moment of one year ago. I am double guessing myself. Most of all, I think I should have stopped the radiation therapy - I suspect that is the reason for his current state, and why his confusion is growing. Suddenly I cannot stop crying...

I am grateful that he is with me and "healthy", I am sad that at 52 he is suddenly a very old man. I am truly glad I knew him before he got ill. I am all in all happy to have him around and to care for him. I just really wish I can have him back the way he was...

Now I'll dry my tears and cook a nutritional supper, while doing some work in between, because I fell behind today what with all the feeling sorry for myself!

 

 

 

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Hello,
 
As the subject says, I need the below explained please.
 
Mole biopsy report says:
 
"within the dermis, there is a moderately heavy lymphohistiocytic infiltrate including melanophages"
 
What does this mean? Is the presence of melanophages normal?
 
Thanks in advance.

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Replies by: DZnDef, Squash, JoshF, washoegal

Not sure what happened with the other TWO postings, I wish there was a way to edit/delete topics, I accidentally posted them without putting the subject/title in there.  Anyways:

 

I will do my best to make a very long story short. 

I have Melanoma and recently had yet another scare (I had, what I am hoping to have been, a lipoma removed from my back last week - still waiting on path results).  My husband felt the mass on Labor day, it was about 3-4cm in diameter and about an inch or so under my scar from my primary.  Any lump, bump or mass on us people with Melanoma is completely terrifying for obvious reasons.  So, needless to say, this month has basically been mentally hell.

Now a little bit about my husband.  He has low testosterone and gets bi-weekly injections to combat this.  With these injections comes a crazy sex drive.  Let’s connect the dots…

Since my diagnosis a year and a half ago I have not been as ‘frisky’ as I was.  We are married – been together for 10 years – our sex life isn’t what it was like during the first 3 years together.  The most unfortunate side effect from Melanoma has been the constant fear of that nasty beast coming back and as I am sure all of you are aware, that thought never travels too far from view. 

I am already emotionally shut off (which is why I tend to write my feelings – this is why my blog has helped me through this whole shit-show).  I like to joke that I am a phenomenal ‘wall builder’ and essentially use that as a defense mechanism.  During times when I am freaked out about one thing or the other, I close right up like a clam.  Sex can be so far from my thought process – and half the time my husband has been drinking and that doesn’t help the situation either.  We’ve been fighting quite a bit lately about this…our fights can be nasty and he tends to throw out the “D” word (divorce).  It’s exhausting and frustrating and I just wish it would stop.  But just simply wanting it to stop doesn’t “turn me on” – especially when we’re in the middle of one of these nasty arguments. 

My question is how to help this?!  Have you dealt with this and how? 

~(lack of sex)ually frustrated  

"Everything happens for a reason"

holymolymelanomy.blogspot.com

 

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ecc26's picture
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Last reply 10/6/2014 - 6:52pm

I feel like a yoyo these days. I finally got the path report (last week) from the mass they removed from my brain about 2 weeks ago: all radiation necrosis- no live cells. 

In some ways that's great- better than having active disease! But now they can't seem to decide what to do with me. Pre-surgery the plan was to give me about 3 weeks to heal after the surgery then bring me back for gamma knife to the surgical area and a few other spots that were seen on the MRI in non surgically accessible areas. That was fine, but with the path report now they're concerned that perhaps that's not the best course of action given that what they took out was radiation necrosis. If the other spots are as well then more radiation is NOT good. I feel like I'm being tugged back and forth between some who still think I should get a gamma knife and those who don't. To be honest, not that gamma knife is such a big deal, but if I didn't have to do it, I'd be perfectly happy. 

At the moment the plan is for me to go back to the hospital where the surgery was done (Roswell Park in Buffalo, NY) on Monday for a follow up MRI. If things look at least stable, no gamma knife. If there's growth or anything new- the conversation starts all over again. I'm really hoping things are stable and I (and  my husband) can get a break from all travel and doctors stuff. I'm still not cleared to drive myself after the surgery (even though I never had any symptoms of any kind pre or post surgery and have been back to work full time this past week). Having another gamma knife would delay that clearance for sure. 

I'm happily off all medications except the anti-seizure, which I suspect will continue for at least a few more weeks.

On the bright side- I got my first dose of the now FDA approved PD-1 here locally yesterday! So excited to be back on that and to not have to drive over 6 hrs to get it! Even with the surgery I'm really not even off schedule with it (maybe a couple of days as I used to get them on Mondays and this one was on a Friday). Super excited I can get it at home now. Yesterday was dose number 6!

Wishing everyone out there all the best as you do battle with this horrible disease. Hold on to hope and remind yourself that it's becoming more managable every day- I am now almost 3 years since progressing to stage IV, and 2 years and 3 months since my first brain mets. I've been through every FDA approved therapy (currently on the Merk PD-1) had whole brain radiation, 2 (possibly soon to be 3) rounds of gamma knife, and a craniotomy for brain mets and I'm still here! You can do this, it may seem like an impossibility, but you can do this! If I can, you can

 

-Eva

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G-Samsa's picture
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Last reply 10/6/2014 - 3:12pm
Replies by: kylez, BrianP

Recap:  My last treatment (Nivo/IPI) was withheld based on scans which indicated some growing unknown in my lungs...I have melanoma there (and pretty much everywhere else), but it has been stable for about a year and a half.  There were a number of possibilities -- with the most likely being a  cumulative reaction to the drugs (but the rearing head of melanoma not ruled out)

Resolve

 

Seems after an interim scan the docs are confident I have been reacting to the NIvo.  This seems to have been bolstered by the inflammation of my joints which was becoming extreme by the time I stumbled into the office for the verdict/checkup.  The reaction in the lungs seems to have hit its high water mark already and the joint inflammation is being dealt first with Aleve and if necessary steroids.  ( whether I get my final treatment, scheduled in  six weeks is up in the air). 

If there is something to be learned by the community here, it may be that pneumonitis and joint inflammation are beginning to be seen as "classic" symptoms of Nivo taken over time.  I was told of a number of instances, including someone who had never reacted to the drugs until the last treatment, and then had a fairly extreme reaction requiring hospitalization.   There's a lot of experience in the facility where I am treated so this is good to know about .... I've heard again and again that the Nivo is Ipi's benign cousin.... but it's  a powerful drug nonetheless. 

 

 

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Jewel's picture
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Last reply 10/6/2014 - 2:49pm
Replies by: Teochasse, Jewel

Hello,

I was hoping to be writing on here that we just celebrated 3 yrs NED from a stage 3c diagnoses. Instead we got the news that my husband has a node showing up in his pelvis. 2011 CLND in groin 3/19 nodes positive, original primary on leg. Go for PET tomorrow. Depending on what PET shows our oncologist suggest surgery. What should we be planning after? Radiation was a thought. If the surgery goes well he will be back to NED status which doesn't offer much in ways of options. Will take any and all thoughts. Thank you

Jewel

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On 9-4-14 I had a melanoma removed from my scalp.  The initial biopsy suggested its thickness was .49mm.  However the path report showed that parts of it were 7mm thick.  The margins were clear.  The location of the sentinel nodes made removal impossible w/o major surgery, so the node removal attempt was aborted.  Subsequent PET CT scans showed no evidence that the cancer had spread to nodes or organs.  At this time, my doctor has not seen BRAF reports from the path study, so he does no know whether I am a candidate for certain clinical trials.  If I do not find a suitable clinical trial, he will most likely recommend year-long interferon treatments, although acknowledging that it is questionable whether benefits outweigh the probable significant loss in quality of life during treatment.  I'm also considering radiation therapy at the removal site and neck area where sentinel nodes are located, but this therapy is on hold because starting it would disquallify me for clinical trials. 

Any thoughts??

g_booker

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sweetaugust's picture
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Last reply 10/6/2014 - 9:38am

Hi there,

Just curious on your ages out there....what age were you diagnosed with stage 4 and how old you are now?

I was diagnosed with my primary melanoma (stage 2) at 26 years old, then went stage 4 at 38 years old and now just turned 40.  I'm doing great.  Just wondering how many of you out there are around the same age range? 

Laurie

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cruzinsusan's picture
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Last reply 10/6/2014 - 9:14am
Replies by: mary1233, Becky

Sorry to be on here!!  Just dianosed wtih very rare and very grim Oral mucosal melanoma!!

At stage one in sit tu and all pet scan are clear.  There is not much reasearch on this rare meanoma so I am out here looking for anything that can give me more hope!!

Thanks Suz

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kalisama's picture
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Last reply 10/5/2014 - 8:35pm

Stage IV, BRAF positive, active mets in brain and breast.

Started on Zelbarof for nearly a year after brain excision and gamma knife. Developed a met in shoulder and was switched to Mek/Taf as soon as it was approved. New mets in brain and in dermal lining of brain, as well as in left breast. Gamma knife has not shown to have worked on brain lesions a month ago.

Monday I begin Ipi with my only goal to get to Keytruda. I have never felt good about Yurvoy option and still do not. I have a colostomy resulting from divriticulitis, which I feel should exclude me from the Ipi prerequisite as clearly I have a sensitive colon.

Merck has refused me off label use of Keytruda, so my only choice is to start Yurvoy. I will be receiving 5 gamma knife treatments on my breast as well, starting after the Ipi infusion Monday and once per day going through Friday.

I'm posting this because I'm scared of Yervoy. Can't say why, it's just a feeling in my gut. If those of you who have done Ipi can share some of your experiences with me that I might find helpful, I'd really appreciate it. I'm somewhat new to this forum but have found nothing but wisdom here, and feel that y'all are the only ones in my world who are not speaking Swahili.

Thank you in advance for your time,
kali

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Rocco's picture
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Last reply 10/5/2014 - 11:37am
Replies by: Bubbles, Janner

A dear friend of mine just notifed me her Derm gave her a dx of melanoma in situ.  Very concerned as her brother just recently passed away from mel.  I'm not familiar with in situ and what all tests they'll run on her, etc  Her path info is as follows:

"Malignant melanoma, predominantly insitu, superficial spreading type.  Dept of invasion is 0.29mm, Clark's level II.  Melanoma is in a horizontal growth phase."

Her next step is surgery - assuming to get clear margins, etc..  She has an upcoming consult with Dr. Amod Sarnaik, surgical Onc at Moffit in Tampa. 

 Can anyone chime in on what she should request given the family history and/or what she should expect.  Also any input on Moffit in Tampa and/or Dr. Sarnaik would be appreciated.

Thanks -

Rocco

 

Luke 1:37

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Rocco's picture
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Last reply 10/5/2014 - 11:08am

Thanks for the good thoughts and vibes last week.  Amazing how quickly the fear of the unknown came upon me while waiting for the all clear...

Last week I posted that my PCP had suggested I get a CT the neck to look at what appeared to be a small lump under my jaw/neck area.  So went to DFCI in Boston and had my Onc order it up.  Had the scan - it showed nothing (YEAH!), followed it with an ultrasound to be sure - still nothing.  Current thought it is a submadibular gland issue (could be blocked) so I'm off to an ENT specialist to figure it out.  Bottom-line - no mel....<insert deep cleansing breath here>. 

-Rocco, Stage IV since 2005, Ipi responder, NED since 2009

Luke 1:37

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