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Last reply 10/4/2010 - 9:15pm
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Last reply 10/5/2010 - 11:25am
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was told I'm at risk for diabetes and need to lose weight but I only know how to make soup. any recs for a low fat soup recipe or links online?

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Last reply 10/4/2010 - 11:57am
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looks interesting:      Hereafter. 




A drama centered on three people who are haunted by mortality in different ways. George (Damon) is a blue-collar American who has a special connection to the afterlife. On the other side of the world, Marie (de France), a French journalist, has a near-death experience that shakes her reality. And when Marcus (Frankie/George McLaren), a London schoolboy, loses the person closest to him, he desperately needs answers. Each on a path in search of the truth, their lives will intersect, forever changed by what they believe might-or must-exist in the hereafter 


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The Amazing Race has been one of my favorites 'reality' shows for years now. Chiefly because it takes me places I will never get to go, like Norway, Singapore, Thailand. And also becaue they make those folks do things I would never do, like scale skyscrapers and walk tightropes.

I missed the first episode last week because I was in Las Vegas, but since I am busy coming down with a cold today, I decided to waste an hour watching it on my new big screen, high def laptop.

There are some really strong women pairs this year, one pair, beach volleyball team mates, one pair doctors, one pair host a local shopping show in texas.

It was one of THEM, the tv gals, who really smacked me today when I saw her take a watermelon to the face. YES. I swear! I hope that they took her IMMEDIATELY to a local hospital and had an MRI done. They had this task, where they had to use this catapult to launch a watermelon across a field, and knock down this suit of armor. And after trying it a dozen times or more, this chick let's loose the slingshot and it bounces the melon off the band (or something) and propels it backward smack into her face. The watermelon literally exploded. They showed this several times via replay and you can see the way her head snaps back and forward, and then she says several times that she 'can't feel her face' She got up and finished her task, and they moved forward, but I'll be curious tonight to see if her face is completely swollen with black eyes swelled shut.

I've also found myself enjoying a new show on FX called "Terriers" which is about a pair of pitiful PIs.

I'm determined to stay inside the next few days so that I do not expose anyone else to this nasty cold. SO..if anyone has any suggestions for new TV I should check out, let me know, and I'll have something to break up the time lying in bed reading...this computer is pretty perfect for tv viewing

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Last reply 10/7/2010 - 9:35pm

I need HELP. FAST. In the last week or so...I have removed 6 or 7 of these horrid insects from my home. They look prehistoric....with a shell that looks like a little tank. But just when you are grossed out to the max....THEY FREAKING FLY TOO!!!!! I've heard...I don't know for fact...they STINK if you squish I grab them up with a heavy duty platex glove a thick wad of tissue..and RUN to flush them in the toilet. Well...on the most beautiful...sunny....spectacular day in NJ....I opened the slider door in my kitchen...leaving the screen closed. AND in less than 5 min...more than 10 got in. I got all I could find (with a broom and a dustpan...I was right next to the open door) but there is one high on the drapes and one on the ceiling molding. I'm terrified to go after it with a broom...because it could fall ON MY HEAD. ANYONE...please???????? Any suggestions??????? I'm totally freaking out here.....

Freaking in NJ...Marie

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Last reply 10/4/2010 - 1:50pm

Dear friends:


I am down so much of late this is literally knocking my socks off.  I know most of you are worse than I, and I am not one to feel like I am a ticking time bomb for surely I am not.   But I cannot explain this pain emotionally I feel.  I know the passings of our dear ones here, have reflected on my being, but this is not the way I can continue to fight my fight.


I ask you for strength and prayers and what efer all you wanna toss at me.  I am soooooo not there where I should and need to be.  God please help us all and keep us all strong in our fight.  Melanoma truely is the enemy  not breast cancer, not thyroid cancer those seem to be able to be controlled, but MELANOMA is truely as someone here said  an ORHAN disease, and I want change, and I want it now.  At least with most other cancers we can predict and treat...what is it with melanoma?   My brother died from prostate cancer, his latter years spent in the sun to help his bones (metastiszed) and me hiding under shade.  It doesnt seem right.

Why cannot the world decide to spend the zillions of bucks needed to find a curre.   not a remission, but a damn cure!  ere it is after 8:30 pm.  no one here, but me.  I am going to bed to try to sleep. 


I love you all.

Bonnie lea

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So its really beatufull here in Aspen right now. The aspens are all bright yellow on the moutains. We caught perfect weather, mid 70's, cool evenings. All is well in Willyworld right now. Heading south to Gunnison, Durango and Mesa Verde in a few days.  Wish you were here, barf barf. :)

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Last reply 10/4/2010 - 2:09pm
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So its really beatufull here in Aspen right now. The aspens are all bright yellow on the moutains. We caught perfect weather, mid 70's, cool evenings. All is well in Willyworld right now. Heading south to Gunnison, Durango and Mesa Verde in a few days.  Wish you were here, barf barf. :)

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Our dear Kurt has entered into Hospice.  Notice on our FB bless him and keep him and family in peace.

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Last reply 5/15/2014 - 12:01am

Hope you feel better!

Sorry I couldn't figure out the image thing either.

This one is called "Pumpkin doing what he does best.

Insert Generic Inspirational Motto Here

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Last reply 10/2/2010 - 10:09am
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Apparently *I* am accepting applications  crying and Neil, 50, is one of the prospects in my virtual black book  ( he was first, I was too shaken  to note the other takers).  Of course, I am not in the market for a date, but that's another topic.

 I was REALLY trying to view the profile of a friend...they sent it to me the other day, I opened and made my comments on content. I'm matchmaking again and was going to view it once more before I forwarded on to my female friend.

I go to the site and I have to sign in- huh? I don't  remember doing that...but thought maybe I did anyway. To make it short ( for John), nothing works, I have to register. I do. No place to plug in the friend's profile name. I search everywhere. Nada. I have to fill in some further info..ok...THEN it's page after page of questions. I fill them in ( interesting)  and wait. STILL no place to plug in my friend's profile for the last minute glance. HOW did I see it before?

Holy Moley, I'm registered on a dating site and they are sending e-mail !  Just what I need. Neil sounds nice, though & I wonder if HE needs a matchmaker other than Eharmony! enlightened  I might try and see who I will not be dating over there!!!

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Last reply 10/4/2010 - 10:57pm

Some of you have interacted with Kathy, who is the guru we have found to work with our web folks.  She is a super star, and has just added a new feature.

From now on when you click on a topic and view replies, any reply that has been added since the last time you looked will be flagged with a big yellow note saying New Reply.  This will make it easy to dip into a post and look only at what is new. 

Still working on a little glitch that keeps this from popping up on the second page of replies, but that should be fixed soon.

Kudos to Kathy for fixing this.



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Last reply 10/4/2010 - 1:53pm

I just came home and turned on the TV and Rachael Ray was on. No..Rachael doesn't creep me out that much. She always reminds me of my dad, who had a little crush on her before he died.

But..she had this bedbug guy on. Now, I've pretty much avoided most of the bedbug coverage for two reasons:

1) the pictures of the little critters make me itch

2) I have been traveling since April and there's no way out of it.

I've been LOOKING for bedbugs of course, but apparently not diligently enough.

Here's what the bedbug guy said. First thing, if you get any packages in the mail in cardboard boxes, first thing, empty them out and leave them outside. Don't store those empty boxes in your house. WELL.. I have a quarter of my basement filled with empty boxes, or worse, boxes full of styrofoam that I use to mail holiday packages.

Next..say you just spent the day at Bloomies or Macy's and come home with an armload of bags loaded with fall fashion. What do you do? You got it, shake'm out in the mud room, put them immediately into the washer, get those bags out of the house. Do you do that?

Just got home from that vacation? unload your suitcase right into your washer..well..shake everything out first..over a light colored towel, then..vacuum your suitcase. I have NEVER even considered vacuuming my suitcase.

I'm officially creeped out. I've never been the kind of person to obsess over housework. Some would say I'm the opposite, but I can't stand the idea that a bedbug infestation is almost inevitable.

Think I'll make a martini.


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Last reply 10/4/2010 - 2:26pm
Replies by: Anonymous, JMart, dian in spokane, DebbieH, TinaR, jackiewin, LizzM, jag

I am heartsick this morning to read of ANOTHER child killed by the mother's boyfriend in my fair city. It seems like since I moved here in 1971, man after another has beaten a child to death. It happens here so often that it just fills me with despair instead of anger now. I wonder if it's the water, or if it just happens everywhere.

Spokane is a relatively small place. I mean.. I grew up in Los Angelos county. Maybe back then, I was just too young to pay attention to the news, so I didn't notice that men were beating kids to death in LA too, but's always front page news. It's not always MEN mind you.. a couple of years ago, a woman killed her one of her kids, insanely, stabbing her in the car, and almost killing a second one and stabbing herself. But.. with her..well..she was nuts, as is so often the case. With the's always some stupid idiot who gets mad that the kid is crying or something and kills them by accident. I blame the dumbassed women who leave their kids in the care of these gusy too.

Last night, this fellow, james cooley, was arrested for beating a one year old to death. His five yr old brother is also injured, but the part that makes me want to VOMIT is that this guy already has a PENDING case in the courts for shaking a 6 month old baby and causing it to go blind.

It's sickening

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Last reply 9/30/2010 - 3:43pm

Anyone watch this new 'reality' show?  Three sister wives and their husband is now courting a fourth potential wife.

Luke 1:37

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