Just diagnosed Friday, melanoma in situ in my right shoulder. Shave biopsy.
A little background; I'm 28 years old, sum worshipper all my life. I spend summer on my boat or riding my jet ski. Never was a fan of sunblock despite my wife always nagging at me about it. Last summer she noticed a few spots on my back and one on my shoulder that she didn't like. As a typical walking specimen of testosterone, I declined to see a Dr. I've always put up a huge fight about going because I just don't like to see a doctor and be told what to do. The company I work for demanded that we all get routine physicals if we want them to post for our insurance. My wife finally had the leverage to get me to go and show them the coupe of moles.
The doc examined the moles and said, These over here look completely normal, this one on your shoulder is very small, but I do not like it." It was smaller than a quarter of an inch.
He took a shave biopsy (which I am now reading isn't the greatest) and confirmed it is in fact melanoma. He gave me the results a day and a half after the biopsy on his day off. We really appreciate that. He referred me to someone down the hall that has 23 years experience in working with this and is a dermatologist/dermotopathologist or whatever, whom will be doing a wide local excision in two days from today.
His original diagnosis was in situ stage 0. He added that it was caught early and this will not kill me, just leave a scar and so fourth.
Coming to find out staging is very difficult if a shave biopsy is done and I'm wondering why they would specify if it is unknown.. Probably to keep me sane until the procedure is done? I nearly lost consciousness having the biopsy because I looked at what he was doing. I've never passed out sober before, I just became very confused and couldn't hear him talking to me, then the nurse ran in and the lights went dim.
Any questions I should ask on Wednesday when I get my shoulder whittled on?
Thanks in advance.