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I'm not sure how to post photos on this forum using a URL..but I made the photo my profile picture (sorry for the inconvenience, I greatly appreciate any advice/input! Also, sorry if I sound ignorant or paranoid. I don't know much about this other than what google told me.)

Two weekends ago I woke up to a bump on my cheekbone. Right away I noticed that it wasn't like any zit I'd ever had. It's fairly large yet doesn't seem to have pus in it (a very tiny bit of discharge came out when I just barely touched the bump yesterday, I have not been picking on it so my photo is how it looks all the time). It is not sore/tender at all even when pushed on. I only ever get a few mild zits per year. The photo on my page was taken January 20th. The bump doesn't seem to have changed in size at all. 

I'm a 28 year old female, the only cancer in my family so far was an aunt with colon cancer and my grandpa with bladder cancer. However, I spend a lot of time on the beach (in Minnesota, so only for a few months each year) and I've never worn sunblock... my skin never burns but I do tan pretty fast. Also, I have quite a lot of moles (when I was 12 I counted them for fun and got about 100!)

I'm only going off of google image searches but my bump looks fairly sinilar to images of nodular melanoma. 

I showed a couple friends and they think I'm overracting so I'd appreciate any comments! I don't want to be the sillyhead who asks her doctor to check out a harmless zit. But it's already been on my face for two weeks and apparently nodular melanoma grows into your tissue within a couple months.

Thank you to anyone who takes their time to help me out! I greatly appreciate it. (:


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Last reply 1/19/2018 - 3:20pm
Replies by: mrsaxde

I loved grapefruit juice all my life, and I mean, I can google enough to get this:

"those who had a serving of citrus fruit or juice 1.6 times daily had a 36 percent higher risk of the cancer than those who consumed it less than two times a week. A serving was defined as half a grapefruit, one orange or a 6 ounce glass of juice"

But now that I have melanoma, do I not even need worry about enhanced risks that I would otherwise totally ignore? Or should I avoid this potentially poisonous nectar lest its sweet bitterness include regret?

Grapefruit/Food combinations also welcome.



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Last reply 1/20/2018 - 7:52pm

After what feels like forrrreeeeverrr waiting to get my post-surgery scan... I am NED! My birthday wish came true! 

Sending my positive vibes to all of you, I want everyone to get their NED badge too!

Jenn - stage IV - Ipi/Nivo (Yervoy/Opdivo); Completed a year of infusions and surgery to remove last tumor

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Last reply 1/20/2018 - 10:38am
Replies by: Anonymous, cancersnewnormal

Live 4 today. Thank God for all he has done for us. Looking forward to enjoying tomorrow.

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Last reply 1/19/2018 - 5:06pm

I’m mad, I’m in shock, and I’m exhausted. 

I hate typing my story so you can just go look at it. Here’s the need to know: After having mets nearly everywhere, I’ve been NED since November 2015. I finished Opdivo in March 2017. 

Last Thursday I found a lump under my left armpit. I had a biopsy this morning. I was prepared for the worst and the best and I got news in between. They believe it’s superficial melanoma. Of course I need scans now. 

Have any of you progressed after being stage four and then NED? Has anyone only had superficial melanoma at this point? 

My kids are 3 and 5. I was pregnant with my son when this all “heated” up. I just want to be in their lives. 


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Last reply 1/18/2018 - 10:44pm
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I'm hoping someone here might be able to offer an educated guess as to what's going on with my groin. I've asked my oncologist and dermatologist about it, and they both say it's nothing to worry about, but it's pretty terrifying having groin pain on the same side that the melanoma was removed, and not having the doctors give me any real idea at all about what might be causing that pain.

The situation is as follows. I was diagnosed with Stage 1A melanoma last May (2017). The biopsy reported 0.38 thickness, no ulceration, mitotic rate of zero. I was extremely relieved at the time because I knew the biopsy report was about as good I could have hoped for, short of it being melanoma in situ.

The problem I'm having now is that starting about a month or two after the WLE, I've had groin pain (same side as the melanoma) that has been getting progressively worse. It started with barely noticable groin pain that I wasn't even sure was real or just imagined. Over the past six months or so, it's gotten progressively worse to the point where now I feel almost constant tingling on my groin.

There are no palpaple lymph nodes in the area that's bothering me. I went to my oncologist and he felt around the area and told me it's nothing to worry about (but didn't offer any suggestoin as to what might be causing the pain). He said I could have an ultrasound done on the area if I was really concerned, so I did that, and it came back fine. No swollen lymph nodes or anything else they would consider alarming.

I also saw my dermatologist and told him about this and he said it's nothing to worry about. I asked if the WLE itself could be causing my groin pain, and he seemed to nod in agreement to that being a possibility, but he stopped short of actually giving me any personal opinion on why my groin is constantly sore.

My foot on the leg that had the melanoma has been swollen since the WLE, but it's been getting better gradually. A couple of months after the WLE, it was extremely swollen, and now the swelling is barely noticable (but still a bit swollen compared to my other foot). I might be able to comfortably assume that the groin pain is related to the foot swelling, but if the two were related, it seems backwards that the groin tingling would be getting worse as the foot swelling gets better.

So that's where I am today. A constantly tingling groin on the same side as my melanoma/WLE, a clear ultrasound, and no real idea at all about why or whether I should be worried about it.

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Last reply 1/19/2018 - 12:45pm

Hi everyone!

I have recently been dealing with knee pain at a higher level than usual despite taking glucosamine joint supplements. Other joints are doing fine, but I had some knee pain years before doing any immunotherapy. So, I just had a x-rays done on my knees, showed cartilage loss which was not surprising. But the surprising thing that it also showed was osteopenia.. loss of bone density. Not quite osteoporisis, although I have not had a bone density scan done so I don't know exactly how bad it is yet.

I have been on vitamin D3 1000iU daily for almost a year. I may need to up that dosage.

My question is whether anyone has read or heard about bone density loss as a side effect of immunotherapy? Or if anyone has experienced it (at an age where it would not be common). 

I have my post-surgery scan tomorrow (finally) and will also see my oncologist. Going to bring this up to her as well and see what she thinks. I am going to be 31 on Sunday... but, my body seems to think I'll be 71, sheesh!



Jenn - stage IV - Ipi/Nivo (Yervoy/Opdivo); Completed a year of infusions and surgery to remove last tumor

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Last reply 1/17/2018 - 9:59pm
Replies by: casagrayson, Dasupah14, Anonymous

My son of 14 years old had a mole lightening over 3 years ago. It was a normal black mole he'd always had until it turned pink. After turning pink a half started to turn white and in the end the other half turned white. The mole ended up completely white after 4 months of losing its colour. It's passed 3 years and we were not worried. We commented it to his pediatrician the other day and said that changes in hormones can cause this things and that his mole is not suspicious. But I've never heard about regression in a teen. It wasn't a halo Nevus. And his mole now doesn't present characteristics of the ABCDE. Can this things occur in teens? I've heard that changes in moles of teens are very common but a regression?

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Last reply 1/20/2018 - 12:20am

Hi Everyone,
I need to get a hep A vaccine, and was wondering how long after my last ipi infusion can one have vaccinations? Without com[plications? I thought I was told a year, but wondering if anyone else has had to be vaccinated and what their response was.


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Last reply 1/20/2018 - 6:54am
Replies by: dessie, CancerSpouse, Anonymous, MichelleRHG


Im new to all this and was dx on a Friday Jan 5,2018 with a phone call at noon whlie at work with spreading melanoma.  I never expected this dx, it was only Breslow1.4 mm deep with miotic rate 5/mm2  .nonulcerated but bled.

 i am not derm savy but know when i need to send patients to a derm.  I am a nurse practitioner who consoles, refers patients to derm, surgeon, or oncologist as i am in primary care.  I am now on the receiving  end of GETTING any diseases much less melanoma.  Shocked felt totally taken off guard, and totally dumbfounded.  Number one, ,i never give news such as cancer over the phone much less on a Friday afternoon.  I ask patients to come in so they can get as many questions answered referrals made and options provided to them face to face,but this i think is just style not wrong nor right just how each provider approaches the disease state of a patient, but i digress...

Today again i was on the "other end" of going to nuclear medicine for lymphatic mapping and then onto surgery for sentinel biopsy,  So keeping the faith, i awoke with optimism of the outcome.  I was disappointed to discover that he also took the right inguinal nodes. (something he told e he would bx any "lit up or hot nodes")  This of course does not mean that the melanoma had spread ( i tell myself intellectually) but knowing what this could indicate.

My surgeon will call me the results probably Thursday Jan 18 with what i hope is good news.  I am scared but hopeful and finding this forum will be a great sharing experience and inspiration for me.

Thx for all being here....


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Last reply 1/19/2018 - 12:45pm

Hi, I just had 2 small, moveable subQ masses excised from the back of my hand.The dermatologist said she saw no pigment, which was probably a good sign. They were white, just like the underlying skin. She also said they were not as hard as she initially thought and were very easy to excise. They came out as little round white balls, from what I could see in the specimen jar. Has anybody actually looked at their subQ melanoma when its been taken out? I know the pathologist will give the final word but does this description sound hopeful or not? Worried, of course. Stage 3B, primary on thigh in 2009, Mets to groin and pelvic nodes in 2016. Thanks in advance for any insight.

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Hi all,

I was diagnosed with stage IIA melanoma in September 2017. The mole was on my lower left leg - 2.5 mm but not ulcerated. I had a WLE and SLNB at the end of September and happy to say i had clean margins and no lymph node involvement. They told me that my first appointment with the oncologist in follow up would be in January- and it's coming up this week. (I did see my dermatologist in November for a full body check and all looks good.) I'm a 38-year-old mother of three who just had twins two months ago, so while I am exhausted I'm otherwise in good health!

I'm wondering if any of you have guidance or advice for the questions I should ask my oncologist to make sure I am getting the best treatment possible. Also what should I expect from this appointment? Many thanks for your help and advice!

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Last reply 1/15/2018 - 7:10pm
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Does anyone have stories to tell about lentigo melanoma? My doctors told me my risks are low for recurrance but I still need to be  vigilant with every 3 month skin checks. I don't have many moles but lots of freckles and the age spots associated with sun damage on my face, hands  and back (I am 61). The research does not answer the question of am I more at risk for the other forms of melanoma. 

Was lentigo maligna melanoma IIA on nose. WLE 10/30/17and graft 11/10/17. 

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Last reply 1/18/2018 - 1:58pm

Epacadostat; Incyte: 

This drug could be the year’s most-anticipated cancer immunotherapy. Designed as a first-line treatment for metastatic melanoma, it’s used in combination with Merck’s Keytruda. Studies have shown that 56 percent of melanoma patients treated with the combination responded to the therapy for a median 45 weeks, and their cancer didn’t progress for a median 12.4 months. The FDA probably won’t approve the drug until late in the year, given the hurdles still facing Incyte.

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