MPIP: Melanoma Patients Information Page

The MPIP is the oldest and largest community of people affected by melanoma hosted through the Melanoma Research Foundation. It is designed to provide support and information to caregivers, patients, family and friends. Once you have been touched by melanoma—either as a patient or as a family member or friend of a patient—you become part of a community. It is not a community anyone joins willingly. But if you must be part of this group, you will find no better place to find the tools you need in your journey with this cancer, and the friends who can make that journey more bearable.

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Alestrada88's picture
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Last reply 8/23/2016 - 6:56am

Hey everyone, please bare with me here as I'm new to this site and in desperate need for advice! I'm 26 years old and a new mommy and newly diagnosed.

On August 1st, 2016, I was diagnosed with melanoma on my abdomen. My dermatologist told me over the phone and said the surgeon would be seeing me in 2-3 days. Surgeon sees me and said I was a stage 2 melanoma. Then fast forward a week I had a wide local excision of my abdomen and a sentinel node biopsy. In the node biopsy he removed 3 lymph nodes. Yesterday I found out 2 of the lymph nodes were completely negative and one lymph node had EIGHT melanocytes that the pathologist believes to be benign. Now after this information my oncologist stated I was a stage 1b.

howver, he is recommending a right lymph node dissection. Everything that I read said that it is an extensive surgery with a lot of recovery time and potential for lymphedema. My dr said he is 99% sure I do not need the dissection but "doesn't know what else to do". 

Also, he recommends no more kids but to wait at least 3 years if we are going to have anymore children. We wanted 4 babies and this news is hitting myself and my husband very hard.


Can an anyone offer any advice, words of encouragement, education, anything?!?!


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Jon M's picture
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Last reply 8/22/2016 - 6:30pm

Hi my name Jon i was diagnosed on June 24 with stage IIb melanoma on my right leg. I had my wide excesion and a split thickness skin graft along with a SLNB done on August 4. I just recevied my pathology report yesterday and my margins are clear in my leg but the SLNB came back with cancer in it. So now i think this makes me stage III. I go back to the surgeon on Monday to talk about my options. From what i have read i dont know if i want to go through with a CLND. Some studies now say that it doesn't improve overal survival rate so my thoughts are why put myself through it. I am going to discuss treatment options with my surgeon and i have an appointment with an oncologist. I would like to know who has not done a CLND and what treatment they went with?

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dmturner's picture
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Last reply 8/24/2016 - 12:44pm

Hi All:

I had posted a couple weeks ago that I was going to go the immunotherapy route instead of the CLND of the right groin.  Okay maybe on the fence on what to do.  Well no turning back now.  Did the first treatment on Wednesday.  Did not know it would be 4 hours long, I guess I assumed it was 2 hours.  So far no side effects.  Went to work the next day.  I work in retail and on my feet for 8 hours.  I still have swelling of my right foot/let, I am thinking from the SLNB.  That is one of the reason I did not want to the CLND cause I am prone to swelling.

My oncologist still brought up the CLND that morning.  He does understand my decision.  I told him if I was diagnosed a year ago then that would of course been the decision.

I will keep you all posted on side effects.  Next infusion is Sept. 7th.

Be Brave!

Donna, TX

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gaby's picture
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Last reply 8/19/2016 - 6:42pm
Replies by: dmturner, mjanssentx

You always gave me their support in difficult times so today I want to share this good news. Today we visited the oncologist with the result of SCAN, and everything is clean !! Thankfully, my husband  is NED since  August 15, 2012


We live an  emotional roller coaster. From diagnosis in June 2012  with  melanoma and kidney  cancer my husband had 38 years, everything was very difficult, but he's a fighter, and decided to make interferon for two years. He had several questionable PET and suffer much distress but thank God the beast yet to return ....


Greetings and thanks for the support.



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Anonymous's picture
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Last reply 8/20/2016 - 7:34am
Replies by: debwray, Bubbles, Linny, Anonymous, JuTMSY4

Hello. I had a lymph node disection done on my right groin on Monday. They had to take both the superficial and deep nodes out. I've now developed a case of lymphadema in my scrotum. I want to get compression garments but don't know where to look. I'm in Canada. Also should I see the surgeon about the swelling? I'm not sure there is anything he can do.

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Patina's picture
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Last reply 8/20/2016 - 8:23am

It's three month shy of 3 years, but my Mom, at 80, just got the approval to get her commercial drivers license back!  She is ecstatic!

Her doctor's all call her a miracle considering the stage and number of brain mets, which totaled 28, including a craniotomy for a recurrence. She has had no cognitive issues and is certainly A-Typical because of her outcomes thus far and her remarkable strength and resilience. - She acts like a 50 or 60 year old and has been dying to get back to driving for a local tour coach company she use to work for. - Staying home or taking it easy it too boring for her!

Hopefully one day everyone will have these results. In the meantime, this gives others in this situation some good news from a Stage IV survivor.


At 77 she was diagnosed with Stage IV and then brain mets, which had been missed!?! She had gamma knife radiation for 8 of 9 brain mets, they missed one !?!, followed by Yervoy 4 days later. She had amazing results, are related to the abscopal effect from gamma knife radiation. However, still had to deal with 17 more brain mets 4 months later with gamma knife treatment again, a reoccurrence about 16 months later which needed a craniotomy and then another brain met 1 month later. She's been on Keytruda for 1 treatment shy of one year, and they can't find any signs of cancer in her brain and most of the remnants from treatment are gone. - Her last CT scan showed 2 or 3 small smudges in internal organs... Everything else is gone and other than the brain mets nothing else has ever shown up.

My Mom is being treated at USC in Los Angeles. Her team has been awesome and I doubt that anyone, but Dr. Eric Chang and his team, could have done a better job with treating her brain mets without any cognitive issues to date. - He was called in 4 months AFTER her first gamma knife treatment because we were told she had 1 new brain met.  We found out that not only had the first team MISSED a brain met, but that she didn't have just 1 new brain met, but at minimum 5 in her prefrontal alone. We had been told to watch and wait by the first team and I can't imagine what would have happened if we had done that. With certainty my Mom would be in the same position now if we had followed those instructions.  - It pays to get second and even third opinions.


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Last reply 8/22/2016 - 5:23pm
Replies by: debwray, julia80211


I've seen some others post their biospy results so I'm hoping that someone can take a look at mine too.  


A little background: A friend of mine passed away from Melanoma last fall.  She asked all her friends to get skin checks, so I did.  I had one mole that had changed but nothing that seemed concerning as it had always been skin color.  Then part of it develped pigment.  Then the pigment formed a dark line in the mole, so I made an appointment.  She drilled how important the "E" is when looking at your moles.  The PCP said "It's probably nothing" but referred me.  The derm thought it was nothing but took the biopsy to put my mind at ease.  Everything came back fine in March.  

Once the biopsy area healed a tiny dark spot showed up and grew rather quickly from a tiny dot to a 3mm spot in the matter of a few weeks.  I was in for something else and the derm saw it and asked so I recounted what happened.  At that point they decided to take a punch biopsy.  

I got a call last Monday.  The derm said that the biospy came back with "severe atypia" and she said the pathologists couldn't decide if it was atypical or melanoma.  So I have a excision scheduled for Sept. 2nd.  From reading other path reports on here, I don't seem to have some of the key measurements though. :( 

I just picked up a copy of the report today to try to put my mind at ease.  The whole "maybe it is, maybe it isn't" made me nervous.  

On the tissue exam part it reads "erthematous papule x 6 hours, reactive erthema vs erthema multiforme vs bullous arthropodB- hyperpigmented 3mm macule in site of previous shave biopsy for nevus, recurrent nevus vs atypical nevus vs melanoma."  

It was reviewed by 2 pathologists.  The first one said "recurrent junctional nevus with architectural disorder and severe cytologic atypica, surgical margin free of involvement."  Sounds good, I think?   The report says thsi person is a pathologist but doesn't specify dermapathologist. Second pathologist (who is specified as a dermapathologist) says: "hyperpitmented 3mm macule in site of previous shave biopsy for nevus, recurrent nevus vs atypical nevus vs melanoma."  

Normally, I wouldn't worry but given how quickly the spot grew at the point of the shave biopsy is making me a little nervous.  Any thoughts? 


Thank you!

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JohnA's picture
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Last reply 8/22/2016 - 11:31pm

Hey folks-

My wife has had a partial response to iPi-nivo combo - all previous tumors in liver, bone, lungs and brain disappeared after 3 rounds, but 3 new brain mets appeared and have grown in the past 3 weeks. 

so, our onc at a major medical school hospital is recommending we meet with a radiation oncologist to discuss srs for the remaining 3 spots.

not knowing much about this srs field, is there variation in quality from place to place that we should consider? Is there a place or two considered to be outstanding at it?

we love our oncologist and picked him in part bc of his considerable experience and clinical judgement in treating met melanoma with iPi+nivo.  but need some advice about srs.

were also seeking second opinions from Sloan Kettering, Dana farber, and Johns Hopkins.


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Ajwells's picture
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Last reply 8/20/2016 - 9:20pm

Sorry for the TMI, first of all. I'm not all about talking about my poop

i had my 2nd ipi treatment yesterday. I woke up in the middle of the night with some abdominal cramping. I drank some pepto and went back to bed. This morning after another couple bouts of cramping, I had a mainly normal BM, but there was some mucus in it. Now I had another moment of cramping with the feeling of urgency, but I got nothing but a tiny bit of mucus. My doc said to call if I have more than 3 loose stools in 24 hours. I was just wondering if there is anything I can do to prevent this from turning in to something serious?  I take a probiotic every morning. But I'm afraid of taking too much pepto or Imodium because I have IBS with constipation. Do I risk the constipation to avoid the diarrhea?  Or just bite the bullet and call my nurse and give her a forewarning? 

Thanks for any advise. 

27 year old mother of three. Diagnosis stage 3a with the primary on my scalp. Currently receiving Ipilimumab as adjuvant treatment. 

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Duffy's Mom's picture
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Last reply 8/19/2016 - 10:07am

I think this forum is great. The support and care is wonderful to read and so reassuring. Many of the folks here are dealing with later stages than mine. My heart goes out to you. This is a scary diagnosis.

I have been diagnosed with stage 1b. My new mission is to learn as much as I can about going forward with as much wisdom on sun safety and living a full life as possible.

I read in one of the threads here a suggestion that "Janner has a forum for Stages 1 & 2" that would be helpful. Can anyone tell me how to find that forum?

Blessings to all involved in dealing with melanoma.


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slh4448's picture
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Last reply 8/18/2016 - 6:45pm

FDA Approves Opdivo and Yervoy Combination for Advanced Melanoma

Thu, 2015-10-01

Statement from Tim Turnham, Executive Director, Melanoma Research Foundation

The Melanoma Research Foundation (MRF) applauds the FDA’s approval of the combination of Opdivo (nivolumab) and Yervoy (ipilimumab) for patients with previously untreated BRAF wild-type advanced melanoma. Today’s approval marks a turning point in melanoma treatment. For the first time patients will have access to a regimen that utilizes two critical findings—that the patient’s own immune system can be engaged in the fight against cancer, and that the right combination of two or more drugs can have a synergistic effect.
Studies combining Opdivo and Yervoy, both developed by Bristol-Myers Squibb, show a much stronger response rate from people with previously untreated late-stage melanoma compared to Yervoy alone. Data from one study of the combination reported an objective response rate of 61% in previously untreated advanced melanoma patients, a number that would have been inconceivable just five years ago. 
Both Opdivo and Yervoy are FDA-approved to treat advanced melanoma as monotherapies, or as independent treatments. Yervoy, an immunotherapy, was approved in 2011 after almost 13 years without a new treatment for advanced melanoma. Opdivo was approved by the FDA in late 2014. Both drugs are part of a class of drugs called “checkpoint inhibitors” which disable the body’s natural mechanisms for limiting the immune system. Immunotherapies have been shown to be effective in treating people with advanced melanoma. The combination of these two treatments result in an aggressive and innovative approach to fighting growing melanoma cells. 
Melanoma researchers and scientists across the world agree the cure for melanoma is hiding in combination therapies. Key to this, however, is identifying the specific treatment for each individual patient that will result in a positive response. The combination of Yervoy and Opdivo brings the melanoma community one important step closer to finding the solution to this cancer

SO HAS ANYONE ASKED ABOUT THIS AND/OR HAD DISCUSSIONS WITH YOUR DOCS ABOUT THIS??? I'm stage 3a. I saw my med onc today and we agreed to start on Ipi 3mg. Then I saw this...could I be on this combo?? I sent my onc an email just alittle while ago! Anyone have any feedback on this combo?? Thanks, Stacy


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Anonymous's picture
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Last reply 8/18/2016 - 10:02am
Replies by: Gene_S, JuTMSY4, cavsnut

I just had my yearly CT scan done yesterday, but all day today I have felt very nauseous and have had a headache. I don't remember feeling like this last time but is it possible it could be from the dye?

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jazztubs's picture
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Last reply 8/18/2016 - 9:27pm
Replies by: sister of patient

Greetings All,

I'm looking to connect/hear from anyone who might have had a similar journey to the one I'm currently on.

It's been a wild 3 years, to say the least.  Here is the short story:

-Diagnosed over 3 years ago, with a large bleeding mole on my head

-Resected this area, with local wide excision

-Multiple lymph node disections, and the paratid gland removed

-1 year of high-dose interferon

-Developed Lung Mets: Did 6 cycles of high-dose IL-2 under Dr. Brendon Curti (highly recommend)

-All Lung Mets either disappeared or stopped growing--1 year later, no issues in the Lungs

-Rewind a bit...December of 2015, had a seizure. Found 2 Brain Mets. Treated with Gamma Knife. All good, until this spring, when one continued to swell/grow, etc. Had a Craniotomy to remove it. Was paralyzed on my left side, but with therapy and with the swelling going down, got around 95% of function back. Excellent Surgeon: Dr. David Adler.  

-Since the surgery, I have had a few small seizures.  I'm about to have my 3 month MRI to examine the brain. Currently just taking anti-seizure meds, and not doing any other therapy

-I've experimented with cannabis treatments as well, including high-dose Rick Simpson Oil--and while I'm not certain this has helped with acute issues, it has certainly helped with maintaining healthy body weight and overall positive disposition and dealing with depression.

OK...So, fast forward to today.  I'm not going to lie and say I'm not affraid about what lies ahead: I'm very affraid.  So far, I've taken each day at a time, and have been super positive in my disposition--it's all I have left.  Recently, I've had to stop driving, riding motorcycles, and doing many of the other things that give me a sense of freedom and enjoyment.

Knowing that the IL-2 doesn't work over the Brain/Blood Barrier, I worry each day about what the future holds.  Is it more Brain Surgery? Is it sudden death due to a seizure? etc. etc. I know darn well no one can answer that, but I wanted to hear from others that might have had a successful IL-2 run, and then hit a wall with the Brain Mets...  In short, is there any hope for life after Brain Mets?




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KAF's picture
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Last reply 8/17/2016 - 9:32pm
Replies by: MoiraM

3 weeks ago - 1 week after my 3rd ipi/nivo dose I got horrible headaches.  MRI showed an inflamed pituiatry.  I was put on 1mg/kg of prednisone for a week and then weaned down to 5mg/day over the course of 2 weeks.  My headache got better but never totaly disappeared.  On the 2nd day of the 5mg (yesterday) the headaches came on stronger again and i was having blurry vision.  Went in for a stat MRI and it showed the pituitary being the same size as it was 3 weeks ago.  I had an IV push of 80mg steroid but I couldn't stay overnight (I'm a single parent) so I came home and took the 1mg/kg again this morning.  THey want me to go to the ER for a drip but I can't leave my kid so I will go into the ER for the drip in the monring.  The headach is greatly reduced but is still there.  My question for anyone is should the steroid be eliminating my headhache entirely after starting the predinisone or is it normal to take a dary or two or more for the headache to subside.  I feel much beter and my eyesight is normal now so I don't think going to an ER tonight necessary.  Not sure what happened to my pituitary...maybe they tried to wean me too fast.

anyone else have any input or experience???



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Last reply 8/20/2016 - 10:37pm
Replies by: Jacklyn, btcedarr, Janner, Alce123, Anonymous, Bubbles

Someone mentioned that Janner has a forum for these stages, but I can't find it. Can someone post the link?


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