MPIP: Melanoma Patients Information Page

The MPIP is the oldest and largest community of people affected by melanoma hosted through the Melanoma Research Foundation. It is designed to provide support and information to caregivers, patients, family and friends. Once you have been touched by melanoma—either as a patient or as a family member or friend of a patient—you become part of a community. It is not a community anyone joins willingly. But if you must be part of this group, you will find no better place to find the tools you need in your journey with this cancer, and the friends who can make that journey more bearable.

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Willowcaregiver's picture
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Last reply 4/27/2017 - 10:03pm

My husband has had 10 lesions in his brain the first 5 were treated sucessfully with SRS Radiation, as were the 2 in the second set. Recently (March 29, 2017) 3 more lesions were found in his brain 4 days later he began loosing balance and motor skills. Upon addmission to hospital on April 3 out was discovered line of the mets was bleeding. He had surgery and 5 days of physical rehab and came home 13 days after being admitted. 36 hours after returning home he had a horrible seizure and was taken back to hospital where out was discovered there was an additional met that had been bleeding in a different address of brain. He underwent a second surgery and in now home doing well. He also has a met to a lung node and a tumor in the tail of the pancreas. Has anyone had 2 bleeds on the brain? Does anyone know what they about the tumor on his pancreads??

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KatieB's picture
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Last reply 4/25/2017 - 12:49pm
Replies by: KatieB, Anonymous, Jamie1960, Janner

Recently diagnosed, 1A, I probably have 50 moles and I'd say 20 of them or so are irregular.

Ive probably had another 20 removed in my life and the scars to me, are minor and less noticeable than the moles.

So I'm inclined to take the 20 irregular ones off - has anyone done that? Taken off moles as a preventive measure?

I'm hoping my doctor will agree - it seems safer to me and like it will help me sleep better. 


Thanks for any advice,




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DocPain's picture
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Last reply 4/23/2017 - 3:37pm

I know that everyone reacts differently and that everyone's general health at the outset is different but I thought I would ask this nonetheless.

i have had one infusion of yervoy/opdivo with "mild" side effects (although three days of nausea felt anything but mild while going through it). Infusion #2 is in about 10 days. Is there a general rule-of-thumb about the severity and nature of side effects at that time? More of the same? Same kind, more severe? Same kind, less severe? Completely different set?

Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated. I'm trying to anticipate work coverage and needs.

Doc Pain

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adriana cooper's picture
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Last reply 4/22/2017 - 8:49pm

she stood up at PT today (with lots of help)

her strength and will amazes me.

Happy Birthday, I love you.



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snow white's picture
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Last reply 4/26/2017 - 6:44pm

Hi All,

Well the IPI sent Dads liver into a tantrum.  His numbers just kept climbing.  He went to his Doc. appt on Monday and she said "we are admitting you", what?  He had driven himself there. We got the call, Mom packed up and we headed out.  We had to go through the Emergency to get him admitted, 7 hours later he had his room.  They were giving him steroid and Celcept to get the numbers down, unfortunatley the Celcept backfired and made it worse.  So they pulled the Celcept, gave more steroid and another drug (can't rememebr the name) and guess what?  His number are coming down!!  They also did a biopsy on the liver, wont get results until Monday.

But the best news is that he had a CT scan and it was CLEAR!!!!!!  No Cancer!  Our doc called me and is thrilled and shocked.  He will get an MRI next month to check the brain, but for now we are thrilled.  He comes home tomorrow!!

Just wanted to share some good news.

xo Jen

Jennifer-- Dad has stage IV Mel. No primary. Treatment: Gamma Knife,15 brain mets, Craniotomy to remove 3 large tumors in brain. Receiving treatment @The Angeles Clinic

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Maria C's picture
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Last reply 4/25/2017 - 2:47pm

Dear Fellow Warriors:

I lost my password and email to these boards so haven't posted for awhile, but I think of all of you so often and always want to share my news (good or bad) with family first, then you guys second!

So today I am sharing that 2 months away from my 2-year mark on this horrendous melanoma roller coaster ride, I am happy to say my husband and I finally feel stable enough to schedule our fall anniversary trip to Paris!

This after a plague of severe side effects from ipi/nivo during the 4-combos of my first year, 5 brain mets that resulted in 2 gamma knifes, 2 craniotomies back-to-back last summer (June 16 & July 19), and a 5-day partial brain cyberknife following the operations. Will updated. Legacy contemplated. The 5 stages of grief knocked off at least twice.

All this, and MY SCANS ARE CLEAR!!

My news after a week of MRI/CT results: No New Anything :-)

Paris, here we come.

New and seasoned warriors, hang in there. There is Hope, and then some!

P.S. I am not an easy patient. I ask questions. I research. I ask more questions. I get second opinions. And I rely on these boards a great deal for research, community, and anectodal guidance. Thank you MRF & all of you for being there (here). :-)

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JJ1970's picture
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Last reply 4/22/2017 - 3:59pm

Hello all, I received the following report from my dermatologist, who is recommending a further excision of an atypical mole, and am having a hard time deciphering what it means in plain english.  Is it melanoma?  Is it just atypical and could, if not further treated, turn into melanoma?  I'd appreciate any help from those of you with more knowledge. Thanks in advance.  


"A disorganized junctional proliferation of melanocytes in both a nested and lentiginous growth pattern is present with junctional nest architectural variation and moderate random cytologic atypia. There is no significant migration of melanocytes into higher epidermal levels. Papillary dermal fibroplasia, melanin incontinence and inflammation are seen. Aggregates of banal-appearing melanocytes are present within the dermis. The atypical melanocytes extend to a peripheral margin and thus re-excision is recommended."

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cmbstarr's picture
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Last reply 4/30/2017 - 7:52am

Hi everyone. Just wanted to share my story so far with melanoma. I noticed a spot on my shoulder in about 2005. After mentioning it many times to my dr. And being told it was nothing it started changing more rapidly in 2013. At which point Dr still said it was nothing and saw no point to refer me to dermatologist. By 2014 I had met my out of pocket max for insurance and although my dr. Said the spot was still nothing she agreed to refer me to dermatologist (even though he will not understand why she sent me). As soon as dermatologist walked in he said it looked like melanoma and called in his colleague to confirm. They immediately did a punch biopsy with a most likely I would be back diagnosis. Sure enough in a few days I was called back in to talk with them. It was melanoma and a removal was scheduled. Resulting in a 5 inch scar down my shoulder. I was told it was just under the cut off depth for lymph node testing and proceeded with routine skin checks as only follow up. In January 2017 my armpit near the original site started to fill strange. By February I noticed a hard lymph node and went to my dr. (I had changed primary dr.s at this point) he said we could just wait and see but when I mentioned the melanoma I had previously had (he had forgotten?) He said we could still wait or do a surgical biopsy. I chose biopsy. It came back positive for melanoma. Now I have stage 3 and an oncologist. I meet with a different dr. On Monday to schedule a complete right axillary lymph node removal then either immunotherapy or a clinical trial. Haven't decided which yet. So I'm finding out how much I have to be my own advocate. I know the dr.s I have had are good and defiantly mean well but if I hadn't continued to push I hate to think of where I would have been at this point.

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Anonymous's picture
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Last reply 4/23/2017 - 12:08am
Replies by: Elana, Scooby123, Anonymous, momof4boys

Just wondering if other women who are on immunotherapy like pembro or ipi/nivo have noticed their menstrual cycle symptoms being a lot worse than they were prior to treatment. I used to get fatigued and headaches for the first two days of my period, nothing major, typical monthly stuff. But now, for the first few days of my period while on treatment I am so incredibly fatigued that I can hardly do anything, have to take off work, and I get bad migraines. Feels like what were normal symptoms are 10x worse now. Like going through this isn't hard enough, now I have to expect to feel 10x worse than normal at least once a month! Anyway, had to vent about it, and maybe see if I am not alone in this.

Jenn - stage IV - Ipi/Nivo (Yervoy/Opdivo); now on Nivo maintenance

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MaPerny's picture
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Last reply 4/27/2017 - 9:54am

Yesterday, I lost my soulmate, Juan, and my son lost his Papa.  After 4 years fighting this awful disease, he reached the end of the line.

The pain is raw and recovering from both losing him after 30 years of marriage and the toll of being a caregiver for such a long period will not be easy. But it was my pleasure to care for him over these years through multiple surgeries, radiation, chemotherapy, immunotherapy and TIL.   If I made it a little less painful and easier for him to cope with in any small way then my job was done.

I would like to thank everyone for the advice and encouragement.  I see so much hope for the future with new treatments and progress every day, just too late for us.

good luck and god bless


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Anonymous's picture
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Last reply 4/21/2017 - 10:34am
Replies by: Anonymous, jennunicorn

Hi! Just call me Kath. I have a mole at my upper back. It appeared when I was 28 years old. About 10 years ago. Before it was red. And now its already black. It is itchy and painful when touched. Can anyone tell me if this is melanoma. Thanks.

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ajpeterson's picture
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Last reply 4/21/2017 - 1:32pm

I scheduled surgery for May 15th....about 3 weeks from now to have a CLND and I'm trying to anticipate how much time I'll need to recover before heading back to work.  I teach 3rd grade and so it's not exactly a sitting around in an office sort of job.  :-)  Any ideas? 

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stevenallenschwartz's picture
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Last reply 4/20/2017 - 8:46pm
Replies by: Ed Williams, Anonymous, Jubes

I just returned from my dermatoligist who first caught the melonoma on my back. He noticed my arms have rashes from the Keyrtuda. His observation was that patients who get skin rashes generally do better than those who don't get rahes. Is there any truth to this?

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Shaneswife's picture
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Last reply 4/21/2017 - 7:30pm
Replies by: Maria C, Shaneswife

Looks like he's staying in dabrafenib and tramentinib for another month. Then scans mid May with results May 16th. If any progression moving to single agent prembro as we can get coverage for ipi/nivo combo funded either through our private insurance or provincial health care. The hospital is working on appeals with the insurance company but I do not think we will win. Blood and ekg monitoring until then. 

Will be doing the pembro while on 8mg of dex. I understand there is a lot of controversy about steroid use while on immunotherapy but we are going to try it. 


Immunotherapy is buying time but at what cost to quality of life? I can't answer that for Shane. I wish I could but I can't. 


So so now we sit and wait again. But at least we're waiting together. 




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tibtrevino's picture
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Last reply 4/22/2017 - 2:50pm
Replies by: Spl25

Hey guys

So my the docs told my wife she was clear of liver mets back in August.  Well it looks like the radiology dept dropped the ball because her specialist in Seattle says she has 4 in her liver.  3 are stable and 1 is actually growing.  She is currently on Keytruda every three weeks.  He said she'll continue that along with radiation treatment to the liver which is new.  What is yalls experience with that?  

Her background 

29 Years Old, Diagnosed in 2013, stage 4 liver mets. On keytruda for a year now

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