MPIP: Melanoma Patients Information Page

The MPIP is the oldest and largest community of people affected by melanoma hosted through the Melanoma Research Foundation. It is designed to provide support and information to caregivers, patients, family and friends. Once you have been touched by melanoma—either as a patient or as a family member or friend of a patient—you become part of a community. It is not a community anyone joins willingly. But if you must be part of this group, you will find no better place to find the tools you need in your journey with this cancer, and the friends who can make that journey more bearable.

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tjndnd's picture
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Last reply 3/8/2013 - 4:09pm
Replies by: tjndnd, lou2, Anonymous, POW

Hi,

Just wanted to share this since I've seen a lot of questions regarding the topic, and because of how much of a hassle it was to find insurance for my wife.

My wife and I are in our early 30's - so we weren't thinking too much about life insurance - until my wife's diagnosis.  She was diagnosed with spitzoid melanoma, no-ulcerated, 1.1mm, no mitotic rate, clarks level 4.  Her SNB came back negative.

After we got the SNB results, I called various life insurance company's - most of which told me that there was a "seasoning" period, or that the annual premiums would be $1500-1700. 

I finally called a "broker" type company - who found multiple carriers who would insure my wife.  One was a MAJOR company - highly rated - and she was quoted at 30 bucks a month for a 30 year term policy of $250,000.  I didn't believe this, and asked if melanoma was excluded.  She said no - there were no exclusions. 

Just got the policy yesterday, and it was indeed 33 and change a month.  I'm not here to "advertise" - but just letting you know with a little determination you can indeed find life insurance after a recent diagnosis.  It probably will obviously depend on how serious the invasion is however, and if it's spread the lymph nodes or not.

 

Thanks!

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Hi,

Just wanted to share this since I've seen a lot of questions regarding the topic, and because of how much of a hassle it was to find insurance for my wife.

My wife and I are in our early 30's - so we weren't thinking too much about life insurance - until my wife's diagnosis.  She was diagnosed with spitzoid melanoma, no-ulcerated, 1.1mm, no mitotic rate, clarks level 4.  Her SNB came back negative.

After we got the SNB results, I called various life insurance company's - most of which told me that there was a "seasoning" period, or that the annual premiums would be $1500-1700. 

I finally called a "broker" type company - who found multiple carriers who would insure my wife.  One was a MAJOR company - highly rated - and she was quoted at 30 bucks a month for a 30 year term policy of $250,000.  I didn't believe this, and asked if melanoma was excluded.  She said no - there were no exclusions. 

Just got the policy yesterday, and it was indeed 33 and change a month.  I'm not here to "advertise" - but just letting you know with a little determination you can indeed find life insurance after a recent diagnosis.  It probably will obviously depend on how serious the invasion is however, and if it's spread the lymph nodes or not.

 

Thanks!

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akkcak's picture
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Last reply 3/2/2013 - 8:41pm

Just found out i have a 4mm spot in my brain that is near the thalamus. Was told it is too deep to biopsy. I don't see dr until next week. Am i looking at srs? What about other treatments in conjunction with it? Can't do yervoy. Other options?

Thanks!
Amy

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Lauri England's picture
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Last reply 3/1/2013 - 8:13am

Doctors office called today and said there were no cancer cells found in the bone.  They are not sure what was there but not cancer.  What a relief.  Now to continue on with life.  The rib biopsy is very painful and I guess I will be healing for a while.  Just glad it over and all clear.  Still NED.. Yahhh

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Cielo's picture
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Last reply 3/1/2013 - 12:44pm
Replies by: Tina D, TSchulz, Cielo, aldakota22, Anonymous

CT Scans and MRI coming up this Sunday, then see our main Onc Monday.  My husband, Scott, has been on Zel for ten months now.  Hoping and praying the Z is still working. Please send us prayers and positive energies.  Thank you.

Cielo

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Tim--MRF's picture
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Last reply 3/3/2013 - 12:41am

I have learned that we are having some issues with this site.   Some posts take a long time to show up, resulting in duplicate submissions.  And Chat has been a challenge.

I am sorry to hear this is happening.  Chat, in particular, holds a dear place in my heart.  When I first started with MRF I spent a fair amount of time in late night chat sessions and learned a great deal about melanoma and, more importantly, the melanoma community.

I want to assure you that we will get this fixed.  I am pushing the IT person who works on these issues to resolve it quickly.  I had a note an hour or so ago that a fix had been implemented.  Shortly after that I tried to open Chat from three different browsers and none of them worked--clearly a bad sign.

Please hang with us a bit longer and hopefully we can get this resolved soon.  Again, I apologize for this problem.

Tim--MRF

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awillett1991's picture
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Last reply 2/28/2013 - 3:45pm
Replies by: awillett1991, POW

I'm researching Genentech trial this for a friend. It's a small phase 1 trial, side effects sound NASTY because of the MMAE, from what I can understand. Have any of you gurus out there heard anything or have any thoughts I'd really appreciate it.. This is his only option left because of the issues he has.

Thanks!

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Bunmom's picture
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Last reply 3/2/2013 - 9:42pm

The melanoma oncologist I saw yesterday recommends complete axillary dissection for my stage 3a, as I had micromets of 0.1mm to one SLN.  The surgeon who did the WLE and SNB told me before I saw the oncologist that he wouldn't recommend it because of lifetime risk of lymphedema, infection, and inability to fully utilize my (dominant) arm. 

I looked online at some of these complications and I'm freaking out. Now I don't want the axillary dissection! 

I asked about ultrasound monitoring, but was told that by the time the node swells enough to see on ultrasound it has probably spread to other parts in the body. 

I see the chances of developing lymphedema range from 15-50%, depending on which site you read. So has anyone NOT developed this after a dissection? If so, what do you think the reason is? 

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POW's picture
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Last reply 3/1/2013 - 8:18pm
Replies by: POW, aldakota22, DeniseK

Has anybody heard from DeniseK lately? What were the results of her PET scans? Has her nausea subsided?

Hey, Denise, if you're out there, give us an update OK?

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dolphin5's picture
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Last reply 3/3/2013 - 11:54pm
Replies by: democat, awillett1991

Has anyone found relief from the constant itching besides the Aveeno creme and hydroxyzine 30mg.  She was up most of the night and found little relief.  I know it takes time for this to pass but any little trick or suggestion is appreciated. 

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eric w's picture
Replies 28
Last reply 12/28/2013 - 3:19pm
Replies by: Genny, Ali, steelergirl, eric w, POW, gabsound, Anonymous, Gene_S, Janner

Hi all,

 

My wife was diagnosed with melanoma on her arm 2 years ago. We live in Las Vegas and went to UCLA for the removal of the mole. I forget the number it was but it was ulcerated. It was removed and lymph nodes were clean. she has been getting pet/ct scans over the last two years. On the scans some subcentimeter nodules were noted without growth. This last scan 5 of the nodules hat grown but still subcentimeter....we are going to UCLA next friday and are waiting for mutation results...I have just started to read about treatments but wanted some input...first i need another facility to take my wife for second opinion...luckily we have the means to go where we need....again i live in Las Vegas....

 

my second is what type of treatment should i be expecting to hear....it seems that Yervoy is a good option or IL-2 i think it was....all the rest of her scans have been clean so far....also should we be looking at the PD-1 as well??? sorry for so many questions...scarried out of my mind....

 

by the way my wife is a beautiful healthy 42 years old.....thanks

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dian in spokane's picture
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Last reply 3/2/2013 - 12:27am

 I posted last night when I got fiinished with my appt, but I see now that it never appeared on the board! I saw Dr. Thompson at SCCA yesterday and it went exactly as planned.

It was great to be able to pick his brain about all the options out there, especially as I need a back up plan, but he agreed with Dr. Kaya that IL 2 is a good option for me and that I am good candidate for it.

As usual at any place that has a big clinical trial program, he offered me a trial. This one is a combo of IL 21 and Ippi. (I had looked at one with IL 21 and anti pd 1, but it's full and wil a waiting list) The trial has one slot open, but it is just not the trial for me. So I will continue to look at possible anti pd 1 trials as a second course in case I fail at the IL 2

But I'll likely be starting IL 2 on March 18th at home in Spokane.

Keep your fingers crossed for me, and I'll keep you posted on how it all goes.

Dian in spokane

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Carole K's picture
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Last reply 2/28/2013 - 9:09pm

I am going to try to get into chat again tonight.  I was unsuccessful last night as were many others.  I will e mail MRF to see if this can be taken care of.  Hope to see all of you there. Love and Light

Carole

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mbaelaporte's picture
Replies 8
Last reply 2/28/2013 - 6:30pm
Replies by: mbaelaporte, lou2, Anonymous, ncdaniel, Carole K, jmmm, awillett1991

I am a prime candidate for a trial of anti PD1 at SCCA but an aspect of protocol is that my insurance company is notified & requested that they participate.

My company refuses to participate in trials / I'm wondering if anyone is aware of any funding available from organizations that might partner w / my self pay route?  I've worked w / Chronic Disease Fund before but they also contribute only when using FDA approved drugs.  I notice Healthwell Foundation talks of metastatic melanoma assistance only for medicare patients.

Please someone have some good info .  Many thanks,  john

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