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The MPIP is the oldest and largest community of people affected by melanoma hosted through the Melanoma Research Foundation. It is designed to provide support and information to caregivers, patients, family and friends. Once you have been touched by melanoma—either as a patient or as a family member or friend of a patient—you become part of a community. It is not a community anyone joins willingly. But if you must be part of this group, you will find no better place to find the tools you need in your journey with this cancer, and the friends who can make that journey more bearable.

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flvermonter's picture
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Last reply 5/7/2013 - 7:56pm
Replies by: flvermonter, hbecker

Hello,

 

My husband has been diagnosed with stage iii cutaneous melanoma and is having a ct tomorrow of his liver.  Then on Thursday he has a CT and biopsy on his right lung.  THe petscan taken a couple of weeks ago showed a spot on the liver and one on the lung.  I have put a bio out there of his history if that helps.

We are in hopes it is only a spot and not more cancer.  I am curious about the lymph nodes and if that is what aided the cancer.  He has had cellulitis in his legs before from swelling, and a couple of colds back a few months.  I have read in the other emails that with weaker lymph nodes, cancer can spread quicker.  Albeit i am a novice here reading and learning what I can. 

 

Also, he had a stomach flu or something last week and again last night/today.  He almost never gets a stomach flu, even when he is nervous.  I think 2 times in one week is more than a coninsidence.  COuld this be from the cancer?  Should I call his doctor at Moffit and let them know?  I ask, as he seems to feel better and no fever with it.  I know if he has a fever, they will cancel the Thursday biopsy and we will have to wait again. 

 

Sorry for so many questions and such, but finding my way here.  Thanks in advance, Mary

Hugs to all, patients and care givers.

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TSchulz's picture
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Last reply 7/16/2013 - 11:54am

Hello All, 

I wanted to share my latest good news from my follow-up visit to NIH last week.  340 days after they infused my 119 billion TIL cells back into my body -my doctors gave me the label of " Complete responder with no evidence of disease".  This is a label I hope to wear for a very long time. 

It has been a great year watching the tumors shrink away.  But even with each bit of good news comes the fear that it will, at some point, turn the other direction without warning.  Hearing the phrase above has allowed us to breath a little deeper and feel a little more confident that melanoma may remain behind us for a little while.  (How about gone but not forgotten?)

I don't post here all that often but when I have I have received so much support and inspiration.  I am constantly amazed and inspired by everyone who chooses to share their stories or their advice.  I  have never participated in a community like this before but have found so much peace in knowing that there are others who really know what this about - and they have my back.  Thanks for that.  

I hope everyone who reads this gets to hear the words of "no evidence of disease" and those words linger for year after year.  

All the best, 

Troy

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Last reply 6/10/2013 - 1:45pm

Hi all.  I have been NED for 10 years and haven't been on this board in a very long time. 

My mel was stage III (2.5 on my upper back with a postive lymph node). They removed all lymphnodes in right axilla and none of the others were positive for mel. I also did the entire year of Interferon. 

I just had a "cyst" removed from my left neck and learned that it is CD4 positive pleomorphic T-cell lymphoma.  I have been referred to a radiation-oncologist and have an initial consultation next Wednesday.  In the meantime, I am still waiting for the surgeon and/or dermatologist to return my calls.  I have a lot of questions and am getting really frustrated with the lack of response. 

My question:  Has anyone here had melanoma then lymphoma?  This T-cell Dx is apparently pretty rare.  I find it ironic that the lymphoma was also diagnosed in the skin (so far at least).

This board was so helpful to me back in the early melanoma days, I hope I can find a Lymphoma resource that is even half as good.

Thanks for any info you can provide!

Mary Jo

“Live simply, Love generously, Care deeply, Speak kindly.”

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Drew N's picture
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Last reply 5/8/2013 - 3:01pm
Replies by: Drew N, mzammit, Anonymous, Randy437

I have had my 6 month checkup at MDA and remain NED. That's how it's been since surgery in January 2009. Grateful for each day I get.

Also grateful to live 25 miles from MDA, and for curcumin. I'm convinced of the latter's efficacy.

Peace.

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awillett1991's picture
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Last reply 5/11/2013 - 1:28am

All,
Starting Merck's anti PD1 tomorrow. Hoping for the best. I could really use whatever advice, prayers or good mojo you can send my way.

Thank you,
Amy

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Last reply 5/7/2013 - 8:59am
Replies by: buffcody, TSchulz, awillett1991, POW, Phil S, Anonymous

Hello, my husband has Melanoma stage IV.  He was first diganose Feb 15, 2012. At that time he had a mole that was bleeding and was removed and sent for test.  Two days after it being removed he had a knot on the right side of the neck.  The test came back regarding his back and it was Stage III Melanomia.  A PET scan was done and the knot was cancer as well.  AT the time they did surgery on the back and next.  He had radiation and was done in August. The Aug scan was good and the Nov scan was good.  January 2013 scan showed something on the lung.  They didnt believe it was cancer but since it  grow from Aug and Nov scan (at that time was a small dot and they were not concern). And also there were lesions on the spleen and we was never told about that until later.  The surgeron said they are not sure if its cancer that we can wait until next scan or remove it, she advised us she would remove it so we agreed.  Sugery was done and  was tested and it was Melanomia.  Now April its in the lower left lung and still shows lesion on the spleen.  They are saying it doesnt look like melanomia but neither did the right lung and it was.  I requested to have it removed and they said they cant keep operating on him because it keeps coming back. They want my husband to take Lukine.  We are waiting now on that.  My question is.. what will this Lukine do.. will it slow it down, will it shrink what is there?  No one will tell me what to expect with him in this stage.. How long he has, what do they think is next?  I love this hosptial and the dr. are great.

With him being in this stage and it coming back so fast I want to know what to expect.  Can anyone help?

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Last reply 5/6/2013 - 12:16pm
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Hello, my husband has Melanoma stage IV.  He was first diganose Feb 15, 2012. At that time he had a mole that was bleeding and was removed and sent for test.  Two days after it being removed he had a knot on the right side of the neck.  The test came back regarding his back and it was Stage III Melanomia.  A PET scan was done and the knot was cancer as well.  AT the time they did surgery on the back and next.  He had radiation and was done in August. The Aug scan was good and the Nov scan was good.  January 2013 scan showed something on the lung.  They didnt believe it was cancer but since it  grow from Aug and Nov scan (at that time was a small dot and they were not concern). And also there were lesions on the spleen and we was never told about that until later.  The surgeron said they are not sure if its cancer that we can wait until next scan or remove it, she advised us she would remove it so we agreed.  Sugery was done and  was tested and it was Melanomia.  Now April its in the lower left lung and still shows lesion on the spleen.  They are saying it doesnt look like melanomia but neither did the right lung and it was.  I requested to have it removed and they said they cant keep operating on him because it keeps coming back. They want my husband to take Lukine.  We are waiting now on that.  My question is.. what will this Lukine do.. will it slow it down, will it shrink what is there?  No one will tell me what to expect with him in this stage.. How long he has, what do they think is next?  I love this hosptial and the dr. are great.

With him being in this stage and it coming back so fast I want to know what to expect.  Can anyone help?

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since this disease robs some very young people of their life, and there may be parents reading this forum I thought this article was useful

http://parenting.blogs.nytimes.com/2013/03/03/a-high-functioning-bereaved-parent/

 

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Posted several updates since my wife was diagnosed Dec. 7 2012. Her oncology staff is at Moffitt in Tampa Fl. She had 1 spot treated on brain with radiation and completed her round of IPI treatments 03/19/13. During the IPI treatment a tumor inflammed in the throat tonsil area causing swallowing and eating issues. It was decided to have the tumor removed as much as possible. That was removed on 04/09/13. Her follow up scans showed 6 small new spots on brain and several new spots around body/organs. There was very little shrinkage if any on original tumors. She started WBR  10 treatments on 04/26/13 and was prescribed Temador to take while WBR. During the past 4 to 5 weeks she was complaining about sever stomach pains which gas X and bentyl seemed to be helping.  while driving to our WBR appt. on 04/29 her stomach pain was sever enough to put her in tears. Right after her radiation she was admitted to Moffitt. The stomach scan showed intussusception caused by a tumor. On 4/30 the whole team  from radition, oncology,GI, social worker meet with us at our room to discuss our options. I knew with this many ppl coming in that someting was not going to be easy. The surgeon explained that the surgery for the intussusception would relieve her current problem but wanted us to relize that due to the amount of cancer that he couldnt fix everything. The doctors discussed with us that the surgery would limit the future systemic treatments until healed and even then the history of both surgery could stop her qualifiying. They started talking with us about quality of life and they feel her time now might be shortened. They gave us an option to do the surgery or return home and suffer through the pain and naussea until a trial would be available. It was also suggested as a plan to start meeting with Hospice so we are fimiliar with the caregivers there and how the programs there could help our family through all this no matter if we elect surgery now or not.  Within a 15 min talk my wife and i were floored. She is 35 yrs old and still going strong, working , walking, house keeping etc. I was thinking WTH just happended. Surgery , no surgery, hospice, shorten time.. how can you handle this all at once. We have always been determined to win. We choose to do the surgery so she could eat and not have the stomach pain. It was done within 4 hours of us approving. She is at Moffitt now in recover. We agreed to meet with Hospice once we get home to understand their program. I would think IPI is still in her system and will still help. she has continued the WBR and has 3 more treatments this week. We dont plan on sitting still. The oncology team said make a full recovery from this surgery which could take 30 days then they could review and determine if another systemic treatment could help. What treatement should we be looking at. How can things be to this degree? Scared and confussed...  

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Arlenellen's picture
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Last reply 5/10/2013 - 12:27pm

My husband recently had a SLNB and a right cheek excision with plastic surgery. Although the results said there was no evidence of residual invasive melanoma on his cheek, it also states "residual melanoma in situ in a background of cicatrix. It then goes on to state, melanoma in situ measures0.4 cm in horizontal dimension and lies 0.4 cm from the nearest epidermal edge or resection. All surgical margins negative for melanoma.
The lymph node came back negative for melanoma. I am very confused. Can someone more experienced than I help me understand this? BTW the histologic type is nodual which I understand to be the fastest growing.

Thank you
Arlene

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My husband recently had a SLNB and a right cheek excision with plastic surgery. Although the results said there was no evidence of residual invasive melanoma on his cheek, it also states "residual melanoma in situ in a background of cicatrix. It then goes on to state, melanoma in situ measures0.4 cm in horizontal dimension and lies 0.4 cm from the nearest epidermal edge or resection. All surgical margins negative for melanoma.
The lymph node came back negative for melanoma. I am very confused. Can someone more experienced than I help me understand this? BTW the histologic type is nodual which I understand to be the fastest growing.

Thank you
Arlene

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BrianP's picture
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Last reply 5/4/2013 - 4:54pm
Replies by: BrianP, Bubbles, kylez, Randy437

I'm traveling to Duke on Monday for surgery on Tuesday to remove a "melanoma like" growth in my small intestines (see "Blood in Stool" thread for details on my exciting rollercoaster ride the last few weeks).  I say "melanoma like" because the gastroenterologist only looked at the sight through a balloon endoscopy procedure.  He chose not to biopsy it because he did not want to mess with the site because it had clearly been bleeding and whether the biopsy came back as melanoma or not he felt it needed to be removed.  Good news is I've had petscans, CT scans, and multiple colonoscopies and endoscopies and it looks like this is the only spot.  Hopefully my surgery will confirm this and I'll be back to NED.  17 months ago when I was orginally classified as stage IIIB NED there weren't too many treatment options (observe, interferon, or IPI vs interferon trial).  I'm just now starting my research to formulate my plan of attack following the surgery.  Does anyone know of any trials for stage IV NED?

Thanks,

Brian

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Last reply 5/6/2013 - 4:25pm
Replies by: flvermonter, hbecker, Janner

Hi, My husband was diagnosed with melanoma from a mole on his back.  He had it over 20 years, but had changed in February this year.  The pathology came back as melanoma.  Then Moffit removed the rest of the mole and 7 lymph nodes under the arm.  6 of the 7 were melanoma.  Then they did a pet scan and found a spot on his liver and his right lung.

He is having a ct scan of the liver this week, then the next day is the ct for the lung and a biopsy.  He has been diagnosed with stage iii, but if it is cancer in the lung or liver it will be stage iv.  He feels fine, no symptons, no weight loss, or pain anywhere.  He is 70 and had an aorta valve replaced 2 years ago.  he was fine with that.

 

It seems to take so long for each of the steps for testing.  Maybe that is how it is supposed to be, but we started this with the dermatoligist early march.  Once he has the tests next week, it will be another week before we know anything. 

 

I am being positive that the tests will be negative for cancer.  The dr mentioned he would go in and take out the other lymph nodes if it is not cancer in the organs.  if it is, they will do no surgery.  What kind of options for trials are available...anyone know?  Also, where he is 70 and not 40 I am afraid he would not qualify for many trials.

 

I am new to all this, as I told his doctor, we are educated people, but babies when it comes to cancer.

 

Thanks, for any help/advice

Hugs to all, patients and care givers.

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Hello to all - Tomorrow I will be walking in the 2013 Melanoma Walk in Dallas Texas for AIM.....Looking forward to it....Thanks to Catherine Murray and Kyle Clare for sponsoring me.  I will  be walking in memory of my Jim, for several other warriors who have passed on from this beast, Amy Busby, Will, Bruce Fowler, Nancy O'keefe's husband, and many more that I can't remember just this moment....Just wanted to say thanks to the 2 people from here that donated.  I appreciate it very much...

Take Care,

Sherron Clevenger, wife to Jim FOREVER

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