MPIP: Melanoma Patients Information Page

The MPIP is the oldest and largest community of people affected by melanoma hosted through the Melanoma Research Foundation. It is designed to provide support and information to caregivers, patients, family and friends. Once you have been touched by melanoma—either as a patient or as a family member or friend of a patient—you become part of a community. It is not a community anyone joins willingly. But if you must be part of this group, you will find no better place to find the tools you need in your journey with this cancer, and the friends who can make that journey more bearable.

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Replies by: Anonymous, vivian

Hello everyone,

I'm a 40 year old male with a family. I am considered high-risk (my father had stage i melanoma, I have well over 50 moles including atypical ones, dysplastic moles removed, fair-skinned, lots of exposure when I was young, etc.) I go to a derm every 6 months as it is, but I am very interested in getting mole mapping done. I have become consumed with the possibility/likelihood of melanoma in my life and want to be as pro-active as I possibly can.

 

Does anyone know of a mole mapper in the DC area?

 

Can I go to Cancer Centers (Washington Medical Center for example) for annual or semi-annual checkups, even if I have never had melanoma yet?

 

DO cancer centers offer mole mapping usually?

 

 

Thanks for any input. I greatly appreciate any help anyone can offer.

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Last reply 5/16/2013 - 12:06am

Hello all- I've been on the forum for three years, but I'm asking today for a friend. He is 39 years old and had a swollen lymph node in neck. Docs first thought it was lymphoma but biopsy can back melanoma. Unknown primary. MRI of brain came back clean. PET scan showed a 1 cm spot in lung. He is seeing a melanoma specialist that wants to start the interleukin on Monday. Still waiting for BRAF testing to come back. Is there any reason he should not start the IL-2? Would it keep him from getting other treatments if he is BRAF+? What expectations should he have of the treatment? Any advice would be appreciated. He came to me knowing my battle, but fortunately I have not joined the stage four club and can't help him.

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Last reply 5/16/2013 - 5:33pm

Hi, I am a 38 year old mother of 2, diagnosed with melanoma in situ 4 weeks ago, I had wle and have had the all clear from this, thankfully.
However it's the emotions I am really struggling with, I live in the UK, in Scotland, it's not a sunny place at all, but as soon as the sun shine people are out half naked no sunscreen no protection,
I have had quite a few sunburns myself and admit to using sunbeds maybe about 5 times in my life, as a family we use factor 50 and shade watch

I am struggling with everything at the moment, every little twinge, mark, spot, scratch, ache, pain is cancer in my head, my arm has a 4 inch scar which is healing well but still aches and feels like its ripping,
I know I am lucky but doesn't feel it just now, I was a hospice nurse for 5 years and in my head- cancer = dying,
I have read a lot of your post some have helped others have panicked me but I thank you very much for sharing your experiences it has helped me loads,
Can I ask when do these feelings go? Do they ever?
Struggling with the sunscreen can't get round having to put it on every day, so am just avoiding going out, is it just me?? I feel like a weirdo just now.

I thank you in advance for any advice you can offer me
Regards
Nic

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Last reply 5/16/2013 - 5:03pm
Replies by: Anonymous

Hi, I am a 38 year old mother of 2, diagnosed with melanoma in situ 4 weeks ago, I had wle and have had the all clear from this, thankfully.
However it's the emotions I am really struggling with, I live in the UK, in Scotland, it's not a sunny place at all, but as soon as the sun shine people are out half naked no sunscreen no protection,
I have had quite a few sunburns myself and admit to using sunbeds maybe about 5 times in my life, as a family we use factor 50 and shade each.

I am struggling with everything at the moment, every little twinge, mark, spot, scratch, ache, pain is cancer in my head, my arm has a 4 inch scar which is healing well but still aches and feels like its ripping,
I know I am lucky but doesn't feel it just now, I was a hospice nurse for 5 years and in my head- cancer = dying,
I have read a lot of your post some have helped others have panicked me but I thank you very much for sharing your experiences it has helped me loads,
Can I ask when do these feelings go? Do they ever?
Struggling with the sunscreen can't get round having to put it on every day, so am just avoiding going out, is it just me?? I feel like a weirdo just now.

I thank you in advance for any advice you can offer me
Regards
Nic

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Last reply 5/16/2013 - 5:44pm
Replies by: Cindy VT, Anonymous, Janner, randallgford

In 2006 when I was stage IIIB melanoma, I had several surgeries including in my brain, and I did interferon high dose for a week.  In 2005 I had a hysterectomy.  I was put on estradiaol. 

My Oncologist put me on another drug called Megestrol, or Megace.  I thought It was suppose to take care of hot flashes,

but apparently this drug stops tumors from growing, mostly in Breast Cancer Patients, but I was given it and maybe my tumors are not growing because of this drug?

I think it would be something to ask about.  Maybe it works with melanoma patients too.

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In 2006 when I was stage IIIB melanoma, I had several surgeries including in my brain, and I did interferon high dose for a week.  In 2005 I had a hysterectomy.  I was put on estradiaol. 

My Oncologist put me on another drug called Megestrol, or Megace.  I thought It was suppose to take care of hot flashes,

but apparently this drug stops tumors from growing, mostly in Breast Cancer Patients, but I was given it and maybe my tumors are not growing because of this drug?

I think it would be something to ask about.  Maybe it works with melanoma patients too.

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Last reply 5/16/2013 - 5:57pm
Replies by: MattF, Janner, Anne-Marie

I had surgery on March 13th to check my primary lymph node, which was clear, and to perform a segmentectomy on my left breast after a scrape biopsy performed in February came back as Melanoma.  My mole was a dark brown and slightly grey when it was biopsied.  I am having a slight panic attack as I was applying Vitamin E oil to the scar I noticed a new spot,  sort of round, but extremely light brown along the border of the scar on my breast.  It seems to have some texture but almost flat and I would say it is 4mm. I can't say it is right where the original sight was because so much skin was removed before I was left with a verticle scar.  I have spoke with a few people outside the community and they have suggested photographing it every few days and look for changes before I rush it.  I would just rush in, but I am still dealing with financial issues from my surgery.  I am hoping I can wait till my July appointment.  If there are changes, I will rush in.  But if you were me, what would you do?  Has anyone dealt with this? I was diagnosed with stage 1.  Everything came back clear.  Since then I have had two moles come back mildly atypical.  

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Last reply 5/14/2013 - 10:24pm
Replies by: Hstevens0072

I got permission from Cigar Bob to post an update.  Dian is finally at home after hospitalization and rehab - back and forth.  She is recovering from a stroke she had as a side effect after IL-2.  She also had radiation on a benign tumor in her back that was causing a lot of pain.  She still has some pain issues and lingering effects from the stroke and the computer is not something she's up to dealing with yet.  Hopefully she'll be back on here after a little more time passes and she has a chance to heal.  Wishing her speedy healing!

http://www.MelanomaResources.info

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Last reply 5/14/2013 - 1:13pm
Replies by: Anonymous, Janner, POW

Had the original biopsy, full excision, wide excision with 'margins' is scheduled for the end of this month.....It was on the rim of my ear...that skin is so thin anyway, (and not much left since they keep cutting and stretching!)  is there a chance it could have gotten into my cartilage?.... also, they havent mentioned SLNB... should I ask? It is diagnosed at level 2 stage t1A, but they dont have details like exact thickness, or mitotic rate, which I understand are important factors... My doc is only an ear/nose/throat doc upstairs from my primary physician, and he hasnt refered me elsewhere, even with this upcoming surgery with margins... He insists on doing it... I dont want to question his knowledge, but I am worried that he's either not going to get all of it this time either, OR that it has already spread to nodes in my neck (one of my nodes was swollen, he felt it, said it wasnt swollen ENOUGH to be worried.. I dont know what to do :( :( :(

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Last reply 5/14/2013 - 5:51pm
Replies by: Anonymous, Janner, Phil S

I don't get how a person would know to even ask to get tested for a cancer gene?

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Last reply 5/15/2013 - 11:42pm
Replies by: bj63, G-Samsa

Live 4 today. Thank God for all he has done for us. Looking forward to enjoying tomorrow.

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Last reply 5/14/2013 - 1:19pm
Replies by: Anonymous, kylez, thrashter, THP

My husband will begin biochmotherapy for the first time next week.  I would love to hear feedback from anyone that has been through this.  What to expect, any tips or advice on the best way to get through this with the least amount of side effects.  We are not looking forward to this AT ALL!  Any help would be appreciated!

Thanks!

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Last reply 5/15/2013 - 8:04pm
Replies by: Charlie S, Brendan, jcmp, POW, randallgford, Anonymous, JoshF

.....but sometimes they do..

Remember that.

Cheers,

Charlie S

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Last reply 5/14/2013 - 6:41pm
Replies by: mama1960, NYKaren

Had first treatment today. Nausea not listed as a side effect. I've been throwing up since 20 minutes after I left treatment center. Anyone else have this happen to them?

It is what it is.

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Anonymous's picture
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Last reply 5/14/2013 - 8:29pm

I havebeen on Zelboraf for 4 weeks.   My doctor started me on 3 & 3.  Reduced to 2 & 2.  Now  2 & 3 but through all my scalp, especially upper neck has itched very much.  Any suggestins?

Phil 4:13 and also "It is what it is"

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