MPIP: Melanoma Patients Information Page

The MPIP is the oldest and largest community of people affected by melanoma hosted through the Melanoma Research Foundation. It is designed to provide support and information to caregivers, patients, family and friends. Once you have been touched by melanoma—either as a patient or as a family member or friend of a patient—you become part of a community. It is not a community anyone joins willingly. But if you must be part of this group, you will find no better place to find the tools you need in your journey with this cancer, and the friends who can make that journey more bearable.

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chalknpens's picture
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Last reply 7/14/2012 - 10:46am
Replies by: chalknpens, Minnesota, Anonymous, Janner, AngelaM

I wrote here earlier this month about a large melanoma site on my back. It is healing now, and I've returned to the dermatologist. He looked me over, found several suspicious sites, used cryosurgery on six of them and biopsied two. One came back as melanoma and one as squamous. Both were sites I'd asked him about during that first visit, and for both he said they looked like skin irritations.

I'll be back to the surgeon for slow Moh's on the squamous, and excision on the melanoma. Is it common to find melanoma in two separate sites?

I am not perfect, but I am enough.

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shopgirl's picture
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Last reply 7/14/2012 - 9:53am
Replies by: Linny, audgator, shopgirl, lunchlady, Anonymous


My mom was told yesterday she had Metastatic Melanoma after have a tumor in her lymph node removed.  The did a head to toe exam and found absolutely NO sign of the primary melanoma.

Can someone tell me what this means?

Also, on the site I read the "stages" of melanoma.  Since this is NOT the primary and was found in her lymph node does this automatically mean it's Stage 4 and does that change her prognosis?

She's going in today for the PET and CT scans, but won't get her MRI until next week after the staples from the tumor surgery are out.

Thank you ahead of time for your answers and support!


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akls's picture
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Last reply 7/14/2012 - 1:16am
Replies by: washoegal, ylkay, gabsound, Linny

Hi everyone.


I just have a quick question for those who have had axillary node dissection.  I had my surgery more than 3 years ago and I've had some pain mostly in my arm pit area some nerve pain too.  I know this is common.  I have no signs of lymphadema.  About two months ago I started having should pain with lifting my arm.  Hurst when I wash my hair, when I'm sleeping on that side, pretty much any movement above my head.  I don't think I injured it recently.  If I did I don't remember it.  Just wondering if anyone else has experienced this pain.  Saw my onc. in May and chest x-ray and blood work was all good.  Thanks for any advice.


Amy S. in Michigan

Stage IIIA 6  years NED Completed 1 year interferon 2009.  God is Good.

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Snickers60's picture
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Last reply 7/13/2012 - 2:44pm

I've read some sad post here about how quickly things can change and turn.   My beloved Warrior Wayne has done so

well on Zel that he was NED in 7 weeks.    Now to my question:   HOW do you live with the OTHER SHOE possibly

dropping all the time ?    Even with this GREAT REPORT on Wayne, I find myself in a HOLDING PATTERN of sorts.   

Wayne has had colon cancer at age 40 and the melanoma on his ear lobe at age 50 and then the mets at age 62, but this

time is so different for some reason.  I cannot seem to get hold of it.  I feel as if I'm unconsciously trying to PREPARE my self

all the time for life without Wayne which seems to be a worst fate than any I can think of, we are so very close and have such

an awesome and very happy and loving marriage of almost 27 years.


know that GOD has been more than a LITTLE GOOD to us.   Keeping him through so much, but we BOTH seems to have

this "SHOE DROPPING" thing hanging over our head, knowing how quickly things can turn.    I know that being so ill myself

and having struggled with DEPRESSION for decades in this abhorable pain I live in has a lot to do with it, but what do you 

do to make LIFE NORMAL ???     As NORMAL as can be ?    I'd love to hear how you stay above the curve with your

emotions and FEARS !    We are normally very positive people - have great faith, but this time.....this time, something is

just bad wrong......we try to live a happy life, keep the joy, keep up the spirits, be POSITIVE, and we are very light hearted

people laughing at things most people would weep over, but still we have this HANGING OF THE OTHER SHOE over us that 

seems to dampen us in small ways all the time.   Please share how you handle this EMOTIONAL SIDE OF IT if you would.

Thank you for your time and GOD'S BEST BLESSINGS AND HEALING TO ALL OF YOU !

Nancy (devoted wife of 3 X warrior Wayne ) 

Matt. 15:13 "Every plant that my Heavenly Father hath not planted shall be pulled up by the roots". "With God all things are possible" ! Keep the FAITH !

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aldakota22's picture
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Last reply 7/13/2012 - 12:21pm
Replies by: H555, Snickers60, Anonymous, Richard_K, awillett1991, gabsound

Today opened up new bottle of Zelboraf.Starting month #10.Drug is working so good that after the June 26 visit with my melanoma specialist dr. at NYU Cancer Center I am able to skip a July visit and actually see D. Pavalik at the end of August.Will have Cat scans done at that time.Pray that the "Z" keeps working.Keep all the warriors and their loved ones in my daily prayers.Still to many sad posts that I just wanted to post a positive post .There is hope and I beleive that the medical researches are closing in on a chronic treatment for this horrible disease.All the best to everyone out there in our fight.  Al

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Karin L's picture
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Last reply 7/13/2012 - 12:12pm

Hey everyone.  I try to stop in as much as I can but have been dealing with my own battle.  Last I posted I had a great post 1yr IL2 PetCT showing all tumor activity in the liver and lymph nodes gone....amazing.  Only one small area in the L5 S1 spine was lighting up and we took the watch and wait approach for 8wk scans to see if the immune system would continue to kick in.  HUGE MISTAKE.  Didn't make it but to 6wk scans which showed growth.  With 5 days I saw my Onc., Neurosurgeon, and 2 different Radiantion Onc.'s.  My spine is close to collapsing.  The pain became so extremely severe no amount of meds could touch it.  Surgery too risky at the time as well as Cyperknife too risky for fear of permanent paralysis.  All that was left was regular radiation to help with the pain which I completed my 10th treatment today.  The pain levels are FAR tolerable now.  I am scared.  I do not know what is next.  I have an appt. Monday.  We need to scan to see if the disease has indeed gone crazy elsewhere.  It appears there is a small pea size sub q on my arm  hanging out the last month(only outward sign I can find) but it hasn't been tested or anything yet.  Maybe IPI?  Probably not ANTI PD since you can't get in anywhere....I just don' know.  Possibly/probably surgery?  I dunno.  I feel defeated.  Beat to crap.  I stay strong I stay positive but this sucker  punch is getting the best of me today anyway.  Would love to do the Cabozantinib trial....all closed no chance. 

Jimmy B....I listen to every word/advice you give out.  Any ideas this time?  I really only see IPI as a choice and it makes me uber nervous since I had quite a few auto immune problems post IL2. 

We haven't even check the brain so who knows what might be going on there.  We really only get a day at a time with this disease.

Anything you want to give me feedback, good bad or ugly, I will take it. 


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justlittleoleme's picture
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Last reply 7/13/2012 - 12:04pm

Well, because of the high steroids due to reaction to ipi, he is now dealing with aspergillious. He has fungal balls in the upper lobes of his lungs. He had a heimlich tube put in after the lung collapsed after his bronchoscopy. Week later, two chest tubes after a failed vats procedure. He currently still has two chest tubes. He is on IV anti fungal medicine voriconazole. I administer it at home. Oh yeah, forgot that at Tuesdays doctor appointment, picc line was put in.
Infectious disease doctor said this treatment takes a year. I would love to be dealing with this in a year, not reality for us. I believe we are rounding third base heading for home.
All in all, liver seems to have recovered from the ipi and we are still lowering the steroids. We started at 360mg of methylprednisolone. Now we are at 112mg!
His pain is being managed by mscontin and dilaudid. He sleeps a lot during the day, not so much at night. Pain management doctor is adding a stimulant during the day to try and keep him up during the day so he sleeps at night.
I am no longer working. He can't really be alone. Medications have him pretty woozy.
We seem to have moved from living to waiting to die. Not a good place to be.

We don't know how strong we are until being strong is the only choice we have.

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Nicky's picture
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Last reply 7/13/2012 - 12:00pm

Hi everyone, I thought I would check in and let you all know that I'm still alive and kicking melanoma.

I had an annual checkup at the melanoma outpatients here in Brisbane at the Princess Alexandra Hospital this week and I'm pleased to say I am still NED.  The hospital doctor who I haven't seen before was having a hard time reading my history because I've had so many bouts of melanoma and yet here I am nearly my 13th year Stage III and still beating it.

I have updated my patnet under " Nicky" to help anyone struggling with this disease.  I remain positive and even though I am getting on with life, I always remain vigilant.

If anyone is new to this disease, it is not necessarily a death sentence, everyone is different.  There are still people surviving melanoma, they are just getting on with their lives and may not necessarily post.

This board has always been there for me along this journey and I just want to wish you all the best and thank you.


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olivermb's picture
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Last reply 7/12/2012 - 8:21pm
Replies by: Sia, alicia, AngelaM, olivermb, Janner

Hi Everyone,

I was recently diagnosed with my second in situ (my first was two years ago). Both were caught early. I've had a number of dysplastic nevi removed, and I have many moles (though the biggest ones are probably about 5mm, but those aren't too many).

I'm just kind of flipping out over the diagnosis of a second one. Thankfully, both were caught very early -- characterized as early or evolving. But now, with my moles and atypical ones, I'm feeling like a walking time bomb.

I've read the stats that about 8-12% develop second primaries, but does anyone know the likelihood of developing 3 or more if you've already developed 2?

I'm trying to come to grips by recognizing that I have a full-body photo done, that I'll be seeing my derm even more regularly now (3 months), and that I do monthly self checks. But somehow, this isn't reassuring enough for me right now. Scared, scared, scared.

I feel bad about even expressing these fears given the things people on here have gone and are going through. You have my greatest admiration.

Any thoughts are welcome.

My best,


age 47

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Anonymous's picture
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Last reply 7/12/2012 - 8:00pm
Replies by: Sia, imissmommy2003, Janner

Say you have been messing with it for months, then you finally get it removed, could it look worse under microscope because of that picking? 

I would also like to ask, can I reverse my sun damage?  I have read that smokers if they stop smoking their lungs can heal.  Can your skin heal?  If I don't get any more sunburns does that mean my risk of another melanoma is low again?  Or does it take a while for past behavior to catch up?  I had multiple, blistering burns as a child. 

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Anonymous's picture
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Last reply 7/12/2012 - 6:45pm
Replies by: Sia, Cindy33, Anonymous, alicia, KMW1011, AngelaM, Janner

Was it the same type of melanoma (superficial spreading if first was, etc)?  Did it grow and change? Was it deeper or more shallow than your first melanoma?

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awg's picture
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Last reply 7/12/2012 - 4:45pm



I completed a year of interferon about 2 weeks ago. I am already feeling much better but find myself very short tempered and impatient. I also have some joint pain that can be painful.

I go to work daily but I now want to sped more time at home and I am just not interested in crowds or gathering with friends or family. I am very thankful for my current NED status and want to move on with a full and normal life.

I have given it some thought and I feel that I went for cancer free to cancer treatment and now I am in a middle ground and may need to figure out how to handle this new area.

Just not 100% normal.

Have other experienced this? Any suggestions?




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awillett1991's picture
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Last reply 7/12/2012 - 3:46pm

So after being told the Zel is working and 2 mos on 3 pills twice a day I got hit WHAM a week ago with fever, chills, fatigue, hot flashes, sweating, loads of gas and horrid BMs, all over aches, sorta like the flu. Started in the evenings only then after a few days was all day. Dr couldnt find anything other than my liver levels going up but "not too bad" (his words) and took me off Zel for 3 days. Now going 1 wk on 2 pills twice a day then back up to 3, and we'll see how it goes. He doesn't believe in the half dose, but said he has a patient on a higher dose, 1 wk on, 1 wk off, and she is doing great. Anyone heard of this? I envy those of you who got around the side effects somehow!

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deardad's picture
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Last reply 7/12/2012 - 1:58pm

Well I spoke to the onc in Sydney today and looks like we are going to Sydney in two weeks for gamma knife on my father's brain mets.

He has I believe 7 mets in the brain and one in a very crucial area near the spine at the base of the brain which will eventually render him unable to move. That was a stress to hear because my dad is terrified more than anything of ending up in such a state.

Long story short, they have accepted him as a candidate which gives us something at least after being sent home with a call from the palliative care nurse. It takes 2 months to work though, with a 80% success rate I'm told.  I didn't even think we'd make the two months, maybe we still wont, but it has given my parents an element of hope and that is so crucial in this journey with cancer. 

I post this knowing that I am still going to loose my dad, there's not turning back now, this cancer is well too advanced.

Can anyone give me some insight on gamma knife? I know it everywhere in the States but its very new to Australia.

My love to Maria and Dave who up against so much at the moment.

Nahmi from Melbourne

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bikerwife's picture
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Last reply 7/12/2012 - 1:37am

Lynn started this medicine 4 pills in morning and 4 pills in the afternoon last Monday so we went for his one week checkup Tuesday. Dr. Shirai was totally overwhelmed he said I told you thuis would happen. The tumors on his body that you can see are visible disappearing. The ones that were the size of marbles are size of peas the one that was golf ball size is now marble size. They all are shrinking.

The blood was at 400 has dropped to 279.

The only side effect so far is a small rash in beard and around nose. Dr gave cream for this. Having bllodwork regular at home go back on 18 for another brain scan. Will have ct. Scan of chest and kidney in five weeks and hopefully that will show shrinkage also.

Our dr was so happy he hugged lynns neck and it made us feel so good. Having a caring dr is one of the main things u need in this fight.

May God bless each of you with strength and courage to continue on each and everyday.

What God leads u to he will. Lead you through

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