MPIP: Melanoma Patients Information Page

The MPIP is the oldest and largest community of people affected by melanoma hosted through the Melanoma Research Foundation. It is designed to provide support and information to caregivers, patients, family and friends. Once you have been touched by melanoma—either as a patient or as a family member or friend of a patient—you become part of a community. It is not a community anyone joins willingly. But if you must be part of this group, you will find no better place to find the tools you need in your journey with this cancer, and the friends who can make that journey more bearable.

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Last reply 5/22/2014 - 2:10pm
Replies by: paul, ecc26, Nadia, tcell, Mat


Can anyone tell me when their sided effects started and what they were?  This may be the next step and finding out how soon and what to generally expect would be a great help to me.


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Last reply 5/22/2014 - 4:00pm
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If you haven't seen it yet, cancer warrior Megan Kowalewski's dance video set to Kelly Clakrson's "Stronger" is a truly uplifting clip that is sure to make you smile. Check it out at


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Last reply 5/22/2014 - 4:16pm
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Is stage 1b still considered early stage melanoma, or is it only stage 0 and 1a?  The depth of my melanoma was 1.8, and there was no nodal involvement, but I sometimes feel afraid to hope it could be considered early and that I may be "done" so to speak with melanoma.  Thank you so much for your advice and words of wisdom. I am in awe of the incredible warriors I read about on this site. I only pray that I could have the strength you have shown.

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Last reply 5/22/2014 - 8:23pm
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Just thought I'd fill you all in on the latest roller coaster ride. Yesterday Kevin got the clear PET scan results (yea!). Today we get a call from the scheduling place to schedule his MRI. He responds that it is scheduled for November. They then have him talk to the treatment coordinator. She sends Kevin the results of the PET scan showing something 'not 100%' with his liver. Well, I guess one part of his liver took on more contrast than another part. There is no mass nor was there a determined amount of contrast intake, but they want an MRI just to be safe.

After I got a chance to talk with her, I got to understand that if Kevin had just a routine check up with normal labs done, there would be no reason to do this. Even with the information they have, they deem it 'normal', but given Kevin's melanoma history, they don't want to take any chances. I am so greatful to have such a thorough medical team working with us! Now to get through an MRI!

Oh and btw, the treatment coordinator agrees with me that Kevin should be scanned every 3 months and will make sure the insurance covers it! Love this team! It definitely helps when you trust your team of doctors.

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Last reply 5/23/2014 - 8:07am
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My Dad has been recently diagnosed with metastatic prostatic adenocarcinoma. I know this is off topic, I am a stage IV 4 melanoma survivor. I'm just worried he Is not in the right place being cared for by specialists in advanced prostate cancer. Any words of advice out there for a very concerned daughter?

Be Brave

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Hey Group- My wife was diagnosed with Melanoma in April. Breslow was 1.2mm, mitonic rate <1.mm2, mole on left shoulder blade. We were told at UAB that they found literally one cell in a sentinel lymph node and recommended that we watch and observe. We went to MD Anderson for a second opinion. They confirmed the one cell to be Melanoma, but said that standard procedure is to remove the remaining axillary nodes, regardless of how small the count is. They are not making us, but are strongly recommending we have the second surgery. They feel this gives her the best chance of it not returning. Tough call, but we are scheduled for surgery out there on June 11. Any advice on the lymph node dissection? Said it is similar to what breast cancer patients have, but not quite as bad due to the area not being exposed to radiation or chemotherapy and they get additional lymph nodes with breast cancer patients up around the collar bone. My wife will not have that, but she will have a drain for about a month. I have never dreaded something so much yet ready for it to be over with at the same time. If she doesn't have the surgery, MD Anderson would scan the lymph nodes every 3 months with an ultra sound. If/when it showed up, then they would take the lymph nodes out, but we would at that point probably be further down the line than we wanted to be. Everyone we have talked to except UAB, is against the"watch and observe" philosophy and say attack this stuff aggressively at the beginning. In other words, get the rest of those lymph nodes out. This is basically the MSLT -II clinical trial without being enrolled in it.

Thoughts and/or advice?


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Last reply 5/23/2014 - 3:37pm
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I'm not sure I've ever seen pictures or video of Dr. Rosenberg before. Meet him... kind of, on this TV news clip from a Washington D.C. station.

2 primaries; lung/brain mets in past; paratracheal lymph node currently; participating in  Opdivo/Lirilumab trial

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Last reply 5/24/2014 - 8:48pm
Replies by: Ed Williams, ecc26, Anonymous, arthurjedi007, Hstevens0072

Been on vem 17 weeks and told that body mets are stable but new mets in brain and that I need wbr due to their number. I now just feel like a failure clearly I can't respond to my first treatment so things like ipi and Pd1 will be a waste of time. Would also like the wbr to destroy all the small mets I have I'm the brain but bet I will be the one to not respond. Sorry feeling throughly fed up

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Last reply 5/26/2014 - 10:27am

Here's the scoop from my experience at Mayo for Merck's EAP of their MK-3475 PD1.

Took about a week for them to do the paper work.

They were told it would take about a week to get the medicine but they got it within a day or two.

Had to have a little over a week washout period for the Taf/Mek combo.

The dosage is 2 mg per kg of your weight. Administered by iv over 30 minutes every 3 weeks.

Merck has allocated 4500 slots. 100 have been allocated to Mayo and they have filled 42 of them.

If this trial becomes available closer to home they can transfer you.

Here's the trial number if you are interested: NCT02083484

I started it last Wednesday.

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Last reply 5/26/2014 - 12:03pm
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I was diagnosed with stage 4 on Jan 2014. I have to admit I am struggling I just see life before me as hospital appointments after appointment jumping from one treatment to the next.I am not allowed abroad or to drive or for to theme parks cos of brain mets. I find it hard cos see my life being cut short and I am not ready to go buy how can I win when terminal. Does anyone else feel like this

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Last reply 5/26/2014 - 9:43pm
Replies by: Leonardostagg, Mat, GAngel, tico1, Anonymous, Janner, G-Samsa, BrianP, Phil S, POW

Hi Everyone,

First, I want to express my gratitude and appreciation for the folks who post to this bulletin board.  I've learned so much in a short period of time from your posts.  As you know, as is often the case in life--but especially with melanoma--ignorance is not bliss.  As a result of your posts, I've felt more comfortable discussing treatment options, etc. with my doctors, family and friends.  Thank you.

As for my story, in 2003, I was 29 years old.  I had a small mole on the far right side of my chest near the right arm socket.  For the past year (probably more), it was taking on an odd shape, discoloration.  In hindsight, with the benefit of Google pictures, etc., a clear case of melanoma.  After much nagging over a period of many months (maybe more) from my parents and then girlfriend (now wife), I had the mole removed in a dermatologist's office.  (One of the reasons I had delayed (aside from youthful foolishness) is that a general practitioner had looked at the mole and said it looked "fine"--a lesson that this is not an area for general practitioners (no offense to any readers).)  A few days later, I received "the call".  The dermatologist referred me to one of the top melanoma specialists in my city (Philadelphia).  I proceeded to have a wide incision, sentinel lymph node testing, PET scan.  All were clear.  My melanoma was considered "thin" at .50mm, level 2.

For the next 9 years, I continued to see my oncologist.  The appointments were every 6 months until 2011 when I was switched to annual appointments.  I was scanned for 3 years and then we switched to chest X-rays (all of course with blood work).  The running joke with my oncologist was that I was just there to pay him my co-pay and say hello.  Melanoma was a distant memory.  I was very foolish by not being more vigilant with the mole, but I got lucky and had dodged a bullet . . . or so I had thought.

Of course, 2013 would turn out to be quite different.  I went to my routine annual appointment at the end of June with essentially only one symptom--around April, I started to develop what I thought was an under the skin-cyst on the top of my right shoulder.  My wife was 8 mos. pregnant.  We were busy.  I'm not sure that melanoma even crossed my mind.  I went to my primary care physician (different from the one mentioned above, but the same lesson still applies)--he thought it was a cyst from an in-grown hair.  However, it was on my "shoulder-bag" shoulder and was bothering me, so I went to the dermatologist--she thought it was a lipoma (a harmless fatty mass).  Even my oncologist thought it was a cyst or lipoma.  (Of course, the "cyst" would turn out to be melanoma--more on that below.)  Aside from the "cyst", two new developments at my oncologist appointment--for the first time in 10 years, I had an elevated LDH level (330) and a "spot" in my lungs on my chest X-ray.  My oncologist told me that it was "almost statistically impossible" for this to be a recurrence of melanoma.  We re-did the bloodwork to confirm--LDH level still elevated.  We did a CT scan--total disaster.  Stage IV metastasized melanoma all over the place--liver, abdomen, lungs, bone lesions, more.  

Before I move on, let me pause.  The reason I'm including this level of detail is not because I'm looking for sympathy.  I know that some readers who visit this board are Stage I, consider themselves lucky, etc.  Well, that was me (except I didn't bother visiting the board)!  You cannot be too vigilant about this disease.  In hindsight, I'm not sure what I could have done differently (aside from getting the mole removed earlier)--insisted on a periodic CT scan whether or not covered by insurance?  I don't know.  I recognize that my situation is somewhat unique in that the vast majority of Stage I patients who are clear for 10 years remain so--but there is a statistically significant portion of those folks who have a recurrence.  Be vigilant--and see the "top" melanoma specialist (not "one of the top") in your area.

Back to my story, which resumes on July 10th.  My oncologist's "plan A" was to have me screened by the NIH for one of their protocols.  I researched the TIL treatment online (thank you Bob Heffernan for your posts and your book (a great read which is available on Amazon!)).  I liked the plan, though I did switch my care over to Dr. Lynn Schuchter at UPenn (the "top" melanoma specialist in the Philadelphia-area).  Of course, it took a few weeks to get through the NIH's process.  I received "the call"--I was eligible, subject to being re-scanned at NIH.  The re-scans were a total disaster--significant tumor progression, particularly in my liver.  One small brain met.  I probably couldn't live long enough to go through the TIL process (which takes a number of weeks).  Whereas just a week or so prior, I was reviewing the "menu" of options (ipi/PD-1 trials, etc.), I now had almost none.  Fortunately, UPenn had tested me for the BRAF mutation and I tested positive for BRAF-V600E.  All of the doctors (UPenn and NIH) agreed that I needed to move immediately to a BRAF inhibitor.  (I should also mentioned that within this time frame my blood was re-tested--LDH now at 600 and most liver functions were elevated.)

Dr. Schuchter prescribed the Tafinlar-Mekinist combo (and my insurance company cooperated!).  Last Friday evening--just 8 days ago--I started on the combo.  Within 2 days, the tumor on my shoulder started to decrease in size.  By the end of the week, it was a small fraction of the size it was just a week ago.  My only other surface-level tumor--a small nodule on my left arm--totally disappeared.  Recently, I had developed liver pain/sensation.  Throughout the week, this seemed to be improving--by the end of the week, I was certain that it was improving (easier to move around in bed, pull on a heavy door, etc.).  By the end of the week, I also "felt better", had more energy, was able to work a full day without fatigue, etc.  Yesterday--just 7 days after starting treatment--I had my blood re-tested.  All liver functions are essentially normal, with LDH being only slightly elevated at 240.  In my case, so far, these are miracle drugs.  I recognize that the treatment is a "bridge treatment" and will not last, but I need a "reset" badly--and these drugs appear to be providing one.  Of course, I won't know for certain until I'm re-scanned in a few weeks.

As for side effects, I'm early in the cycle, but so far, I'm only getting joint pain (particularly in the hips).  However, this is totally manageable and a small price to pay.  For any Stage IV patient reading this--if you are BRAF-V600E positive and your tumor progression is such that other options aren't presently available, this combo seems to be a great option.  Thank you Dr. Schuchter (and her entire staff), thank you GlaxoSmithKline for developing these drugs, and thank you to all of the melanoma patients who participated in the trials for these drugs!

Please feel free to ask questions and I will do my best to respond promptly.

Very truly yours,


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Last reply 5/27/2014 - 12:48am

Hi, I feel bad posting this because I'm sure many people here are dealing with so much worse and people will think I'm overreacting but I have problems with anxiety and hypochondria and I am just living with constant worry, losing sleep and having trouble eating. I know that the only way for me to feel better is if I get a second opinion. I am just going to throw all of my fears out there, some of which are probably irrational. Please someone tell me that they are.

I'm a 23 year old male and have an atypical mole on the left side of my abdomen. It pretty much matches all of the characteristics of what all the websites say are melanoma moles. It is asymmetrical, the borders are not well defined, it has about 3 different shades of brown and is about 9mm in diameter
I had no idea that moles had the potential to be so dangerous up until about 10 days ago when my doctor noticed this mole and said it should be removed and then I did research about it after the appointment. And ever since then I've been terrified.
The only thing that I take some comfort in is that this mole is not new and I've had for as long as I can remember, maybe since birth. Also, I don't believe that it has changed much if it all. Does this dismiss melanoma? Can unchanging moles still be malignant? Is change the most important factor? How fast would it change?

Since becoming aware of melanoma, I have checked all over my body and I have found some other asymmetrical but single-colored smaller moles mostly on my forearms but one small odd rectangular one about 4mm in length on my upper-right stomach. Also, since I read about browm lines in finger/toe nails being a sign of melanoma, I seem to have a faint brown line in my right foot's pinky toenail... Is any of this concerning? Does melanoma cause more moles like these to pop up?
Also, the reason my doctor even saw the mole was because I was seeing him due to having problems with blood in my stool. Now I am worried that melanoma has spread to my colon to cause this. However, I've been passing this blood for almost 2 years and hasn't really gotten worse. If it were a tumor wouldn't it have gotten worse by now?
Finally, my last worry is that about six months ago I've been feeling pretty depersonalized (which I've always thought was stress related) and am worried, of course, that melanoma had spread to my brain. How fast would symptoms get worse if melanoma spreads to some other organ?

I believe I am having this mole removed sometime soon as well as a colonoscopy but waiting is so hard for me.

Thank you.

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