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Gene_S's picture
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Last reply 8/6/2012 - 10:07pm
Replies by: Anonymous, ToddC, chalknpens

Here is an excellent video about cancer in general, it is a must see video!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WnaBG177VIw&feature=related

Live 4 today. Thank God for all he has done for us. Looking forward to enjoying tomorrow.

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Last reply 8/5/2012 - 11:48am
Replies by: Anonymous, Jeff's Mom, saddaughter, deardad

My dad is now in a wheel chair, he has no headaches buts needs mum to carry his weight to bathroom etc. He'a had this shocking flu that robs him of sleep at night and has for the last week. He's so tired and nods off during the day. Its so hard because I know he is dying and it's so hard to know whether it's the cancer or lack of sleep from coughing all night that's making him tired.

We have booked in to see the neurosurgen on the the 16th of August for SRS. He looked at dad's MRI and wants to talk to him about SRS to try to prevent further paralysis. Personally I'm not confident he'll make it to that appointment the way things have declined so much in a week.

Sorry to give you all the this blow by blow description.

Palliative care have been fairly hopeless in getting drugs to us and mum is so determined he will die at home under her care.

I called a GP in today to see if dad could have some sleeping tablets and he recommended half dose (he's never had one before).

My bro in law said not to give it to him with bronchitis, he needs to cough.

I'm not sure what to do now...take the pill or not? He's slowing down....does anyone know what I should expect roughly from now on?

Can't believe I'm now in here in this dark place that I always put away in the future.

Thanks everyone

Nahmi from Melbourne

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Hi Kevin,

 

I have been away from the board & trying to catch up on what's happeneing!

I have been praying for you all week because I knew you would be having your MRI & Scans.

Please post an update when possible.

Stay Strong!

MaryBeth

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Last reply 8/15/2012 - 11:04pm

In April 2006, I found a black mole on my right ankle.   After having it punch biopsied by my dermatologist and looked at by pathologist, it
was determined it was 1.4 mm melanoma.   I had WLE done and no chemo/immunotherapy.    I remained fine with no new moles or anything
unusual until April this year.    I had a marble sized raised bump on my upper right thigh.    After months of testing, I found out last
week that it is a melanoma from the original melanoma.   They had to send it to the Mayo clinic to confirm with an expert.   Last Thursday,
I met with a surgical oncologist and oncologist.   I had surgery on Friday, another WLE and SLN dissection.    It turns out that there
were no traces of melanoma in the WLE site, but there are a couple of microscopic traces of melanoma (I believe 2 and they are less than 0.4
mm).   The oncologist on Thursday, said best case scenario (no melanoma in lymph nodes, all WLE site is clear and PET scan is clear),
I would have to do weekly Interferon shots once a week for a year and be PET scanned every 3 months.   My PET scan is scheduled for this
Tuesday.   I'm hoping and praying it has not spread beyond the lymph nodes in my right groin.    The surgeon already is recommending a
lymphendectomy of the right groin area, but is awaiting the PET scan to determine if surgery is required anywhere else.    I meet with the
oncologist to go over everything next Thursday and come up with a plan.   Do you have any idea what I might expect to be done?   I'm
very scared right now.  I'm 38 yrs old, married happily with an 8 month old son.   I'm hoping I can get through this.   Is there a
chance for a cure in my situation you think?   The surgeon told me 24% 5-yr survival rate, which has really scared me.   That was a general stage IV number? 

I feel okay now and I'm healthy, do you think I have many years left?

Does anyone know of a good oncologist in the St. Louis area that specializes in

melanomas?   I'm currently working with Dr. Ryan Neff on the surgical side and

Dr. Hsiao O. Hu on the treatment side.    I'm mainly going with them based on insurance tiering. 

Thanks,

Roger

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Replies by: ramannjr, Swanee

In April 2006, I found a black mole on my right ankle.   After having it punch biopsied by my dermatologist and looked at by pathologist, it
was determined it was 1.4 mm melanoma.   I had WLE done and no chemo/immunotherapy.    I remained fine with no new moles or anything
unusual until April this year.    I had a marble sized raised bump on my upper right thigh.    After months of testing, I found out last
week that it is a melanoma from the original melanoma.   They had to send it to the Mayo clinic to confirm with an expert.   Last Thursday,
I met with a surgical oncologist and oncologist.   I had surgery on Friday, another WLE and SLN dissection.    It turns out that there
were no traces of melanoma in the WLE site, but there are a couple of microscopic traces of melanoma (I believe 2 and they are less than 0.4
mm).   The oncologist on Thursday, said best case scenario (no melanoma in lymph nodes, all WLE site is clear and PET scan is clear),
I would have to do weekly Interferon shots once a week for a year and be PET scanned every 3 months.   My PET scan is scheduled for this
Tuesday.   I'm hoping and praying it has not spread beyond the lymph nodes in my right groin.    The surgeon already is recommending a
lymphendectomy of the right groin area, but is awaiting the PET scan to determine if surgery is required anywhere else.    I meet with the
oncologist to go over everything next Thursday and come up with a plan.   Do you have any idea what I might expect to be done?   I'm
very scared right now.  I'm 38 yrs old, married happily with an 8 month old son.   I'm hoping I can get through this.   Is there a
chance for a cure in my situation you think?   The surgeon told me 24% 5-yr survival rate, which has really scared me.   That was a general stage IV number? 

I feel okay now and I'm healthy, do you think I have many years left?

Does anyone know of a good oncologist in the St. Louis area that specializes in

melanomas?   I'm currently working with Dr. Ryan Neff on the surgical side and

Dr. Hsiao O. Hu on the treatment side.    I'm mainly going with them based on insurance tiering. 

Thanks,

Roger

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Last reply 8/11/2012 - 6:36pm

I had another good set of scans completing 29 months in the Zelboraf phase II trial.  I was given another six week supply that will take me past the 2 1/2 year mark.

Dick

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Last reply 8/6/2012 - 8:57am
Replies by: chalknpens, Janner, hbecker, Anonymous

I had the bone scan done last week, and met with the orthopedist this week to hear the results. While he found evidence of an old fracture (which might correlate with the beginning of the pain a few years ago in my lower right rib) he saw no indication that the melanoma had spread to my bones. That was very good news, and reassuring.

He is still, though, suggesting that I enlist an oncologist to manage my melanoma treatments from this point on. My dilemma is whether to go in to Boston to Dana Farber, or to go to my local hospital and find an oncologist there.

I feel a bit foolish going in to Boston, with what might be no reason to look for an oncologist. The dermatologist told me a few weeks ago that this was 'just superficial' stage 1 melanoma. But the orthopedist is looking at a larger picture, and further ahead, and suggesting that an oncologist would be the right doctor to help me make decisions when or if more melanoma is discovered.

This is deja-vu, reminding me of receiving the diagnosis of relapsing remitting multiple sclerosis five years ago. I agreed to the daily self-injection for treatment, even though I had not had recurring symptoms but always different symptoms. I was advised that the injections were designed to 'slow the progression' of MS, not treat any symptoms that came along. The belief was that by reducing the number of relapses, it would slow the progression.

New research is out now that denies that - even though the injections reduce the number of relapses, it does not slow the progression overall. I had been very depressed by the whole MS treatment ambiguity, and had stopped the injections on my own last year, but too late to save my careeer, as I'd been encouraged to choose 'quality of life' and retire earlier than I'd planned. I did retire, but on a smaller pension than I'd planned. Once I retired, i stopped the  injections and immediately felt better for a few months ... until this May when i was diagnosed with melanoma and other skin cancers, and the surgeries began. 'Quality of life' is different than i'd expected ... we spend most of our time and too much of our money driving to skin surgeries week after week.

I've already begun questioning the wisdom of allowing the surgeries, which leave large lines of sutures, to begin, if it is 'only superficial and stage 1.'

There are no do-overs in life, much as i wish there were.

But the bone scan showed no bone cancer.

I am not perfect, but I am enough.

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Steve2142's picture
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Last reply 10/9/2012 - 9:27am

Hey everyone -

Based on finding three microscopic deposits in a lymph node in my neck (one positive node and one negative), my doctor is adamant that I have an immediate CLND to remove 50 nodes and part of my parotid gland...although he acknowledged that observation is an option. I am not sure why but I just don't want to rush into this surgery and risk potential nerve damage...especially as thinks there is only a 3-4% chance of other nodes being positive. I welcome anyone's thoughts on this. Thanks!

Steve

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Jennholbert's picture
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Last reply 8/5/2012 - 5:27am
Replies by: LynnLuc, natasha, Jennholbert, Anonymous, jag, AngelaM

The report looks good with one little exception. I will see the oncologist in two weeks for rond two.

Here are the results...
Malignant Melanoma
Type: superficial spreading malignant melanoma
Clark's Level: II
Thickness: breslow of .26 mm
No ulceration
Dermal Mitotic Rate: 0 (this really shocked me!)
Lymphomas ulnar space invasion : none
Precursor Nevus: present
Biopsy Margins: the lesion extends close to at least one radial margin: wider margins are indicated

It appears I had a partial regression.

We found another very little spot on the palm of my hand that will need to be checked out.

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chalknpens's picture
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Last reply 8/3/2012 - 1:59pm

I am new to melanoma. Since the end of May, I've had five sites biopsied and all have come back with something: two were basal, one squamous, and two melanoma. I've had three Moh surgeries on one melanoma site, two on the second, smaller site, and full excision on the two basals. The squamous will be either excised or Moh when the stitiches come out of my second melanoma.  I'm in my sixties, and never had stitches before this. Now this summer, in the past eight weeks, I have over a hundred. It has been non-stop, with only a few weeks in between surgeries while stitches heal. Then back for the next. The stitches are all still recent, and ugly, and obvious. My back looks like it bears the "Mark of Zorro." So now does my arm.

I also have multiple sclerosis, and serious depression as a result of the MS diagnosis, which took me out of my classroom earlier than i'd planned. I've always been heat intolerant, perspiring heavily and looking nervous even when I wasn't. This, too, over time, added to the stress and anxiety that became depression. I was injecting a medication I didn't have faith in for four years, and finally last year, with the help of a counselor and anti-depressant medication, i was able to 'just say no' to the prescription for multiple sclerosis, and had just begun to feel more of my old, confident, assertive self. But it was too late to save my career. Little did I know that melanoma was yet ahead. I loved my job. I loved my colleagues. I miss them.

I'm from a large family. Some of my siblings have passed, as have my parents. But I still have five siblings. Most are a few years younger than I am. They continue to think that I can handle it. Only my husband truly "gets it." He is my rock, and always a full partner in my medical issues.

I never did manage to help my sisters understand that MS limited my energy, made my comfort level difficult to attain in summer, and cut into our financial resources. They are aware of the melanoma now, and yet still plan family get togethers on sunny beaches that are long drives away.

It is so defeating to know that there will always be a 'next time' for surgery, and stitches, and co-pays. And there will always be another social expectation of a sunny beach get together.

I guess I just needed to vent this in a safe place. It is so frustrating. They are all in their fifties or more. They are not uneducated, and not uncaring. But they are so dense when it comes to what they believe i ought to be handling and still showing up socially. I just want to walk away from them totally. But they are family. They were 'hurt' a year ago when i asked them to stop inviting me out to lunches with mediums at expensive restaurants.

I don't need lunch with a medium. I need time to sleep, and to save money for medical bills that are never ending. I want to spend awake time with my husband, or with my grandchildren and adult children. I am so fed up with them. They just don't get it.

I am not perfect, but I am enough.

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Last reply 8/4/2012 - 1:52am
Replies by: sjl, cliff61, Anonymous

My husband was diagnosed with mucosal melanoma of the nasl cavity in April.  He's had surgery for it twice with clear margins the second time plus the removal of several lymph nodes, one of which was malignant.  He's at stage 3:  T3c, N1, M0.  In addition to that they found another primary cancer, non small cell squamous in the lung. 

They've held off on radiation while they figured out the lung and he is scheduled to have part of the lung removed in a couple of weeks.  Now, everything is up in the air again.  He woke up Sunday morning with a chain of lumps along the neck and swelling.  It has gotten worse.  We saw a doctor yesterday who said it's melanoma that has spread to the skin.  Biopsies were taken with a rush order and we will get an appointment ASAP after the results come back.   I can't believe how fast those bumps showed up.  We had just seen a doctor about a week earlier and asked about a small swelling at the top of the incision in the neck and were told that it was nothing to worry about.  We were told repeatedly yesterday that the delay in radiation has nothing to do with the melanoma coming back like it did.  I thought that's why we were supposed to do radiation in the first place!  I know that radiation doesn't always work but what hope is there for my husband now?  They are talking about doing a shorter but stronger course of radiation than originally planned and possibly radiating the lung now rather than removing a piece.  He's being checked for cKIT for the possibility of Glevec and maybe another clinical trial.  The doctor we saw yesterday had asked for the testing for cKIT back in May and we found out yesterday that it was never done.  He's asked again.  We are dealing with UPMC and the Hillman Cancer Center so we've got good doctors but even there, you have to stay on top of things yourself. 

Any suggestions?  Is there any hope?

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Last reply 8/1/2012 - 8:19am
Replies by: AngelaM, natasha

I was diagnosed tonight at 7:30 by my sweet dr who wanted to give me the info as soon as she received it. I had a mole on my right calf for a good 4 years. Last Friday (7/27) I had the mole removed along with good margins. The wound has been left open ...oh how nasty it looks! :)

I was surprised how fast the results came back, considering the lab only got the biopsy yesterday morning. I was told that it is an early stage melanoma with shallow growth. Dr mentioned how deep it was, but my head was swimming. So that's good.
One slide showed that I had a regression so I'm being sent to an Oncologist for my follow up procedure and possible look at my lymph nodes.

Tomorrow I am going in to have my wound checked and to talk more. Can anyone give me a list of questions to ask my dr tomorrow and also the Oncologist?

Thank you so much!

Jennifer

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Last reply 8/3/2012 - 3:37pm
Replies by: EmilyandMike, KMT2003, Janner, Anonymous, natasha

I just don't know what to think, I really need to hear some positive thougths and stories please, I am 35, 3 kids, was a sun lover and had a mole removed from my back that turned out to be Melanoma, it is draining to my left inguinal lymph nodes, they are calling to schedule my surgery on Friday and I just don't know what to expect and what is gonna happen, my Dr. said don't worry you are not gonna die, you are young and healthy and you cought it early, yet the more research I do and the more i read the more freaked out I get,

How can you live in the future if you are regretting the past and fearing the future, I am here now...

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Last reply 12/25/2012 - 8:28pm

Heard that testing of the vaccine POL-103A is starting for Stages II and III..anyone know much about this?

One voice can make a song; one life can change the world.

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Replies by: kelty, sjl, Anonymous, Janner

I am a woman in my 60s and was diagnosed about 6 years ago with a Clark's level 11 melanoma on my forearm (Breslow .25mm - no more info.) that my husband insisted I have checked. Had WLE and was told to come back yearly. I really never gave it another thought, and certainly never expected to have another one. A few weeks ago, I was diagnosed with one melanoma in situ on my lower leg, and a severely atypical mole on my upper arm. I had WLE on each. My current dermatologist said I will need to be vigilant with self-exam, because the mole that turned out to be melanoma in situ did not look at all suspicious to her. She biopsied it because I asked her to. She is very supportive of my finding a good melanoma clinic and also seeing her at 3 month intervals. Most convenient would be Pittsburgh (Hillman?), Philadelphia, Baltimore, or Washington, but I would also consider Chicago or Minneapolis. I am looking for a center in which monitoring for new primaries via total body photography is a focus. It has been hard to find information about this because centers are emphasizing their expertise in detecting and treating metasasized melanomas. I would of course value their expertise in these areas as well, because I hope to have a long-term relationship with the center I choose, and realize I may be in a position to need those services in the future. For now, though, my focus is on catching any new ones at an early stage, and I have no confidence in my ability to do this on my own. I am hoping that one of you may know something about centers in these cities, and give me a place to start at least. I've been impressed with the level of expertise and plain old wisdon on this board. Thanks for your help!

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