MPIP: Melanoma Patients Information Page

The MPIP is the oldest and largest community of people affected by melanoma hosted through the Melanoma Research Foundation. It is designed to provide support and information to caregivers, patients, family and friends. Once you have been touched by melanoma—either as a patient or as a family member or friend of a patient—you become part of a community. It is not a community anyone joins willingly. But if you must be part of this group, you will find no better place to find the tools you need in your journey with this cancer, and the friends who can make that journey more bearable.

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Anonymous's picture
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Last reply 5/14/2013 - 5:51pm
Replies by: Anonymous, Janner, Phil S

I don't get how a person would know to even ask to get tested for a cancer gene?

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Last reply 5/15/2013 - 11:42pm
Replies by: bj63, G-Samsa

Live 4 today. Thank God for all he has done for us. Looking forward to enjoying tomorrow.

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Last reply 5/14/2013 - 1:19pm
Replies by: Anonymous, kylez, thrashter, THP

My husband will begin biochmotherapy for the first time next week.  I would love to hear feedback from anyone that has been through this.  What to expect, any tips or advice on the best way to get through this with the least amount of side effects.  We are not looking forward to this AT ALL!  Any help would be appreciated!


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Last reply 5/15/2013 - 8:04pm
Replies by: Charlie S, Brendan, jcmp, POW, randallgford, Anonymous, JoshF

.....but sometimes they do..

Remember that.


Charlie S

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Last reply 5/14/2013 - 6:41pm
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Had first treatment today. Nausea not listed as a side effect. I've been throwing up since 20 minutes after I left treatment center. Anyone else have this happen to them?

It is what it is.

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Anonymous's picture
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Last reply 5/14/2013 - 8:29pm

I havebeen on Zelboraf for 4 weeks.   My doctor started me on 3 & 3.  Reduced to 2 & 2.  Now  2 & 3 but through all my scalp, especially upper neck has itched very much.  Any suggestins?

Phil 4:13 and also "It is what it is"

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Last reply 5/15/2013 - 3:14pm
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I visit this site often and post every now and then but I really have respect and admiration for everyone on here. This is the first place I turn to. I'm posting anonomously due to the embarrassing nature. In the last week or two my bowel movements have been unusual. I say that as everything moves normal, there is no blood and I have been frequent. Anyway, I have noticed a groove or indentation in my stool sometimes. It doesn't happen all the time but it sure has me freaked out a bit. I did the obvious internet searches and come up with nothing concise. In most cases it says it can be an inflammed hemorroid or constipation. It has also mentioned poyps. I'm still a few years away from 50 but I know that doesn't remove the risk. So it had me thinking...can this be a metaststic tumor from melanoma that has settled in my colon. I had my scan about 2 months ago and was all clear. I have now been NED for over 2 years. I was never staged as I had no primary leison found...only a small bump under skin and no lymph node involvement. Anyone out there have any explanation or experience with something like this? I know I should probably see a GI or at the very least go see my primary doc but I wanted to reach out here first.

Let's work for better treatments....for a cure!!!!

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Last reply 5/14/2013 - 12:23pm

Working through my doc at Mayo I started the 14 day on/14 day off Leukine treatment on April 23 - last of the first round treatments was on May 6. Did not have any side effects the first week - started to feel it second week - but the worst was the week AFTER i was done with treatments, still feeling very fatiged/achy/headache yet today - 6 days after my last treatment. Does anyone have any experience where their side effects came after their last treatment? Just trying to gauge when I can expect to feel a little better - and what the next round of treatment might be like.

Any help would be appreciated!


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Last reply 5/18/2014 - 12:53am

Just wanted to post that my yearly scan was clear and now almost 9 years out since progressing back in August of 2004.  Blood tests will be done next week.

Lately, I have been reduced to chest X-rays on an annual basis, after going through all the frequent Ct & PET scans in the early years.

I had my recurrence from a stage 1A lesion on my right upper arm in 2004 after a 5 year interval, and then had 17 nodes removed from my right axilla with 1 macro sized positive node, followed by 5 doses of radiation, followed by 10 shots of the mel43 vaccine in a clinical phase 2 trial developed at UVA.  I started a supplement in 2004 regiment that I pretty much keep up every day with mostly items from the Vitamin Shoppe.  Lymphedema developed in my right arm and I wear a compression sleeve and sometimes I use the FlexiTouch masage machine but my arm garment is pretty much ruined from wear.

 Very few stage 1A lesions recur overall, so I just accepted the "bad luck" as my surgeon pointed out, and moved on.

So, I am thankful to God for this grace period in this stage 3B holding pattern, and I pray for the well being of all fellow patients here and their caregivers

I hope this post gives some new patients some added hope.  Since my recurrence, I see that treatment for melanoma have been changed very rapidly and I pray that more good choices for adjuvant therapy become available to patients that have a higher risk of recurrence and that the treatments for stage 4 melanoma can halt or fully eradicate this disease.

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I am stage IIIC since July 2012.  I had a relative small fatty tumor on the underside of my forearm close to elbow.  This happens to be the same side where I had the lymph node dissection late last year.  They have told me the fatty tumor was nothing and has not shown up on any scans.  Over the last 4 days though, I started having a little pain and it began to swell and is tender to the touch.  Has anyone heard of melanoma attaching or spreading to benign type tumors?  I believe I need to have it checked immediately.

Thank for any comment.

Everyday is a Gift so Fight Strong, Live Long

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Replies by: mel123, Anonymous


Hi there - I went to the doctors recently about an itchy mole that I had on my bottom.  She thought it was fine but said it was up to me if I wanted to see a dermatologist.  So I decided it would be a good idea to get it checked.

Upon arrival I was immediatly told it was 'suspcious' and she wanted to remove.  She asked if I sunbathed nude because of where it was, to which I confirmed I didn't, never have and that part of my body had always been covered up.  She clearly didn't want to believe me as she went on to say that I probably wore something more skimpy when I was younger.  I know this is not true and can see from the whiteness of my skin in that area that it doesn't see sun.  What I can tell you is I have olive skin that easily tans, I hardly have to see the sun to get colour.  I have always put sun cream on and the most of an issue I had was prickly skin on my arms and chest when I was a teenager (which was caused by the suncream blocking my pores -especially waterproof types- so I tried a million different types, until 'allergy' type sun cream was invented and helped).  So if I was going to have anything that was sun related I would fully understand if it was on my arms, legs etc that have seen the sun, but not on my botton.

Anyway that evening she took it out, said that she thought it would be fine.

A week later, I had a call to come back and was told that it was melanoma, but the good news it was less than 1mm.  I was told I needed to return so she could remove more of the area and then would need to return every 3 months for the next 3 years.  I left in total shock, not really knowing what to say.

That evening I researched all over the internet and got progressivly scared at the information.  How it could spread, life expectancy etc.

Next day I went back and had more of the area removed with 11 stiches.  Whilst I was there I told her again that I have always been covered in that area, but again she said it must have been when I was younger.  I asked a few more questions to get clarification - ie so this is a stage 1 and what about my other moles and what else will happen and left not really knowing much more than I'll get a call or letter to confirm the results from the latest area she removed in a few weeks, to book an apointment with the nurses to get the stitches removed and she'll see me somepoint in the future...

So I'm confused, I have melanoma on a part of my body that didn't see the sun, but I'm told its sun related.  I am covered in moles and freckles and always have been.  I tan easily but always put sun cream on.  I'd say most of my moles and freckels are not of an even round shape, they are all mostly of odd shapes, again they've always been like this since I can remember.

So I don't know anymore, I don't know if I should be scared that every 3 months I'm going to have more and more removed, that its spread, that I'm going to see my 2 year old grow up.  If we are going to be able to have the other child we were just planning for now.  Its all just not clear for me.

Can anyone help advise in anyway please?

Thank you.

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Hi all,


My wife has had her 3rd dose of Yervoy last week. The day after she had some bad dizzy spells. Since then she has had small what she call waves of dizzy spells.....but they do not seem to last that long...this morning so far nothing...just curious if anyone has experianced this as well. Thanks

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Last reply 8/30/2013 - 1:20pm


My father has Stage IV Melanoma.  I don't really know a lot of information, nor do I understand a lot of, but I want to help anyway I can.

I'm going to try my best to explain the situation, but like I said, I don't know a lot, so perhaps I will try and keep this more general.

The insurance company denied payment for a PET scan my father had last August because they deemed it to be "not medically neccesary."   He has appealed it and it is currently being "reviewed."  I have been trying to do some research, and believe that PET scan application would clearly be classified as Staging, something that is in fact neccesary.

I feel that this scan was clearly neccesary and the insurance company is just trying to see what they can get away with.  However, more recently, my father has had two more scans to see if it has spread further.  If they deemed the August scan as not neccesary, I'm sure they will try and do the same with the two recent ones.

Obviously, the doctors need to prove the neccesity and write to the companies, but I wanted to know what others have done in situations like this.  

Please share any advice/experience.

Thank you.

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Last reply 5/13/2013 - 6:58am
Replies by: randallgford, NYKaren

My husband had 15 days of WBR and after a week had 3 SRS treatments for 2 lesions

near spine/lower back. He lost alot of weight. He also just completed 4 weeks of Zelboraf

and his blood work has improved dramatically and he had a node sticking out on his neck that

disappeared. He has tumors on lungs, liver, and abdomen- the doc wants to wait til 8 weeks

on Zel so he will be scanned again in 4 weeks.

They have just started weaning him off steriods- he was doing 3 a day, now 2 a day for

a week, then 1 a day, then 1 every other day then off. The Doc said it is a difficult

weaning process, fatigue and dizziness, possibly headaches. But he is more fatigued than

he even was during/after the WBR. He can hardly stand up, but he is not in pain.

Can the steroid withdrawal really do this? He sleeps constantly and is so weak. Any similar experiences?

. He has been on the steroids about 2 1/2 mos. Thanks, Vicki

Never give up!

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Anonymous's picture
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Last reply 5/13/2013 - 12:37pm
Replies by: kylez, POW, washoegal

Hello everyone,

I am a "newbie"to this site. I am still learning how to use the site so forgive me if I make any mistakes. 

I think that you are so wonderful to help each other & share experiences. I am lucky that I found you and I need your help.

I am a stage 4 patient. After doing IPI, I was cancer free for over 12 months.

This week I had scans and I got devastating news. I have a "5" mm lesion of the posterior left frontal subcortical white matter. This is my first brain met and I have NO tumors anywhere else. I am very scared. Getting a brain met was my worse fear in life.

I just moved to  Southern California. I am considering crainotomy  and Novalis SRS ( not Cyberknife or Gamma Knife)

I would sincerely appreciate  any input and experience you have with Novalis SRS & crainotomy.My main concern are these 4 areas:

1.  SIDE EFFECTS- Comparing SRS & Crainotomy:  How has your experience (side effects) with SRS or Crainotomy effected your health that you still are having problems dealing with long term side effects? What is your experience with side effects

2.  STERIODS & ANTI-SEIZURE MEDS-I have read past  MPIP posts using the search function that because of side effects of SRS & Crainotomy that you have to take steriods & anti-seizure medicine. Is that true? For both the SRS & Crainotomy are steriods & anti-seizure medicine necessary? What is your experience with steriods & anti-seizure medicine.

3.  MORE THAN 1 BRAIN MET-I have heard that if you have 1 brain met, you will probably get more because more  microscope cells are highly likely in the brain. Has anyone just had 1 brain met and for how long ago was that???

4. RECOMMENDATION for a Radiation Oncologists or Neurosurgeons in SOUTHERN CALIFORNIA area that you had a good experience/outcome with and what the MEDICAL FACILITY? If you had a bad experience, I would also find that valuable information too.

Thank you so much for taking the time to read my post & to reply. I am sorry that my post so long but I have lots of anxiety over my brain met and lots of questions.


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