MPIP: Melanoma Patients Information Page

The MPIP is the oldest and largest community of people affected by melanoma hosted through the Melanoma Research Foundation. It is designed to provide support and information to caregivers, patients, family and friends. Once you have been touched by melanoma—either as a patient or as a family member or friend of a patient—you become part of a community. It is not a community anyone joins willingly. But if you must be part of this group, you will find no better place to find the tools you need in your journey with this cancer, and the friends who can make that journey more bearable.

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MichaelFL's picture
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Last reply 11/13/2010 - 9:27pm
Replies by: King, Becky, DebbieH, ValinMtl

Hello James.

I know it is already Sunday morning there in Australia, and I do not know if you will be able to come to the board today, so I just wanted to say that I will say a special toast for you and your son Michael.

As a parent, I also wanted to thank you for all you have done here both during and after, as yours was an event that no parent should have to endure, and for finding the strength to still stay on the board. I can't even begin to imagine how I would respond if it were to happen to me and my family.

"A toast to you" from the other side of the blue marble.


This information is for general patient educational & information purposes only. It should not be used for diagnosing/treating a health problem or disease. If you have or suspect you may have a health problem, you should consult your healthcare provider.

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Sharon in Reno's picture
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Last reply 11/30/2010 - 6:21pm

I'm not sure if I'm doing this right but I promised my sister that I would tell you what happened to her.I'm trying to keep that promise the best that I can..She signed on as Sharon in Reno.She told me that it was your love and support that kept her fighting.I went to stay w/her Aug.28th and she died Sept. 25th.I'm afraid to tell you how it went because there are many of you still fighting and many loved ones still hoping for NED.I will just say she was able to stay at home until 4 days before her death.I'm so thankful for hospice they kept me going and held me up when I thought I couldn't bare another moment.Sharon was 53 years old at her death and I'll be 55 this month.It was because of what we went through together that I now have made many changes in my life.She is at peace now.She left many people behind who are griefing but we are grateful not to watch her suffering any longer that was worse than the pain of not having her to hold anymore.She mostly wanted you to know how important she felt this web site was and thank you for the many times that you comforted her and advised her and gave her a safe,caring place to be when she just needed to "talk" with someone who understood what she was going through.I want to thank you also.Sincerely,Nina

To Thy Own Self Be True & Move Fast When You "Know" You Have To!!

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washoegal's picture
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Last reply 11/17/2010 - 12:51am

First the good news!  I am now 8 months NED!  Yahoo!  Quick review:  Diag Jan. 2010  3.1mm tumor RT , March 2010 SNB 2 nodes microscopic amounts of cancer, complete Lymph Node Dissection.  No other treatment.

My original Onc, who was in Santa Monica California, is now at Yale.  I followed up with the Dept head who is a brilliant man and has written tons of paper on melanoma.  However, he is not the doctor for me.  The nurse came in with the good news, the doctor follows up with  " if you survive melanoma" and starts giving statistics about recurrence rates, etc.  Boy, how to ruin a happy day! make a long story short, I don't think this is the guy for me.  If I need someone fighting for me, I'd like someone a little more positive.  Would like some recommendations:  San Francisco, Santa Monica, UCLA area, all OK.  Unfortunately, Nevada has no Melanoma specialists.



Stage 3

Life is too short to be anything but happy. Falling down is a part of life, getting back up is living.

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churchwelldana's picture
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Last reply 12/27/2014 - 12:37pm


I was recently diagnosed with stage 3 melanoma. I've had a SNB and one of the lymph nodes was positve for cancer. Now they will 
remove all the remaining lymph nodes from my groin. The nurse said the typical recovery time would be 4 weeks. Is that accurate? I'm a fourth grade school teacher and I was wondering when I might feel like returning to work.

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ChristineL's picture
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Last reply 11/15/2010 - 5:46pm
Replies by: Jerry from Cape Cod, Anonymous

I've heard about AHCC here and there (mostly there!) and was wondering if anyone would put in their 2 cents as to whether it may be worth it?  Stage IIIb, I figure I may give it a try.  My mel. onc. is skeptical, because she hasn't heard of it.  Thanks for sharing!


Fight like hell

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EricNJill's picture
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Last reply 11/13/2010 - 12:59pm
Replies by: Carmon in NM, jolainajo

Eric had the emergency Craniotomy on Saturday, November 6th.  He still has balance issues and just wants to sleep all day.  About 4 days before he had the surgery he started with hiccups around the clock and immediately after the surgery the stopped but now they have started again and I'm worried that maybe he has some swelling in the brain.

Is it normal for him to be very fatigued?  What should I expect?  Also he is scheduled to see someone on Monday for Gamma Knife, what should I expect from that as well.

Thank you guys.  I don't know what I would do without all of you.

JillNEric In OH

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davekarrie's picture
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Last reply 11/14/2010 - 2:49pm

My name is Dave, I am very healthy at 36, and I was diagnosed with melanoma yesterday after having what I thought was an innocent large mole removed.  The dr. said it was stage 4, but after reading I am hoping he meant thickness 4.  He said there were 5 stages, but he wasn't too confident.  I am going to meet with a surgeon Thursday and sounds like they want to take a larger area around the mole and test lymph nodes. Very scary for sure, and my world is now upside down.  any info would help.  I will call and get my biopsy report so I can look at thickness etc.

Live life to the fullest and enjoy each day! #noonefightsalone

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naty's picture
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Last reply 11/12/2010 - 10:22pm

I've posted a few questions a wk or so ago.  We finally got the insurance to ok a consult, what do I need to ask/demand for treatment at MD Andersson?  My ftr has brain, lung, spleen, and liver mets.  He finished his WBRT on Monday.  I did ask his current oncologist to test for BRAF and he is positive, but I do not believe any other testing has occurred.   Thanks-I want to make the most of this visit!!!  Get him on a trial and get some quality of life.

Anyone here have surgery for brain mets?  No option given here currently (just in case no response to radiation).  

Thinking for him (IF he qualifies) the PLX4032 study vs IPI.   Or will they be big advocates and informative?  here his dr knows nothing other then WBRT and temedor.  

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dian in spokane's picture
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Last reply 11/13/2010 - 9:34pm

For those following my little clinical trial, I figure it's time for an update. I had my 7th shot on Wednesday. They rotate these shots between my two thighs and my right arm, my left arm is a 'no-stick' arm. So far, my most consistant side effect to my vaccine has been a headache, which I did NOT have this time. My site reactions have consistantly gotten worse with each shot, and the reaction on my arm this time was pretty fast and continued to get worse till about this morning, but is much better tonight.

This month's reaction has given me a new empathy for those who suffer from lymphadema. My arm was swollen from shoulder to below my elbow. Last night was fairly painful, with the swelling around my elbow giving me the most problems, making it very difficult to bend my arm without pain. I'm still swollen tonight, but it's not painful anymore, and I think the itching has stopped.

I still feel like the side effects of this trial are very mild, especially when compared with other treatments and trials.

Hard to believe but I only have ONE shot left. I go back for skin tests and shots next month from the 8th the the 10th and then I am done with all of these trips to California. I feel very confident about making it through the trial without any recurrences.

This month it's been 2 yrs since I advanced to stage IV and, needless to say, I am thrilled to still be NED. I was NED for 11 months before starting the vaccine, so I guess there will never be any way to know if my continued good status is a result of the trial, or just my own good luck

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kellie1979's picture
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Last reply 11/16/2010 - 7:06am

I posted earlier this week that I had not got my pathology reports back yet from the doctor and was afraid of the unknown.  Well I got the phone call today at work that I do have Melanoma.  They want to schedule for me to have surgery to remove the area on my back, and to have tests done to assure that it hasn't spread.  I am going to go to a different doctor, I called them today and they said once they recieve the pathology from my current doctor then they will call me next week to schedule my surgery.  I still don't know the depth or anything, my doctors office didn't even know.  The pathologist called them and told them that it is Melanoma so that they could call me and let me know before the weekend.  Any advice on how to get through this from here would be great.  I am trying not to worry and hoping that it hasn't spread but every time I look at other moles that have changed recently I just worry more.  The current doctor said I need to have a chest x-ray is this standard procedure after being diagnosed?

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Carrie's picture
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Last reply 11/17/2010 - 9:45am

It's been a while since I have posted on here.  Here is a little background on my family...My mom was diagnosed with MM 3 1/2 years ago with four primary melanomas (deepest one had her staged at IIC).  She moved to Stage IIIB after several intransit mets were removed near the site of one of her primaries.  She has been NED for 2 1/2 years and is doing great!  Six months after my mom's originial MM diagnosis, my sister was diagnosed with MM with two primaries.  Fortunately, she is staged at IA.  She has been NED since her diagnosis.  Doctors have suggested there is a good possibility of our family having the familial atypical multiple mole melanoma syndrome.  We have not done genetic testing.

With that being said, I have been closely monitored by my dermatologist twice a year for skin checks.  I have a number of biopsies done with 3-4 moles being mildly to moderately atypical.  I just recently had a mole removed from my upper chest area.  My derm called me today with the results.  That mole was moderately atypical, however, the mole also had some characteristics that melanomas tend to have.  She started telling me what those characteristics were, but she immediately lost me on that.  On Monday, I'm going to get her to fax me a copy of the path report.  The following week, I'm going for a re-excision. 

I was wondering, is this normal?  She said none of my other moles that were atypical had these characteristics.  Should I request to have another pathologist look at the biopsy?  I have always thought that an atypical mole was atypical and melanoma was melanoma.  She has really confused me!  Any advice would be appreciated!



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emilypen's picture
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Last reply 11/12/2010 - 8:21pm

Normally when my cell phone rings at 8:15am in the morning, I expect to hear not so good news as my family and friends know we're not morning people.

But today it was my husbands oncologist, calling to tell us that they got all the final measurements from the latest CT scan and his tumours have shrunk by 12%, after only 7 weeks on the study drugs.


Earlier this week we were told there had been no change.... which was great as well as his disease had been really aggressive. So this was just icing on the cake.

Don't usually like to start my day crying but today they were happy tears.

Have a great weekend all.



Husband Stage IV, bone & soft tissue mets

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Last night, pathology confirmed that the lymph node removed from my neck Monday tested positive for melanoma (unknown primary).  All other pathology and my PET-CT scan are clean.

I will contact an oncologist today, but from everything I read and what my doctor says, my next step is a left posterior neck lymphadenectomy.  My doctor suggested that I would be "knocked on my back" for about a week with one more week recovery before I could return to work and activities of daily living.  I do better when I know what to anticipate.  Please help me.

I'm sure some of you have had this procedure.  How did it go for you?  What was recovery like? How long did it take to get back to a "normal" daily routine, and what was different when you did so?   What surprised you about the process?  What helped you get through it?

Thanks for your help.  I've been reading this board since Monday, and it's a wonderful community.

Stay strong, everyone.

Never give up. Never give up. Never, never, never, never, never give up. WInston Churchill It ain't over 'til it's over. Yogi Berra My 20th anniversary is only 9+ years away. Personally, I'm thinking champagne & oysters. Now I just have to get there

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Suzan AB's picture
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Last reply 11/12/2010 - 1:48am
Replies by: Suzan AB, Jenjen, Jim in Denver, Cynthia C, Charlie S, Anonymous

I have been away for some time, livin life and working to pay previous medical testing and the like.  Received some sobering news that I have some nodes/lesions/mets (? I don't know the proper terms) in my right lung.  I am  BRAF: exon 15 V600K mutation.   Please share treatments that have kept the Stage IV Warriors on the War Path.

My best to all with biggest of hugs and loads of blessings from above!  Most importantly...Many Thanks to You All Who Brave the Waters of Fear and Keep Us Informed!!!

Suzan AB  Stage IVa...well maybe Stage IVb now...Purple Painted Warrior Against Melanoma!  With a splash of bright Yellow!

Life is great, PTL!!!

Presently...One Day At A Time.

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Anonymous's picture
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Last reply 11/11/2010 - 6:42pm
Replies by: Janner, Brandi, Jim M.

I am 39 yo female with stage 1 diagnosed 6 years ago. Whithin a past 3-4 days I started to feel pressuse in my chest (around sternum) and I have now burning sensation which starts in the lower part of sternum, then moves up almost to the neck and then goes down again. I don't feel the pressure any more and probably burp more that ususally and have the hot feeling in the throat. I have never had such feeling before. Does it sound like a heartburn? I am not sure because I can not distinguish whether it is behind the sternum, in the sternum or this is skin feeling??? I am so worried. Any idea what it could be???? Thanks!

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