MPIP: Melanoma Patients Information Page

The MPIP is the oldest and largest community of people affected by melanoma hosted through the Melanoma Research Foundation. It is designed to provide support and information to caregivers, patients, family and friends. Once you have been touched by melanoma—either as a patient or as a family member or friend of a patient—you become part of a community. It is not a community anyone joins willingly. But if you must be part of this group, you will find no better place to find the tools you need in your journey with this cancer, and the friends who can make that journey more bearable.

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jnell77's picture
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Last reply 5/22/2018 - 6:29pm
Replies by: guynamedbilly

Hi. I had a small itchy mole removed last week via scrape biopsy. To my doctor, and my, surprise it came back melanoma. Now a week later I am scheduled for a wide excision of the area and a sentinel node biopsy scheduled for this Friday. Three months ago I lost a friend to Melanoma, she did not get scans yearly as she was supposed to, and I am scared to death. My path report so far only says a Clark’s of at least IV and a depth of at least 1.0. The scrape did not grab a clean margin I suppose? My surgeon, on consult, did not seem very concerned and he was basically telling me that I should try to settle myself a little. He did a quick check of axillary and inguinal nodes and didn’t say much. So, now everywhere he checked I feel like it’s bumpy and swollen and painful....I think my mind is playing tricks. Has anyone else had the feeling they are going crazy because They assume that the cancer is everywhere? 

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patrick212's picture
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Last reply 5/22/2018 - 5:51pm

Hi – I’ve been browsing this board for a while, so it’s probably time to come forward and say hello!

Pardon me if my lingo is not quite proper…  I was diagnosed with stage IIIc metastatic melanoma (T3cN1aMx) in February 2014 at age 38. The tumor on my back was removed, and later, so was a huge patch of skin. I underwent a sentinel lymph node biopsy under my right arm, which wound up being positive for melanoma. I soon had the remaining lymph nodes in the area removed -- 2 out of 12 of which contained melanoma.

At that time, they also discovered a few cancer cells in the tissue surrounding the lymph nodes, so I had a few weeks of radiation which extended from the site of the initial tumor, under my right arm, and partly across my chest.

My first post-surgery/post-radiation CT scan that October showed no evidence of disease (yayyyyyyyyy!), and that happy trend continued for four years, until two months ago.

After a routine CT scan in March 2018 (at age 42) showed a large abnormality under my LEFT arm – a needle biopsy revealed it was a melanoma recurrence. I went back into surgery last month to remove it, as well as the other lymph nodes in the area, none of which contained melanoma.

My surgical oncologist recently offered Opdivo as a treatment option – though he said that, personally, if he was in my situation, he would play a “wait-and-see” approach instead. Of course I’m not a medical professional, but my thinking is that if I have rogue cancer cells in this one lymph node that suddenly multiply after four years of NED, it seems likely that I probably have other other melanoma cells hanging out somewhere in my body.

Have you been in a similar situation? What did/would you do if you were in my shoes? Thanks in advance for any support or advice you may have.

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Last reply 5/22/2018 - 5:47pm

Had my monthly oncologist visit this am. He said my 5th petscan shows all the tumors are shrank, the latest new one is 'non measurable!"

Brief history, stage 4 metastatic melanoma!  Diagnosis a little over a year ago, starting with xray that showed lung mass, the ct scan, then petscan which showed 7 tumors throughout glowing. Armpit, groin, chest, lung mass, node by pancreas. And one on lower back to right and above waist. MRI clear. I had 3 of the 4 combo treatments, yervoy/opdivo. Then liver enzymes toxic. 5 months of prednisone, then started 1mg of opdivo maintenance which is a very low dose. First time my dr prescribed such a low dose. He was concerned with the side effects.

Wow i thinlk we can say i am NED!  Thank you Lord!  And thank you Immunotherapy.  And thank you all for sharing on this forum and helping me and others on this journery.  I recently read on this forum about someone who was NED who developed pancreatitis on maintenance treatment.  So i know i am not healed, and the beast can raise his ugly head again.  But for now I am good!  Still have wiped out thyroid, on 125mg of synthroid now.  I take glucosamine chondrotite for my osteoarthritis.  I had it before but now it's worse. Will be glass when weather warms up and i can get my water aerobics going again.

Every Dr appt i tell Mr Wang, Kaiser Woodland hIlls, someting that i learned from this forum.  I think I am education him lol!

Thank you all for your support and advise.  And am happy to shre how it helped me.  It was because of this forum I knew that 3 of the 4 combo treatment was ok.  That the enegizer bunny kept working anyways.  And what to do for  my rashes/hives.  It has really helped. God Bless  you all, Sharon

PS My neighbor said it was my daughters dog that cured me ha!  3 yr old Sadie, labradoodle who won't leave my side.  I live in a studio by Michele and she shares her dog with me. 



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Coragirl's picture
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Last reply 5/22/2018 - 3:51pm

Today, I had a conversation with a friend about what was going on with my husband. I don't understand why people don't know what to say, just say I'm sorry, it sucks anything but you need to get your shit together because your husband is going to die! Wow. Needless to say I will not be speaking with this person anymore. She doesn't know anything! She doesn't know about immunotherapy, or the experience and expertise of my husband's doctors. Of course when she said this to me I just broke down, it is only now that I am thinking of all the things I could have said. I just needed to get that off my chest. Thank you for reading. I am going to go and read about all the amazing survivors on this board now, maybe send her a few. 

Amie Taylor

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Last reply 5/22/2018 - 2:57pm
Replies by: Nanners10, gopher38, cjm22

Hi Family, boy am i messed up, as i told you, i started the combo ipi/nivo last Friday {5/11/18} and now on day 10 days later the nausea is worse {now with vomiting} my apitite is completly gone, if it wernt for my wife making me drink Ensures, for one, it gave me something to throw up {excuse the visual}, two, it put some much needed nutrients in me. I think my last meal that i realy could eat was days ago, 2 maybe 3 days ago??...Iv had real bad headaches, not constant, just when i lean down, a throbbing type pain...

 Can i ask, does anyone know if THC & CBD can help with side effects? please reply, iv read that it does but would rather hear it from the horses mouth...

 You all take good care, i know im trying....Mike

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Last reply 5/22/2018 - 1:42pm

Hi all! I just had my 6th Opdivo treatment and it was the worst one yet.  The fatigue has gotten worse each time. After this last one, I slept for 26 hours, got up and ate, and then slept for 9 more. Is that typical? Does it keep getting worse? I keep hoping it will even out and I will adjust at least a little bit, but so far it has just gotten worse each time! I’m having it every other week and don’t want to go to monthly in case it’s worse. Is there any hope in sight??

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Last reply 5/22/2018 - 12:34pm

Hey friends! Hope you're enjoying the weekend so far. 

I wanted to update about my knees. All throughout the 2 years of treatment I had pretty crappy joint pain. It was not new, I had dealt with some level of joint pain prior to any immunotherapy, but it definitely got worse after infusions, especially my knees. 

Since I stopped treatment in November most of my joints have been doing fine, except my knees. They continue to hurt like the dickens so my PCP had them x-rayed, didn't show much besides some cartilage loss. So, I did 6 weeks of physical therapy in the hopes I can strengthen my legs to support my knees better. The left one is doing better but the right knee continued to hurt and not feel any improvement. Next step I figured would be to see an orthopedic surgeon to get a cortisone shot. She ordered an MRI and BAM... lateral meniscus tear and a cyst! An injury like that was literally the furthest thing from my mind. I never did anything that I can recall that would have caused a tear. I was thinking osteoarthritis this whole time. 

So, surgery to repair it will happen in July. I have many miles left to put on these knees so I hope once she gets in there it is repairable. Also means I will be stuck at home for 4 weeks afterward recovering... but hey.. I will take knee injury surgery over the scary unknowns of cancer surgery any day!

My next set of scans is a month away... it's been very strange going almost 6 months without scans. I am trying not to get anxious about those just yet..

Since this month is melanoma awareness month and I have an awesome job with an awesome primary care company, I was able to send out a huge email blast to all the doctors and nurses in the company reminding them about melanoma and to bring up skin checks with their patients. I gave them handouts to give to their patients and a page of facts. It was amazing the response I got, how grateful they were to have that information. There are many facts about melanoma that a primary care provider does not know, and I had many of them respond with, "WOW I didn't know that! Thank you!". There is even a sign at the front desk about melanoma awareness month so patients can see it as they check in. My small mission to bring awareness and to make skin checks a regular conversation between all primary care providers and their patients has begun.


As always, sending all the positive vibes and hugs to those that need it right now. 


Jenn - stage IV NED - Completed Ipi/Nivo (Yervoy/Opdivo) + surgery

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Oldwife's picture
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Last reply 5/21/2018 - 1:37pm

In my family, i do all the research, learn the terminology, meds, treatments etc. etc. DH is alternately depressed, manic, happy, sad, scared, resistant, works like crazy, crashes, reads a lot to deny, wants to talk, doesn't want to talk, and so it goes. He's sometimes fragile and scared of dying, and I'm supposed to be helpful, kind, supportive, understanding, fill the holes, cook whatever the latest foods/diet he's trying, let family know what is happening, help with all projects but not trespass on his control of them. I'm trying, and submitting myself to this journey with all the positivity and prayer i can. We just found out his dear doggy has cancer, and it can't be cured. Dog is the wonderful happiness coach here, and it has been a blow for both of us.

But, I do feel alone in many ways. No one wants to hear distressing 'details'. My heart goes out to all of you, whether you have melanoma or are the family member of someone who does. We are all alone more than anyone can guess. Thank you for listening.

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Anonymous's picture
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Last reply 5/21/2018 - 11:50am

I just read that Senator McCain's gioblastoma newly diagnosed is related to his previous melanomas going back to 2000.  Really scary!  I hate thinking that the mole on my shoulder that was removed last year could potentially pop up as brain cancer in a decade or so.   This disease scares the snot out of me.  My first year post-cancer was full of denial.  So far this second year is more anxious and frightening for me.


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John T's picture
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Last reply 5/20/2018 - 11:08pm

Hi All...

Quite understandably most posts in here are about reoccurrances,new issues,diagnoses etc. People fortunate enough to have avoided all these (due to positive outcomes of treatment), tend to not report back, as nothing to report...skewing the stats!

I would just like to remind everyone there is hope and are positive stories.

I got the old "80% chance of you not being around in 5 years" story.. (Stage 3b lymph node)...but 10 years later still hanging around, no reoccurrances,no drama.. (Had only surgery at the time,no other treatment).

Not trying to claim or prove anything (and hopefully not tempting fate!)..just sharing a positive story and hope to anyone who might benefit from either..

Happy to answer any questions.

Stay strong

John in Bangkok.

Live strong (Borrowed from my man Lance Armstong!)

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Anonymous's picture
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Last reply 5/20/2018 - 9:39pm

Has anyone else been diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes after starting Opdivo treatment?  I was after 3 treatments.  Boom there it was!  Good news is that I have been in remission since Mar 2017!


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Coragirl's picture
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Last reply 5/19/2018 - 8:54pm

My husband had his first infusion of Opdivo a week ago today. He is feeling good and hasn't really had any side effects except a little fatigue the day after the infusion. Do side effects increase with each infusion? If he isn t experiencing side effects does that mean it's not working? I hope I'm not asking dumb questions. Thanks any feedback is appreciated.

Amie Taylor

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Hukill's picture
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Last reply 5/19/2018 - 7:13pm

I had CT and MRI last week, all came back NED. Also had dose numbers 45 and 46 which was my third double dose of nivo. I have been NED since last August and will continue on the double dose until August and get another set of scans. If I am still NED we are stopping the nivo which would be 52 doses. Those who are just starting on the combo or just nivo side effects means your immune system is probably reacting.

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Last reply 5/19/2018 - 5:56am

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Last reply 5/19/2018 - 12:49am
Replies by: cjm22, Anonymous, dmarie

Hi again. I just posted about dry heaves, and I wanted to post separately about husband's OTHER odd issue - pain with urination. Apparently there is blood in his urine - (yes, his med team is aware, but does not seem super concerned about this). 

We are in the proceses of getting him a referal to Urology, but apparently it is a process. (SO frustrating!) 

An 'unremarkable' finding in scans from November and again in February show a polypoloid lesion in his kidney - but it was unchanged from Nov to Feb, so they think it could be a kidney stone. 

He is drinking LOTS of water (but always has). He has terrible difficulty peeing lately - not a lot of output, and VERY painful when trying. He feels as if he cannot drink enough water. He had labs done yesterdday and everthing was normal. They did give him IV hydration just in case. And afterward, he still could not pee.

He was prescribed pyridium to help alleviate some of the discomfort, but that is a very temporary fix, and only barely takes the edge off anyway. 

My question is has anyone had anything like this? If it was kidney stones, what did they do? Any (quick) home remedies work for anyone? 

Thank you so much,


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